I used to like a guy in my office and even proposed him. He rejected me as he thought we were not compatible. Then he resigned, went away. However, we were still using the same software cloud on our devices. I chased him a lot though but he never reciprocated. He was also annoyed with me and many months of ours had not gone very good in terms till his resignation. However, I was using his software cloud for office.
In Feburary out of one misunderstanding, we had an argument and I told him that I dont need his help or software. He replied to my email that I should not contact or call him again ever. Later that night I realised I wasn't supposed to misbehave with him. I sent him an email apologising for my wrong act. However, as always, he never replied.
After a few days, I needed an access to the software cloud and so I reached out to log it in. However, its code went to his email address. I called him but he had already blocked my cellular number in anger. I asked two colleagues of mine to contact him as my number was blocked. I tried to call him from another landline too but he didn't attend. He delivered the code to one of the colleagues (making it sure that he did not want to speak to me) and told him to assist me in logging it in. Even at that time I sent him several emails requesting to unblock my number just for a min to deliver me the code. However he did not. After when he delivered me the code via a mutual coworker, I still sent him an email writing "thanks". Afterwards I never contacted.
When the annual duration was over after a month span, I happened to get a new software. I began to miss him recently as I had feelings for him. But I was sure that my number would be blocked with him. I just attempted to dial his number. Astonishingly, ring went and it was not blocked! He never called me back. But I wonder why he unblocked when he already blocked me? Did he realise that he over reacted? Or he still believed I would call him so he was himself waiting?
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Tbh I would just leave it be. Whether he blocked you or unblocked you. Best to leave it alone. Don't question it just keep on moving.
All the best 🥰
But only I wish to know if he realised his mistake too. I was always a very loving person towards him. He rejected my love. I proposed him. I really liked him.
What was his mistake?
Like, I always used to be a first person who would apologise for my mistakes towards him. I would never even take a day to say sorry. Because I really cared about him and his feelings always.
Tbh, it sounds like he was tired of you chasing him. He was tired of you going after him when he showed no feelings towards you.
He might have assumed the cold shoulder would give you the hint.
Tbh, your behaviour could be seen as harassment.
He blocked my cellular number as well because I had also said to him very hurtful words like nobody speaks good about him in the department etc. And I was an only person who was always backing him. Blah blah. He read that email and wrote to me, "Please do not contact or email me again for anything." In the heat of the moment I wrote to him, "As if I would. I won't." It might have hurt him too. And could have made him block my cellular number. But then when I tried to reach him again for assistance in the software, I called and found my number blocked. He did not want to talk to me. As I mentioned in the detail above. But I still wrote an email, "Thanks". Then I never contacted him for like two months. I am surprised that I dialed my number a few days ago and I was expecting it to be blocked but it was not. I dont know why he unblocked me later then.
Yes, but then if he was so uncomfortable then why he unblocked?
You are harassing this man. Only contact him for work-related matters from now on.
He unblocked you because you weren't contacting him daily and he can't block your number because you may need his help with work in the future.
It's nothing more than that.
No. I am astonished that why he unblocked my number when there is no official connection between us anymore? Like at that time, I needed his assistance and he never unblocked me. Then when I never needed his assistance, he unblocked me! It's surprising.
He might assume you may work together in the future? Or perhaps he felt bad for blocking you? I am not sure. I wouldn’t read too much into it.
No, even in the future there's no way for us to be in close proximity. I have analysed all parameters and wondering why would he unblock. Even when I called, he never called me back because he might have never expected to receive a call.
Tbh he may not want your number in his phone at all. When you block a number you can still see that number.
Or he might be gaining evidence against you to go to the police
In that case, my WhatsApp is still blocked with him till today. So I don't think so it's about due to this reason. And yes, no chance of police matter here. That's not the case. I just wonder how come he unblocked me from cellular number. Maybe he wanted to wait if I'd try to reach him again ever or not. Don't know.
He never reciprocated your feelings, nor did he tell you he had a girlfriend. You need to give up him. He hasn't contacted you. He doesn't feel the way you feel about him. And, might I be frank, it seems like you have formed an obsession with him.
I am not going to reply anymore. There's nothing more I can do here.
All the best 🥰
He loves and you hates you at the same time.
Tug of war
Your sentence has a mistake. "He loves you and hates you at the same time." Is this what you meant to say? I also feel that he was always confused about me.
Yes. My bad
Then why he never reached out? Infact when we were working together, he rejected my love and feelings at that time. But I don't know why he would unblock me when there was no scenario for me to have contacted him. I mean why he bothered even? When it had remained blocked with him. Why would he care to unblock it.
He’s shooting his shot again…
How come? You mean he wanted to know if I would still come after him or not? Like to observe my sincerity etc.
Yeah he gave it time to see if that would change things. Then came back to see what’s up
Dude, stop pulling her leg. He wants nothing to do with her. He doesn't want her and may be gathering evidence about her harassment of him to go to the police.
No lzzy.
Guys come back to see for one reason or another. It could be that when she wanted him he had a different girl in mind and now that he’s on a dry spell he’s hitting her up cause he remembered that she wanted him
@Izzy_3991 - No, it was never harrassment. There could be some girl factor. I also feel. And as a person, he was never bad. Yes, he had some attitude problem. But I feel I could not handle him as it was less than a year of us working together. I was not sure of his temperament and nature. I was naive and inexperienced in most of the things. But he used to feel the love vibes from me and he often used to say to me that I was hurting him as well. He was giving me a cold shoulder so that I start disliking him. But from heart he used to care for me. Once, I got dizzy and got collapsed at the workplace and was taken to the medical center. He got very upset for me. So if I was harassing him, he shouldn't have bothered if I lived or died. I also feel, there was some other girl in his life.
He sounds toxic.