We take a temporary break from our relationship and he is in relationship with another girl after a month of our breakup.. what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

He cheated on me and confess that i told him that i will forgive him but i need time.. so i broke up with him temporary to heal from cheating.. but i knew that he is now with another girl !!

We are in ldr

[Anonymous]

Honestly she was probably already in the picture and most likely the woman he cheated on you with. I hope that instead of a break you leave him for good. Trust in general matter so much in a relationship but in an LDR it’s like a lifeline, you rely so much on him being faithful since you can’t fully be there with them. Clearly this guy isn’t suited for this sort of relationship, so wash your hands of it as well.

[Spongebobssocks]

Leave him. He doesn't care about you. If he did he wouldn't have cheated in the first place and definatly not be with someone else now.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO!

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Wtf? How can you stay with a loser like that. Don't you have any self respect? Dump him, burn all his stuff and tell him you bit your lip to keep from laughing at his 3 incher.

[Asker]

He was my first love.. first experience.. i loved him so much and i thought i should protect my first love.. i am affraid to think that i wasted 8 years of my life waiting for him

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Unfortunately, if you keep going like this, you're wasting more of your life on somebody that doesn't deserve it and doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Better to be alone without a cheating scumbag and hopefully find someone that actually loves you rather than stay in a toxic situation.

[genericname85]

well obviously that means it's time to move on.

[devilish-cutie]

he is a cheater and so yeah now you know even tho you forgave him that he will do it again so there is no hope

[Anonymous]

He was likely talking to her long before he broke up with you.

[LazerBean]

It means you need to move on

[DextroShade]

Long-distance relationships are a joke.

[KingOfMe1]

Not in every case.

[DextroShade]

@KingOfMe1 unless one is planning to move to where the other lives within a year they are.

[KingOfMe1]

Not true man. Just your opinion and limited experience.

[Asker]

We were planning to marry this year.. and i onow him 5 years before he travelled we were together at univercity.. so why it is a jok?

[DextroShade]

If you aren't in physical proximity and having sex on a regular basis it's not a functioning relationship. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it is a requirement.

[Asker]

But if you find one that you can live with him happily for ever.. you dont lose them for sed requirement and for temboral time !! We Are not animals ! We can control ourselves

[DextroShade]

Expecting a guy to go years without sex because you can't be bothered to be near him is incredibly stupid and unrealistic. Whatever reason you have for not being near him is obviously more important to you than he is, so he should not spend years passing up sexual opportunities for someone who doesn't put him first.

[In_Trance]

There is no temporary break. You're in or out