My ex said he doesn’t wanna give the wrong idea if he hangs out with me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex broke up two weeks ago since then we saw each other twice. First the second time we saw each other he slept over acted like we were back to us. Then said it didn’t change anything. Last night he said he didn’t wanna give me the wrong idea if he hangs out with me but everytime I ask him if he wants to he avoids saying no. Is there hope he will come back around

[ohsheeT]

That means he wants his cake and eat it too.

But it's a manipulation to make it sound like it's you that's doing it not him..

If you let him hang out with you he's just going to hurt you again and I think you know that.

And then he's going to blame you for allowing it to happen

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm sorry but no, and to be honest (and blunt?) In the long term it's going to really hurt if you believe it will!

Have you at least discussed and fixed the reason for the break up?

[Asker]

Yes we talked for two hours about it in person just has a bad argument he lost his temper and moves out it’s been three weeks he still doesn’t have a place to live but won’t come home

[TommyMountainFigure]

I can see from your text how much it is hurting you. I know it is difficult, but you need to come to terms with the fact he isn't coming back. Do you have children with him?

[Asker]

No kids crazy thing is the day before he was telling everyone how happy and how much he loves me

[TommyMountainFigure]

I guess people can act very strangely sometimes.

[Asker]

Yeah I mean I still hope he comes back but it’s been three weeks doesn’t seem to budge

[sadstrawberry]

He is ok to have your vagina. Not you. I mean there is no emotional connection. Block him everywhere and ask him to marry you if he wants to fuck you. Value yourself and stop any kind of communication with him. If you want to fuck him, don't. Find another man to fuck you in a hookup setting.

[Pinay_ako]

He’s so over you but he’s using you for his own selfish pleasure. Have some self love and respect to walk away and don’t look back. Clearly he doesn’t love you anymore.

[Debashree_Das]

Please start no contact right now. He wants you as his emotional sexual dumpster but doesn't want to take responsibility of your feelings. And he will get a new girlfriend but keep coming back to you whenever he wants that cushion to cry on. But be sure, you are never going to be the one.

[Asker]

But we aren’t having sex !

[PeachyPie93]

Nah, sounds like he is just using you for someone to sleep with, not needing effort. I wouldn't hangout with him at each others houses if you want to remain friends.

[Asker]

He doesn’t have a house we were living together! he's sleeping on peoples couches currently

[PeachyPie93]

Okay well don't invite him to yours because he doesn't want to go out with you, so don't have sex with him

[Anonymous]

You’re hanging on too much to hope, because he’s using you with no intention of being together. There should be no more opportunities for him to reject you, please be done, this is degrading enough as it is.

[sheikalana]

I wouldn't have any hopes and is just best if you guys stay out of each other's lives especially when the break up is so recent otherwise you'll never move on.

[bobalife]

Boundaries he don’t wanna rekindle the relationship but still want the benefits of it

[RavVid]

Why did you break up? If it was lack of sex it is an easy fix.

[rienna888]

It means his feelings have changed and stopped having feelings for you. But you should ask him if he wants to get back together

[MushyKiwi]

It sounds like he's just using you for pleasure if I read this right.

[laly520]

cut ties seriously

why r u doing that to urself

[Surely]

The million dollar question is. Do you really want him back? He doesn’t need to buy the cow, when he can get the milk for free!

[MrDaveAPSI]

Why ex's ever hang out, I don't know. It just means you two haven't really moved on

[Asker]

It’s only been 3 weeks and we were living together.

[MrDaveAPSI]

Yikes

[spartan55]

So what? You are trying to bribe him with sex?

[Asker]

Not at all

[spartan55]

Yeah right. You must think it's my second day here. It won't work, trust me.

[spartan55]

What he means is he doesn't want you thinking he wants to get back together when he comes over to fuck you.

[Asker]

But he isn’t having sex with me

[Jay-_-]

Whole thing is toxic, Cancel It

[jahaims]

He is using you