Depend what kind of person he is. If he the kind who like attention then its a good way to get one. When a guy in love then break up, they tend to act strong in the eyes of his ex and his friends. Post break up syndrome for guys happens weeks after the break up
Post break up syndrome? Examples?
I called it post break up syndrome, in girls it happened right after the break up.
For example is like the questions whether break up is the right thing to do, how you missing him so much but have to held back due to break up, the cries, the blues, etc.
For guys it happens late, weeks or even months after break up.
Won't vote could mean either. Right now he is in that "rebound" phase and uncomfortable alone. He is doing what we all do and making the mistake of thinking he is ready to start another relationship when he should be focusing on being comfortable alone again.
He was probably waking the entire relationship to go like those girl's photos. Some people feel like they've gotta be in a relationship at all times, and some just want to be.
Waiting*
or that means they are hot to look at I follow guys I find hot on Instagram and will still do even after I break up with someone doesn't mean I'm over them.
I think he wants to get his mind off of his ex. I don't think you can tell if he comes back from this. It's never good if exes get back together though.
It doesn't mean anything... 😐😐😐
That's what Insta is for... it only means something if they are talking
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There's more to it than that I think. He could have moved on. Or he could be trying to move on. He could be trying to make it look like he's moved on when he hasn't. Or he could be expressing a new kind of freedom he had missed for the period of time he was in a relationship
If he loves you, he will definitely call you. If he didn't call you, then simply leave him. Stop thinking about him. Busy yourself in your work. There are so many good guys in this world. You will surely find another guy who care for you and your relationship. And please, don't cry. Those tears are worth millions
Not a dude so I don't know how their mind works but my guess it's like with a diet. When you are not allowed to eat ice cream on a diet, the first thing you do when your diet ends is eat ice cream. I don't think they do it because they have moved on, I think it's just nice to look at eye candy especially when you don't have to hide that you're doing it.
He's afraid that he'll fall for her in an instant the girl and he talk...
So he starts talking to other girls, flirt and sometimes even go on a date to give her a signal to hate him
That guy deeply still loves the girl but he also sees the trouble both have when in a relation.
Either he doesn't like her behaviour or some other problem due to which they broke up!
When you've lost something and don't know if you can get it back, you try to replace it in case it doesn't come back; he's preparing for the prospect of it being a permanent break up even though he may not want it to be.
I'm surprised at how pessimistic the girls are voting.
its not that he might come back, OR that he never will, it's just that since the breakup he now has the freedom of doing what he wants without arguing with the girlfriend, it may become something in the future if he connects well enough with a new girl
Neither of your answers is right. Think before what happened so you broke up. Then look into yourself and his do you want the same relationship back. If you do then why did he stop what did yoi do wrong. If you can fix everything he'll cone back. That doesn't mean you need to fix anything you don't like.
Liking pics on Instagram is just that. You see a pic you like and you double tap, nothing more. I do it when ever I'm bored mostly. But if he's having conversations with the girls he's liking, that's a different story. Then he may be trying to establish a connection.
When a half decent guy is with a girl he restrains himself in order to not have those questions like "Why are you fallowing this girl?" Seriously though, we hate those sort of questions. once the relationship is over he unrestraines himself and does his own thing again. and yes, he has probably moved on.
Follow random guys too. Post a sexy selfie. His dick will cry tears of regret for eternity and mourn.
I mean if you really think about it if a guy likes other girl's stuff like that he might be trying to catch their attention but then again he could be that type of person that likes just to like nothing more nothing less.
How sucking opinions actually the person is in pain and he is looking for someone to know his pain n stand for him in opposite gender. He is also confused n afraid to approach u to get back he not moved on he is searching for clearance of his confusions and to share his pain.. He will be back if u try him back heart fully
Assume every break up is that. You're broken up. He's single. He can do whatever he wants. There doesn't have to be a "why" beyond that. Why did he shower? Eat? Tie his shoe? Doesn't' matter, you're not his girlfriend.
