Why isn’t anybody comforting me when I just broke up with me? Nobody cares that I am heartbroken?

[Anonymous]

I called my ex boyfriend a couple times earlier today and he answered so rudely and was like, “WHAT? What the fuck do you want?”
I was like, “You don’t have to talk to me like that! Why are you cheating on me with another woman! How could you? If you weren’t happy with the relationship, WHY didn't YOU JUST TELL ME THE TRUTH TO MY FACE? You 6’5, good for nothing, two timing f*****! You think you’re so good look that you cheat on me with a petite woman?”
He said, “Well what did you expect? I wasn’t happy anymore. You don’t please me or meet my needs anymore! You don’t show any passion and my new does. I will not sugarcoat it. I’ve been seeing her for the past two months while we were still dating. Plus she’s petite and she’s more fun and easier to carry than your 6’1, overweight tall ass! Being with you is like being with another man and it’s disgusting.”
That was so brutal but he said, “Whomp, whomp!” And hung up.
What a jerk!
My heart is broken and I have no Valentine. My uncle was like I told you so and didn’t comfort me but my aunt did and said be glad this happened because I’ll have a chance to find someone better. in my life and Even didn’t care. He only used me for my money and needs. My friends said, “We fucking told you! But you didn’t listen.”

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3 mo

My guy friend said he was no good and I deserved to be with someone who loves me for me and not for what I have. His loss.
My uncle said I’m glad my ex dumped me now I can see that Eddy is the guy for me. Wow unc brutal.

[avery58]

One thing you'll unfortunately learn in life is that you'll be mostly alone in your worst moments. I learned it myself and accepted it, it doesn't even bother me anymore. If anything, I met more caring friends who live long distance than in person for some reason.

[Asker]

Why do people abandon those in their worst moments? That’s not very nice.

[avery58]

Unfortunately most people are selfish. But there are a few who aren't

[MikeRJ]

I wouldn't grieve over losing a jerk. I had a friend in high school who asked out a pretty and popular girl, and she responded with something like "I'm too good for you" or "I wouldn't date you in a million years," something stuck up and bitchy. He was upset and I told him to consider what he was losing, a conceited slut. Why would you be upset if she is not up to your standards for be a decent human being.

[Asker]

Damn man that’s brutal but you have a good point. Why care the good looking ones such assholes. My brother said, “Told you he was right. We all tried to tell you but you wouldn’t listen. You better listen to us next time! What’s that you get for being stubborn. Eddy was right all along and you should have chosen him instead of that good looking 6’5 monster I’ve dated.

[MikeRJ]

There is a line from a rock song: "A pretty face don't mean no pretty heart."

[Asker]

I think I’ve heard that song before. So what the hell am I supposed to do? I have NO Valentine and I’m going to be alone and single for Valentine’s Day.

[MikeRJ]

I'm single most every Valentine's Day. It's not that big a deal. It used to bother me, but I have gotten used to it. For example, I used to think "big deal" when I got a Valentine from my mom. But then I realized that it is a big deal, because a lot of people don't have mothers to send them anything due to death or estrangement. It really is all about your attitude.

[Anonymous]

What do you expect them to say? Notice they're all saying the same thing. You didn't listen to ANY of them. Now you want them to feel bad for you. None of them are enjoying this I'm sure. But they're probably thinking, "learn from this" don't repeat this same mistake again.

[Asker]

Well people are very rude. My aunt was the only one that comforted me but she didn’t hug me. She said, “Well you’ve been warned honey and we all got fed up that you didn’t want to listen. You should have listened to Eddy and besides, he loves you but you’re too blind to see it. My friends didn’t comfort me and neither did my siblings. My uncle was like, “I TOLD YOU! Everyone told you but your stubborn ass won’t listen. See this is what happened when you keep pursuing someone that didn’t give a shit about you and you were warned and now you’re heartbroken? Bummer for you! You’ll live.”

[ChicoFromThe305]

Okay anon I'm here to listen, you'll find someone better, this is the hardest and most painful part, from here it's uphill, just remain strong and trust, you'll be alright, time heals all wounds.

[Asker]

Thanks. You’re better than my friends and family. All they said was “I told you! I told you!” They didn’t have to say that! It makes me feel defeated!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well people learn from defeat anon, embrace the defeat, learn from the defeat and do better to make sure it doesn't happen again, words are only words, but some words are wise and listening to wise can help you later on, you should find better and that should be your next goal, what happened should remain in your past and keep moving forward.

[Asker]

I should be glad I’m defeated! I don’t need to hear “I told you!” Like ten fucking times! I don’t need to be told! Shit! My sister said, “Well everyone tried to warn you so of course we’re going to say ‘told you’ because you didn’t want to believe us and you think you know it all. With your big head, you ego needs to be crushed hard. I can’t feel bad for you because you go after guys that break your heart. You’ll be fine.”

[ChicoFromThe305]

You should be glad it's over, although their reaction should be expected if they warned you a million times, I think if you warned someone a million times you get that I'm right satisfaction although their ability to hide it stinks, as there's a right time and place for things but I get you are angry and frustrated and heartbroken, things will get better tho, I promise 😌💯

[Billlewis]

You’re welcome to message me if you’d like to talk about it.

[jahaims]

You don't have any friends. That saws more about you.

[Asker]

Yes I do so have friends!!!

[biraileeşkadını]

"People are disgusting pieces of crap."