My ex said he doesn’t wanna give the wrong idea if he hangs out with me?

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Me and my ex broke up two weeks ago since then we saw each other twice. First the second time we saw each other he slept over acted like we were back to us. Then said it didn’t change anything. Last night he said he didn’t wanna give me the wrong idea if he hangs out with me but everytime I ask him if he wants to he avoids saying no. Is there hope he will come back around

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

That means he wants his cake and eat it too.

But it's a manipulation to make it sound like it's you that's doing it not him..

If you let him hang out with you he's just going to hurt you again and I think you know that.

And then he's going to blame you for allowing it to happen

TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry but no, and to be honest (and blunt?) In the long term it's going to really hurt if you believe it will! Have you at least discussed and fixed the reason for the break up?

sadstrawberry · Accepted Answer

He is ok to have your vagina. Not you. I mean there is no emotional connection. Block him everywhere and ask him to marry you if he wants to fuck you. Value yourself and stop any kind of communication with him. If you want to fuck him, don't. Find another man to fuck you in a hookup setting.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

He’s so over you but he’s using you for his own selfish pleasure. Have some self love and respect to walk away and don’t look back. Clearly he doesn’t love you anymore.

Debashree_Das · Answer

Please start no contact right now. He wants you as his emotional sexual dumpster but doesn't want to take responsibility of your feelings. And he will get a new girlfriend but keep coming back to you whenever he wants that cushion to cry on. But be sure, you are never going to be the one.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nah, sounds like he is just using you for someone to sleep with, not needing effort. I wouldn't hangout with him at each others houses if you want to remain friends.

Anonymous · Answer

You’re hanging on too much to hope, because he’s using you with no intention of being together. There should be no more opportunities for him to reject you, please be done, this is degrading enough as it is.

sheikalana · Answer

I wouldn't have any hopes and is just best if you guys stay out of each other's lives especially when the break up is so recent otherwise you'll never move on.

bobalife · Answer

Boundaries he don’t wanna rekindle the relationship but still want the benefits of it

RavVid · Answer

Why did you break up? If it was lack of sex it is an easy fix.

rienna888 · Answer

It means his feelings have changed and stopped having feelings for you. But you should ask him if he wants to get back together

MushyKiwi · Answer

It sounds like he's just using you for pleasure if I read this right.

laly520 · Answer

cut ties seriously why r u doing that to urself

Surely · Answer

The million dollar question is. Do you really want him back? He doesn’t need to buy the cow, when he can get the milk for free!

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Why ex's ever hang out, I don't know. It just means you two haven't really moved on

spartan55 · Answer

So what? You are trying to bribe him with sex?

Jay-_- · Answer

Whole thing is toxic,  Cancel It

jahaims · Answer

He is using you

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