Why does wife get sarcastic when I scream at her for her weaponized incompetence? Why can't she shut up? I take great Offense to her sarcasm? ?

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She does everything wrong. Puts everything in the wrong spot. . i can't help her because It takes me too long to clean anything to my standards. i three away all of her spices because I hate any seasoning on food and even salt. She bought new ones and put them in her office.

I do clean the shower twice a day and toilet 3 -5 times a day. because I don't want germs from her. she refuses to clean it after every use. And it's her job because I work more than she does.

She cleans when I am not there and then I get back I yell and bang on her office door and she says sarcastic stuff back to me. Why can't she just shut up while I yell at her for a couple hours.

She doesn't park straight enough. Mother said she should be ashamed.

I have to nag her to put the leash on the correct hook and take the dog out every hour. She lets it out 3 times a day that's it. I have a worry it will pee on every where. It never has but it is a dog.

She leaves a trail everywhere she goes.

I am not allowed in the kitchen to watch her cook so I can make sure she does it correctly.

She puts the clothes on the wrong setting and we can't put them on other settings which aggravates me to no end. I don't think the other settings works well. i think they are broken.

She said she can't fix the settings well because I keep a laundry basket full of power tools on the dryer. She should move them. They are not that heavy.

She said good luck with that. she should not be so afraid of hurting herself. If I don't like how she does everything I can do it myself.

This especially pisses me off.

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She refuses to redo it. I hate her food I have to wash out all the seasoning. but I can't cook. Even when orders out it's never exactly the way I want it. She should know. I shouldn't have to tell her. Weaponized incompetence.
Why does wife get sarcastic when I scream at her for her weaponized incompetence? Why can't she shut up? I take great Offense to her sarcasm? ?
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