I can't hate people who did me wrong why can't I hate people?

[kareenakapur]

there's so many guys who broke my heart in such terrible ways-- cheating on me, lying to me, using me, wasting my time and many doing it at the worst possible times. But for some reason I still care about almost all of them and wish them the best. I want to hate them so badly. It would make me miss them less or care about them less. What's wrong with me?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nothing wrong with you at all. Well there is ONE thing, and that is your selection process in finding someone suitable for you.

[kareenakapur]

how do u find people then

[kareenakapur]

ur right tho im just making bad selections

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't allow myself to fall for anyone who I don't trust implicitly. That's really all there is to it.. It can be difficult, but necessary if you don't want to get your heart ripped out!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for MHO

[exitseven]

There is nothing wrong with you. It shows that you are better than all of them.

[kareenakapur]

i still love them all :(

[exitseven]

@kareenakapur I really get it. I sort of did the same thing. Maybe I was angry for a while but I really find it hard to harbor a grudge.

[Nikki1989]

Hate is a sign of weakness. Be happy you are the way you are.

[zagor]

You don't need to hate them, but you do need to leave them behind and not waste a lot of time thinking about them.

[Jennz6]

Good for you sweetheart

[kareenakapur]

hating them would hurt less though

[handsomelad70]

You're likely truly religious.

[kareenakapur]

nope