I'm feeling heartbroken, would this be considered emotional cheating?

[Anonymous]

I checked my husband Facebook and he was talking to to this young woman.. he said, "Hey beautiful... I will like to get to know you... that's if you are not married." Does that mean he is not interested in me anymore? He never calls me beautiful. It hurts. Should I let him go?

[Anonymous]

I am going through the same thing. It doesn't feel well or good at all to find that out. But if you do the same shit back to them they get really pissed off. Almost like your feelings don't mean anything but their feelings do. How long have you been in the marriage for

[Anonymous]

ouch... yeah that's a big red flag and a definite cause for divorce. if you don't believe in divorce, at least get counseling. but i could never trust my partner again if i saw that. he has wondering eyes, he has moved on or got bored of your relationship. it happens.

and yes, that is cheating.

[Avicenna]

That is really serious emotional cheating. Almost as bad as physical cheating.

[Ironic_Method]

Cheating is whatever your spouse considers cheating, but I feel that would be something that most people would consider cheating.

[Jmmmfi4]

Doesn't look good