Have you ever messed up and made everyone hate you?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what's wrong with me. But I feel like I make people easily dislike me and I don't mean to. I feel like I'm misunderstood, I have a pure heart and I 100% mean well and I'm really naive.

I ask a question that seems harmless to me but then the person I'm talking to is insulted by that question and they just hate me after.

It really hurts me and makes me feel bad. I wonder what's wrong with me? Why can't I just not do stuff like that?

Then I find myself walking on eggshells around everyone, even new people because I'm afraid of ruining things. I feel like I'm this huge weirdo.

Anyone who doesn't know me yet doesn't know what kind of freak I am and how I upset so many people by asking questions I thought were harmless and are actually inappropriate or messed up.

I feel like something is wrong with me and I don't understand why it happens often. Have any of you experienced this?

[Boredhereforfun]

Are you a Virgo by any chance?
lol my sister is the same way.
And I can also be that way as well.

I was just talking about this with my husband, how I ruined a good friendship all because I asked a question with a good intention but later realized it offended them

And I said sorry but unfortunately damage was done.

I think if that happens a lot you could work on that

I also try to be aware of it. Before I say anything to pause and decided whether I should or not even if I find it harmless or not a big deal, others' may take things personally

[Asker]

I'm a cancer 😅

[Guy13]

Not everyone but yes something like what you are saying

[Asker]

I was talking to this older lady and I asked if she found Michael Landon attractive and she scoffed at it and just ignored me, didn't answer my question and that was it. She was done with me

[Asker]

What have you done?

[Asker]

Oops I just read back on your comment and just realized you weren't asking for an example. Sorry I misread it. You can just ignore me if you'd like.

[Guy13]

No worries. Enjoy Sunday 😎