Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Do you stalk any of your exes on social media?

So first off me and my ex boyfriend have been together for more than 1 year He was the most affectionate and caring guy I've ever been with and was so loyal to me but i still didn't trust him 100% (due to my past relationships) So 2 weeks ago, we had an argument over the phone and its about my trust issues and I kept accusing him of cheating and wanting other girls and then he got fed up with me and broke it off over the phone Then he immediately blocked me on facebook and instagram and deleted all our pictures on his facebook and instagram We didn't have contact ever since I never reached out, he never reached out within these 2 weeks Until tonight He called me. This was our conversation: Me - hello? Him - hey... Me - *quiet* Him - u there? Me - yeah Him - are u home? If you're not, im sorry if im disturbing u Me - yeah im home. Whats up? Him - oh.. i just wanted to know if you're free sometime this week? I wanna talk to you Me - umm... Him - are u free anytime this week? Me - *quiet coz im confused* Him - hello? Me - yea im free this friday? Him - oh okay.. yeah can u do lunch on friday? Me - um okay Him - yeah coz i have day off work on Friday Me - yeah same Him - okay. What time u wanna meet? Me - around 2pm? Him - yeah okay. I will message u then yeah Me - okay Him - alright see u then. Bye Then we hung up What the f? What does he want? I do still care and love him but I don't know im in shock and confused! Why does he want to go for lunch? And want to talk to me? Coz he felt guilty for breaking up over the phone and wants to break up in person? Or coz he wants to go back together? What do u guys think?

Have you forgiven a cheater? Or would you?
Why or why not?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up over a week ago
I have trust issues and get jealous easily so we had a fight coz i accused him of something and then he just broke it off and blocked me on everything straight away
We had been fighting a lot because of my trust issues
He has never cheated on me before and he is loyal guy but my trust issues got the best of me
This is both our longest relationships
We have been together for more than 1 year
He invested so much time, energy and money on me... but he can just cut me off like that?
Im the only girl out of his exes that met his parents and close co workers
And he's the only guy out of all my exes that met my parents
We planned to go trip together for next valentines day but since we broke up, its not happening 😔
But anyway, my friend has him on instagram and she told me that he has been posting pictures of himself every single day now and all his captions are all related to "pain" recently
E. g. "i have been in pain my whole life but now its gonna make me stronger" bla bla..
Does this mean he's in pain (maybe from breakup)? Or just looking for attention?
Coz when we were still together, when he post pictures of himself, he never mentions "pain" or captions like that and he doesn't post pictures everyday. Maybe every 2 or 3 days :/

A furious wife has dumped her husband after spotting the view from her bedroom window among the Instagram pictures of another woman.

[Couple above. Other woman below.]
Yulia Agranovych, from Russia, discovered the familiar sight among images uploaded to the social media app by Vlada Abramovich.

When she began going through Vlada's other pictures she also discovered images of her husband, Nazar Grynko, and decided to confront him.

'I wasn't searching for anything, it was a normal morning,' said Yulia, from St Petersburg, who worked as a model before qualifying as an orthodontist and children's dentist.

'Like any other person in the 21st century I began my day browsing through my Instagram timeline, and suddenly I saw this photograph.

'It turned out that this woman and I have a large number of the same subscribers.

'Having visited her account, I found many other interesting photographs, including those of my husband.'
At first her husband denied anything was going on, telling her that when she was away he invited some friends over for a drink before they went to the cinema.

Vlada was not his mistress but the girlfriend of his friend, he claimed.

'When the guests came, they would have headed to the kitchen to drink tea - not to the bedroom,' she told him.

Vlada closed her account after being confronted by the angry wife but later openly admitted on another social media to sleeping with Yulia's husband.

Asked if she had qualms about having sex with a married man she was unapologetic saying: 'She is his wife, not mine, what's the problem?

'Is he just a vegetable without free will? Don't make me laugh.'

She said her critics were 'living in the 18th century', adding: 'If I want to have sex, I'll have it.'

Yulia's husband later acknowledged having had several lovers when they were apart but claimed 'he was never mentally unfaithful to me - and told every girl he was married', she said.

She is thankful for the reveal as they were planning to have a family.

