What should I do to prove to him that I really love him only?
Note: I'm his first love in his life is that maybe why he thinks that way because he never got an ex before and doesn't know how it feels?
If he thinks you are then he should end things and move on. Why would he be with you if he thinks you still want your ex? That is pathetic on your part.
On your part, it depends on if you keep a relationship with the ex and still talk to him and see him from time to time and text him and get together.
Your ex should be your ex and you shouldn't have any contact with him. Don't be talking about your ex either.
If your ex is not around and there is no contact then your boyfriend boyfriend sounds nuts. If you are still in contact and have an ongoing friendship/relationship with the ex than you have poisoned things. Your boyfriend should just bail and he is weak that he just keep whining but hanging around like a pushover.
He has trust issues.. If it bothers you now.. its only going to get worse. Assure him that he has nothing to worry about, but you also need to let him know that trust is a major part of a relationship and that if he can't get past it ... it WILL damage the relationship.
If you are his first love why is he acting like he has some unresolved trauma from the past? Anyways, I would reassure him but seems like you’ve done it many times and he keeps accusing you of stuff you didn’t do. It’s his problem and is something he needs to work on if he wants this relationship to work. I would come to a point where I would tell him listen if you keep accusing me of things I didn’t do I’m gonna have to let you go.
You shoudn't have to prove a thing to him. Your his girlfriend of two months he should have learned to trust you long ago. Both of you have a problem in my opinion because he should trust his girlfriend. Trust is something basic needed in a long lasting relationship. And why doesn't he trust you? You should think about that.
Trust is something that takes time to grow between people. It really dpends on what you did. If it was something minor he should be understanding and know that everyone makes mistakes. If it was something that hurted him, it will take time for him to gain that trust with you. Sometimes there's a point where that trust can't be gained again because the damaged was too much. So I'm saying time will make everything better, it's that simple.
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I mean... does he think this for any particular reason?
Are you still in contact with your ex? How do you behave when you see him? Do you keep in touch with him on social media? Do you call him? Email him?
If your boyfriend is just being paranoid, that's a "him" problem. But if you're giving him a reason to think you're still in love with your ex, this might be more of a "you" problem.
Since you've been (I assume) faithful to your boy for two years, it's on him to stop being suspicious. Tell him you've been true and he knows it, and that his continued jealousy will end your relationship. (I feel like Love Doctor Brad, but I'm a REAL man !!!)
you've sat with this for 2 years?
stop being a dumbass
@Madlc same! bizarre!
yes you are right. this is his first so you should try him to understand how is forgotten ex.
The feelings do not last forever and I think he does not know this
Need to tell him to control his jealousy. You only need to show him that you love him. Nothing else.
If he insists, it is a red flag that you should consider for the future
I still keep touch with all my exes.
Find someone that isn't so insecure.
He is a whore
I mean gay whore
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