I'm agreeing with the individual who mentioned distracting themselves.
They now have to deal with being alone. It sucks and is lonely.
Social media is a good outlet for reducing such feelings of loneliness.
if he is doing that and if its making you envious and you want him back then his trick has worked though it could be intentional or unintentional because many guys do it for just for moving on aswell. But if that matters to you in slightest way that means you are not over him yet and just a simple message can sort things out and even if it doesn't trying never hurts right?
I'm doing that right now. Speaking for myself, moved on? No I haven't.
Would i get back with her?
Slim chance, if it failed once why not again, i'd struggle to decide over potentially being happy with her forever, or getting hurt again.
He's sad, and possibly trying to fill the void by engrossing himself in viewing attractive girls in hopes one might click and he could hopefully move on.
Sounds like a guy reaching out and not wanting to "crawl back".
Sad he has to go to Instagram for that.
He's boosting someone's ego and social standing tho.
I can't vote for one or the other but, it's my personal opinion that when you break up, it's usually over. Also I think girls get over guys quicker and are dating quicker.
None of these options are realistic. They are too far apart from reality. Guys just like to look at girls, whether they are in a relationship or not. Don't question those things to much and think about moving on yoirself :)
It probably means he is horny. Its not indicative of any of the things you mentioned
People do all KINDS of things to heal after a breakup. Can't tell WHAT it means because I don't know the person.
it means he's looking for someone new. She could potentially get him back still but she's going to have to regain his interest.
He's trying to make his ex jealous or trying not to think about her by distracting himself with other girls.
You asked this question before. He doesn't want to be with you. Stop being a crazy ex bitch and stalking him. Leave him alone.
Who are u
What post?
Loser lmao
You know what post. Just leave him alone. He isn't coming back, you don't deserve him. Stop stalking him in the hopes he's going to notice you again. He's probably already fucking other women.
I'm the loser giving good advice, and you're the dumb broad stalking your ex after abusing him and the point where he dumped your ass. Get a grip bitch.
Fuck off you fuckin prick. You dont know shit. Go get laid ya fuck. Keep talking shit. No one cares about your opinions ya bellend. Its called still having feelings. How is that crazy? You call every girl crazy coz they still have feelings for the ex? You selfish twat.
The fact that you are so angry over what I said proves my point entirely. You are quite literally a man's worst nightmare like I said. How is this crazy? Oh I dunno, the sudden extreme outburst because the truth hurts and you don't like hearing that you're a nutjob stalker who doesn't deserve to be with any man. Maybe that has something to do with it?
For your information, I got laid this morning and just finished my coffee before coming on here to give idiots like you a piece of my mind. You need professional help. But hey, keep obsessing over a guy who doesn't give two shits about you any more because you don't deserve anyone's affection with behaviour like that.
"You call every girl crazy coz they still have feelings for the ex?"
No I call crazy abusive stalking bitches who get rightfully dumped and yet are still so delusional that they think there is even a chance their ex would want to be with them after all the shit they pulled. I call *them* crazy. If you think I'm selfish for thinking that, I couldn't care less. Enjoy your ignorance.
Do you fuckin hear yourself? You fuckin fool.
Giving harsh opinions to make other people feel more like shit. Thats fucked up.
Stop being a fuckin cunt.
Karmas a bitch.
You tell people theyre stupid and all that shit. You make people feel bad about themselves. You think you're perfect and you're having it good?
Nigga please. You ain't fuckin shit.
you're just a fuckin heartless cunt and hope someone fucks you up. You fuckin deserve it you prick.
I dont care about your opinion.
you're just a nasty twat.
Go fuck yourself aye.
Most girls would mourn if they had been broken up by someone they love and they would look at what their exes are doing. For a week or so. And then we get over it and stop looking. Its a natural girl thing to do you dumb cunt.
So shut the fuck up thinkin you know everything when you fuckin dont.