Why would a guy start following random girls on instagram few days after a break up? And liking their photos?
Does that mean he's moved on?
he's over his ex?
How could a guy move on that fast?
Does this mean he will never go back with her?

Mary Elizabeth Winstead was 18 years old when she met her future ex-husband on a cruise ship.
They were dating for 8 years before her husband, Riley Steam, got down on his knees to propose to her in 2010.
The couple were married for 7 years. Mary filed divorce from her husband on March 2017 but claims that they still love each other and he is still the most important person in her life. On, November 2017 she was caught holding hands with Ewan Mcgregor resulting in rumors that they are seeing each other. Mary has since confirmed that they are in a relationship and this in turn has led to the belief that the reason for the split from her husband was to be with Ewan Mcgregor and likelyhood of infidelity.



Ewan Mcgregor is still married to his wife of 22 years and was with him while he was still a struggling actor. However, he separates (they are still legally married) from her to be with Mary, a woman 18 years her junior. This is very much parallel to what Johnny Depp did to his partner of 14 years.

Assume you had thought your wife was straight. Would you react any differently than if it was with a man? Would you be relieved? Would you feel more inclined to forgive her, and would you possibly find it hot? Or would you be just as angry, if not more so because she hid her attraction to women from you? This kind of thing happened in a movie I watched recently. The wife came home late one night, her husband didn't beat around the bush and was waiting for her, and he asked her who she was with. She let it be known she was with somebody else, without revealing that it was a girl, and he was rightly pissed off. They were planning on getting a divorce, she was kicked out of the house, etc.. And then a few days later they met up because she wanted to explain everything. She told him it was with a girl, and his anger just evaporated. She was instantaneously forgiven, and I believe it actually turned him on, because they shared a pretty passionate kiss after that. I was completely baffled. I mean, I know a lot men are really into the girl on girl thing, but it's shocking to me that such a blatant display of disloyalty and untrustworthiness could be excused. Regardless of who it was with, regardless of why she did it, she still cheated on you. Really curious about this.

I have several pics of me and my ex and even a funny video of us doing impressions. Right after we broke up, I thought about deleting everything but now, I've decided to keep them. Reasons? They bring back memories. If the pictures are deleted for good, the good memories are just kinda gone. Despite the breakup, I've learned how to control my emotions for a bit. I learned to accept the situation as it is and only remember the good times we had. In the future, I might even look back and think "Why the fuck was I with this guy?" lol. For me, deleting the pics would make me feel worse than keeping them.

I'v been friends with this guys for months but for the last 2 months you've grow closer. We cuddled watching movie, hold hands while he drives, kisses, had sex.. but last night he told me: "Before this gets to far I just want to say that I am still not ready for a relationship. I'd like to be with you but I feel like I am not ready yet. (He broke up with his girlfriend 4 months ago) I still can't trust anyone, and I am starting to over think and doupt" I know that he likes me, its pretty clear by the way he act... should I wait for him or move one?

I got drunk and kissed another guy he forgave me but no longer trust me should we stay together. He's cheated before but I don't know this relationship seems broken. Your opinion?

I told him I think he's the hottest guy on earth. Why would he say that to me? Should I break up with him?

Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years. I have had doubts about his best friend who is a girl but i have always trusted him so decided to leave it be. However, we recently broke up and got back together within a week. I found on his phone (I had to use it due to mine being out of battery) that he had gone to her house and they had sex as soon as we broke up. He denied it to the last until I told him I saw the texts and he admitted everything. I have sacrificed so many friendships for this person and he has betrayed me in the worst possible way. Any time I look at him all I can imagine is her and him together? I don't know what to do at this stage, my friends and family hate him and have told me to block him but there's still feelings there and we both have tattoos of each other's name so I feel like we have to be together now which is stupid I know.

My ex and I split up a month ago and he's come back to say that he wants us to try again and that he needs to be honest before we say any more. He then told me that he had one night stands with other people in that time.

Part of me thinks, ok so he was single but the other part of me thinks so whilst i was at home feeling so much heartbreak you were out getting it on with someone else. Fuck you.

I'm trying to decide between don't ever speak to me again and ok you can take me on a date.

I feel like an idiot.

What would you do and what's your opinion?

And how many times have you been dumped and did you break up with someone?

in general, who moves on quicker after a break up?