I am trying to understand the consequences of my actions. I thinking of divorcing my husband, but I don’t want to ruin my husband career.
if your husband doesn't lead people to obey the Savior's specification in Luke 14:33, shown properly understood and applied in Acts 2:44 and 4:32, the Savior considers his prudence only worthy of being thrown out and trodden over by men as not even representative of the Savior's true teaching.
And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. (Matthew 24:12)
Whatever we do, the consequences in life have proven to me to have vast and unanticipated reach in their effect in the world. Can we blame the world for going in the toilet, when all the world is just composed of people like us, each affected by the same spiritual forces in the living out of each of our parts in the whole vast f-heap of it all?
Hosea's wife remained his wife even after being with another. Scriptures are present directing us that at times choosing to let our laughter turn to mourning, that weeping and wailing, our consciences might be purified, can be the very prescription to prevent our undoing. Whatever you do, it will affect more than just you and your husband.
Pastor huh?
So, you are a "Christian" woman?
"therefore what God has joined together let not man separate"
What grounds do you have to split your family apart and separating what God has joined? Did he commit adultery?
"Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR SEXUAL IMMORALITY and marries another woman commits adultery.”
If he committed sexual immorality then you have a leg to stand on. If you are just bored or "fell out of love" then you don't have much leg to stand on.
I was snooping on the Internet, and I found a guy I knew who was on the sexual offender database. He told me that he grew up in a Christian orphanage. He told me that the religious freaks running the "boy's ranch" molested all the young boys. It was just the way it was. So I asked why he was on the database. He said that because of his past, he now molests little boys. His last victim was 8 years old, and he went to prison. But because of a class action lawsuit, he was now sitting on nearly a half million bucks. So I just don't give a fuck about divorced pastors.
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Bigger question is why are you wanting to divorce? If he isn't abusive, and he isn't controlling. And he is all around a decent man then you have nothing to divorce over. If you aren't happy to fuckin bad find something that makes you happy with him and use that. Divorce is way overused. Now if he is being abusive absolutely get a divorce who cares what happens he gets what he deserves
What makes you want to divorce your husband?
Also, have you considered that at your age (let's face reality) you are HIGHLY unlikely to ever find a good man again? (100 women for every 90 men in the USA, older women are very unlikely to be able to produce healthy offspring, disqualifying them from MOST good men, American men can get foreign women easily, but foreign men almost always don't want American women, etc.) Have you considered that, or just want to live in fantasy land?
I certainly think he should be able to carry on with no consequences.
Why do you want to divorce him? What went wrong?
If the wife has a biblical reason then he is already disqualified. If she does not, then her leaving is evidence of her lack of a Biblical Faith and he is is like any other Christian who is abandoned under those circumstances - not bound.
I don't see why not. There should be no ramifications from your impending divorce.
I think it depends on the reason for the divorce and who initiated it. It sounds like he would be the victim here, not the perpetrator so it should not be held against him.
I know of several pastors who are divorced and still have their careers. I guess it depends on the denomination. And I know of 2, plus a rabbi, who are living with partners but not married.
it would be a negative. Why do you want to divorce?
u Deoends on the type of church speak to him about it would be your best option
If you are cheating on him then he should be allowed to remain as a pastor. If he was cheating on you then he shouldn't.
u For what reason do you want to leave him?
Why do you want a divorce?
Why are you thinking of divorcing him?
why not they still pastors
"till death due you part" lol
Yes, go ahead and divorce him.
Sure.
Allah hu akbar 🙌🙌
You're in a cult
Sure
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