Go fuck your prostitute again
You prob got a HIV since you're salty as fuck mate
Bye cunt ✌
Do I hear myself? Yeah I hear myself fine.
Do you hear yourself and all this batshit ranting and raving you're making? Honestly if any guy read this shit they'd avoid you like the plague you are.
Your entire reply is just 'fuck fuck fuck' etc. Jesus take your medication. You need professional help getting so triggered over something like this must mean that it's all 100% true, as I obviously hit a nerve.
You abused your ex. You got him to dump you because you had enough. Now that you realise what an idiot you have been you start stalking him in the hopes that he still thinks about you, because you miss him and realise what an idiot you are. Well here's some news, he doesn't care about you and no one should care about you. You need professional help because you are quite literally a gigantic, obsessive and abusive fuckup who flies into a rage over even just another person's opinion. Jesus christ you're an adult acting like a psychopath. Trust me, no one takes you seriously.
But yes, let's say I have HIV and throw a bunch of useless insults at me that I honestly could not care less about because it doesn't change the fact that YOU are the one here asking for advice because YOU abused your ex and YOU got dumped.
I'm here giving advice because I'm in a happy relationship, where we both don't abuse each other or stalk each other's instagram accounts lol. Whether or not you believe me, doesn't matter to me at all. What matters is that there is a lot of evidence that you are a total nutcase and need counseling. There's obviously a lot of rage built up here and you obviously hate yourself a lot. What you need is a reality check, not for someone to be nice to you because you are not nice to others. You're an abusive, stalking bitch who got dumped for exactly that, and you know it.
You don't mourn over losing your ex boyfriend, you mourn over the fact that now you're alone and you realise how abusive and unlovable you are. Like I said, get help.
Hahahahhaha look at yourself writing essays and shit. So much time on your hands aye.
Definition of a keyboard warrior😂😂
Not gonna waste my time on you
Bye cunt 👍
My essay after that massive wall of fucks you sent me? Lmao. No time yet here you are still replying and showing how jaded and angry you are. Yeah I'm a keyboard warrior and you're the one throwing lame swear words because you can't make a point and you're getting roasted.
You'll be back to read this and every other message because you do care. Suck it 🤣🤣
And the white knight appears to take care of the mentally retarded maiden. What a hero 😂
@cursewords everyone thinks you're a twat. Just because you have a miserable life doesn't mean you have to bring people down. Dickhead.
Oh look who it is! Here you are again showing how much you "don't care". Girl you're the one on Anon asking stupid questions. You're a coward who resorts to lame attempts at insults when someone calls you out for being a disgrace. I'm sure I'll see plenty more of your stupid posts on here 😄
I'm surprised you think I'd take the words of an abusive psychopath stalker seriously. You're a laugh. Congrats you got some good advice and even a little boy who wants to give you someone to vent to. How touching. Have fun in therapy 😉
Abusive?
Hahahaaahah you make me laugh😂
you're such a muppet
Bye kieentt 😉👍
Another reply now. How many "bye cunt" is that now? Like 5? Still showing how triggered you are. I'm glad you found a guy with no self respect who is so desperate that he would like to be your punching bag and hear all of your retarded ranting and raving.
Looking forward to more mental replies and pathetic insults you female nutcase :D
@DrIdo I gave her good advice, she responded with the rage. Bitch deserves zero respect for being an abusive cunt that forced her boyfriend into dumping her stupid ass. Her insults are very amusing though. I'm surprised she takes herself so seriously when she has absolutely no integrity what-so-ever and will literally be crying herself to sleep for a few weeks whilst refreshing her Instagram and stalking her ex. :D
He's trying his best to forget the pain and in order to do that he starts to look for a random girl who can help him to diminish the pain
You broke up & suddenly his behavior did a 180? Sounds like he’s screaming for your attention, trying to make you feel some type of way
One of 2 things: 1) he's throwing himself out there in an attempt to distract himself from his pain, or 2) he knows you're able to see and he is trying to hurt you because he is in pain.
it means that he's can breathe freely. he can look at other girls freely. and it doesn't mean that he will/won't go back to ex.
that's all
It could mean anything, everyone is different, but guys follow random girls on Instagram just for the hell of it, for really any reasons
It's just eye candy
Its feels like he showing up that he not really sad about breaking up and just chill looking for another girl..
