I feel like it makes it harder because love presumes trying to work on things to work them out. Sure, we had some big different life goals like on kids, marriage, etc but to me those were all negotiable on, but she didn't seem to want those things in general probably because she's younger.
But still, why even say you love someone then break up and how should I feel about that? It's like I feel we should work things out but she doesn't want to so how is that even "love?"
Man that sucks bro. First breakups are always the hardest. If she said she loved you but then broke it off anyway, that doesn't really seem right. I mean love is about working through stuff together ya know? Kids and marriage are big things but lots of couples figure that stuff out later.
Sounds like maybe she just wasn't ready for a serious relationship. Which is fine, but then she shouldn't have said the L word if she wasn't commitment. That's just messing with your head, ya know? I'd probably feel confused and hurt too if a girl did that to me.
My advice would be to take some time and do things to keep your mind off it. Hang with your boys, play some video games, whatever you're into. The pain will fade over time. And who knows, maybe you dodged a bullet. You'll meet someone else someday who knows what they want and will be there for the long haul. Stay strong man!
Be happy she is such honest!!!
The earlier the better.
Wouldn't be better if she'd told it to you 10 years later.
You both have now the chance to find your new love.
Let time heal your heart. Then you can find your love.
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