Why would someone follow your Instagram but remove you from his followers list?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We were still following each other on Instagram.

He no longer uses the Instagram,

So, I never unfollowed.

Today, I was checking my followings and I noticed I no longer follow him, even though I never unfollowed him.

He is still following me though, why?

I don’t spend much time on instagram and don’t know how it works.

Why would he keep following me but not allow me see his profile? 🤣

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6 mo

I just don’t understand why is he trying to keep his life private from me, while seeing everything I do.

He could block me, but instead he just limited me to see his new life.

It’s not like I was checking it. I thought he never used that account anymore.

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6 mo

I don’t message him, I am having my space, not bother him at all. What’s his problem.

[Still-alive]

My gut instinct is that he probably just isn't aware he's still following you.

Unless he tells you why we really can't tell you anything unfortunately. so your guess is just as good as mine or anyone elses here.

I personally wouldn't read much into it though.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He could unfollow me directly, he’s following me and I am posting things, he’s just following 40 people, so I am sure he knows I am one of them.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just blocked him, I don’t want him to mess with my mind even after he’s out of my life.

[Still-alive]

probably for the best. he may not have even noticed though.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t care if he did or didn’t notice. He’s now blocked and I feel very happy.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am sure he was aware he was following me, he wants to be the one to control my life from far and me to know nothing about him.

So, let’s make it even. He’ll know nothin About my life either.

[Still-alive]

Sounds like there's a story with this guy we aren’t aware of.. so in that case maybe it was on purpose

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He is quite manipulative, he never does anything randomly.

[TonyMetal___86]

Is he your ex boyfriend? If he is than i don't know why do you still care about what he does or why even thinking of him at all...

In my opinion, as long as you're questioning things about him or even thinking about why he did this and that than it means that you really haven't got over him yet so this will block you from having a new life since you still have pages from your past in your book...

[spartan55]

My eyes glazed over about halfway through this... I didn't think you bought into the perceived value of social media..

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t use Instagram often, I was just checking who I follow, I haven’t seen it for ages.

[Billlewis]

Because he has a girlfriend who follows this site, but she probably won't find you on Instagram.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If he has a girlfriend why does he keep following me

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Just blocked him

[love_conquers_lust]

I go back and forth sometimes playing with the privacy settings here. I don’t know a thing about Instagram.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Isn’t it weird that he doesn’t allow me see anything about his life, while being able to peek on mine?

[love_conquers_lust]

Maybe your life is more interesting than his. Maybe you intimidate him. Maybe he doesn’t want to become another hapless mantis. Maybe he wants to live to see another sun rise in the East and set in the West.

Or maybe he just misclicked a setting because phones were built for girls with dainty fingers. Or he didn’t want to be bothered by anyone but still wanted to see what other people he was interested in were doing.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just blocked him.

So, he will no longer see.

I know I don’t intimidate him, he knew me better than I knew myself.

What kind of assumption is it that he would engage to a woman who intimidates him?

[love_conquers_lust]

I think it’s a reasonable one if you put off Femme Fatale vibes. That would make you like a wild tiger inside captivity. Beautiful to behold from a distance, but it is potentially lethal to jump inside the tiger pit and to get a better view.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why would you propose to such woman?

He proposed me because he trusted me and loved me and wanted to spend his life with me.

He even disliked me being nice to him, he wanted me to always be like you see on my profile photo.

He didn’t like me being soft or gentle, which I was.

He told he was Joker and I was his Harley Quinn.

I think he was a wild tiger too,

And as untamed as I was, I can tell you that my love to him made me much better of a person than I have ever been.

He didn’t love me because of that though, he liked me to be a Femme Fatale 24/7.

Now, how can I be lethal, if I may know?

Do my eyes look that intimidating to make you think that?

I don’t always look like that.

[love_conquers_lust]

That’s what a Femme Fatale is. An archetype that lures unsuspecting men with her charm and feminine beauty to their doom. The movie Gone Girl is an example of one such woman.

You bring up Harley Quinn. I’m reminded of this clip. It made me sad:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DM0j9mLD6g8

But I don’t think you’re a Harley Quinn. I don’t think you would tolerate the love of your life hurting other people for their own enjoyment just to maintain your relationship. Is this not true?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Gone girl?