Thing is why are people so expected to get back with an Ex? Reason they are an ex leave them in the dust, follow some guys yourself, get a new hobbie anything to improve yourself and show what they are missing
Ok first chill ouuttt and then secondly, probably trying to know or find interest in more people so yeah, maybe he's trying to move on, doesn't mean he will or won't
ur reading too much into it. just stop caring, you've broken up and it means nothing
He wants to make you jelous... dont give it to him #beaboss 👍
I'm pretty sure whatever his reason is, it has nothing to do with you. Move on ASAP.
He might come back or moved on also... but basically he's trying to distract himself
He is probably looking for a new girl.
It could be only sexual rn but he won't look back if he finds someone.
If it's that fast could mean he never cared about the girl he broke up in the first place.
Two bad poll choices. He’s trying too move on. You should too.
I don't know but after a break there's no time to waste but to go on to the next one.
He can follow whoever the hell he wants with or without being in a relationship people need to get this stupidity out of their head that 1 follow =marriage kids and a house.
Of course he wants to find a replacement girlfriend and quick before his 'lower brain' starts bugging the crap out of him again... Which doesn't take long.
Maybe he's already started talking to them before, but only dared to follow them after the break up.
Means he is trying to not think of her and try to get over her asap
It means that he is back on the market and looking for another woman.
Why would you want to get back with an ex, they are an ex for a reason
Technology bullshit does not matter. That's the answer. You're fretting about something that is meaningless.
He may wanting to make his ex jealous. Or he just wants to meet a new girl. It's not possible to say whether he comes back or not, it depends on many factors.
Means he is trying to prove he moved on but in reallity he's having a bad time
i've been doing that a few times. the reason of that is to try finding new love and also a try to move on. it didn't work out like that because getting a new girlfriend after a breakup is more likely a reassurance than new feelings
He's is trying to divert his mind. But guys are emotionally fool.. few good words and they might come back. So if u want him back... try to reach him... but dobt become psyco... draw some lines and understand if its really over
What type of words?
Yes really
Remind him of cute things which u guys use to do... things u guys use to laugh at.. places u use to go to... but more importantly remind him of ur love and how true it is.. i dont know whts the reason of ur breakup there can't advise u much, but if u really want him back... be true dont fake snd he will b urs
We broke up because he had a crush on my bff...
Diffrent story
what if he still loves you , lives in America and you live in England, he doesn't Want a long distance relationship?
That's with on of my ex's I f*****g love
my boyfriend used like their pictures I broke up with him
I think he is trying to distract himself from obsessing his ex girlfriend. This ins doesn't mean anything, it's his little revenge in his mind.
Don't quite get the part: how by liking stranger's post he can get people to understand his pain?
By just sharing their opinions n all u can understand a person in the same way he is trying to explain his pain directly asking opinions where his mistake was and also if any girl understand his pain m like him they will get through along. This time he would be cautious and try to keep relationship new one without flaws
Here on GAG. Also fellow random girls. But most of the day don't bother with them because am to busy giving great opinions to everyone's questions 😊
Girl stop watching what this dude is doing. Forgot about him for a few days. Then figure out your feeling that you still clearly have for him.
It means he can't find anything better to do with his time and the the girl in question should consider he probably did her a favor by breaking up.
Because he finds them interesting? Not ever action performed by an ex is meant to grab their attention...
Guys generally do not wait to emotionally move on before moving on in action. They act first and let their feelings catch up.
, if the two of you have broken up, why would you care?
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