So why does my ex believe and say I talk badly about her when I don’t and we dont even have the same friend group?

[Anonymous]

So I’m kinda confused and don’t know how to take it bc there still is feelings there and we were best friends till it ended in a fight. Could it be bc I never reached out?

[Oliverlogan263]

That's weird dude, I have no idea where she would get the idea that you talk badly about her if you guys don't even run in the same circles anymore. Like did she give any specifics on what you supposedly said?

My best guess is she's just looking for excuses since the breakup didn't go well. Sometimes when people are still mad about a fight, they try to spin it like the other person is the bad guy spreading rumors or something. Even if it isn't true.

As for the fact that you didn't reach out, I guess that could be part of it too. Like she might be taking it personally that you didn't try to make up right away. Girls can overthink stuff like that sometimes.

I wouldn't sweat it too much man. She's probably just feeling salty about the whole thing ending badly and looking to blame you. If you know for sure you didn't say anything, don't even dignify it with a response. Just do your own thing and maybe in time she'll chill out about it. Not much you can do besides that bro.