No.

I have never been compared to that. I am not a psycho :)

If you think you can tell a “gone girl” with her looks, you’ll definitely end up with one.

She won’t look like a femme fatale, she will look like a girl next door, with cute big eyes and a round face.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Also, I never chased him. It was him, who chased me hard and loved me the way I was,

That’s why I loved him.

Because he didn’t always see me as a femme fatale, he instead used to read me bedtime stories and song me lullabies that he made for me,

He called me his little angel,

Even If I don’t look like one, he made me feel like that.

And why do you think I am one of the crazy exes who hurt people who made them feel loved?

I’d rather hurt myself than hurt my loved ones.

And you do judge a book by the cover…

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

As well as you sound like a man who is scared,

I’d never want to be with a man who finds me scary

Lol, why would anyone fond you scary because of your appearance

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not a Harley Quinn, both of us helped people, with volunteering and donations.

[love_conquers_lust]

It’s just one example.

“The femme fatale is one of the most mesmerizing of sexual personae. She is not a fiction but an extrapolation of biologic realities in women that remain constant.“

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femme_fatale

You got that kind of power to potentially be one. Your photo is stunning. With great power, comes great responsibility.

[love_conquers_lust]

“ Lol, why would anyone fond you scary because of your appearance”

I absolutely think women find me scary when they first see me before getting to know me. At my size, it would be unwise not to. You know women have good emotional instincts, I know you do.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t think I am what people think of me. Sometimes I don’t feel any power to be honest.

And I think my image is nothing else other than an attempt to cover myself up and not let people see that I actually don’t feel like I am anywhere close to the person people think I am or I choose to show people.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

One day I told my brother

“You should be smart and let people think you are silly.”

He told me the truest thing I’ve heard about myself,

“You though, are silly, and let everyone think you are smart.”

I think I could say the same about me being “strong” or “lethal”. I am none deep down.

[love_conquers_lust]

You say you're not strong. It takes strength to admit that. So, is it even possible for you to not be? Because that statement doesn't make it so.

I'm glad to hear you're not lethal. So should I drop the Fatale and just use Femme? Although, the women in my country would smack me if I reduced them to a piece of meat by calling them "woman" on a first name basis.

Why did you change your profile? I liked your old description.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I had a map next to my bed in childhood,

I woke up looking at Solomon Islands every single day for years,

that’s why I put it up here,

I changed my bio because I feel like I have talked too much on here, I want to restrict showing myself so much.

And thanks for thinking I am strong, I don’t want to be strong. I have never wanted. I also have never had a choice to be anything but that.

As for Fatal Woman, you can keep the “Fatale”. Because I can be that if you compare me to Gone Girl again 😂

[love_conquers_lust]

Apologies, Ms. Femme. How's that? Or would you prefer La Femme, THE Woman? That's not pretentious, is it?

Comparing AND contrasting. I didn't say you were her, it was just an example I pulled from that page, I vaguely recollect the plot. I recall a woman doing what she had to do to keep her relationship together, or at least anyone from being with her spouse. Although, that photo of yours looks awfully like security footage of a beautiful woman pulled out of a case file.

On your profile, that's your right and our loss. Hopefully we prove ourselves trustworthy again.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I still like this photo,

I feel like it shows some part of me.

Not going to change yet.

What makes a person look like being pulled out of a case file? 😄

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Apologies are accepted.

[love_conquers_lust]

Oh, the photo looks like it's CCTV footage. Like from a cold case file, unsolved mystery. Something they'd release for a womanhunt where the suspect is still at large.

Are you at large, Femme? Luring unsuspecting guys with your charm and looks?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Okay, stop being scared. Changed the pic.

[love_conquers_lust]

Oh, wow. You are preeeeetty. You do a good job with your pictures.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I like that previous pic more though, I am just by myself there and look the way I want, not the way people want to see me.

[love_conquers_lust]

What is the way you want to look? I like to see women smiling. I think it's a great motivator to give them reason to do so.

Do you have dimples?

[Lj0011]

Maybe delete SM?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just blocked him

[Lj0011]

Fair enough. How's everything going?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Everything’s great, why?

[Lj0011]

I just remember speaking to you ages ago