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Questions: Break Up & Divorce

My ex girlfriend ghosted me after I sent an accountability letter but added me to her close friends circle on Instagram. Thoughts?

Recap: ex and I broke up in April. We talked every week. It was a healthy relationship. COVID hit and I was working 80+ hrs so I didn’t have time for a relationship. After the break up, it was good break up, I accepted...
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What's the worst excuse a new special someone gave you, to get out of your life?

Someone special told me "we have too much in common and we have a great connection, it's like, you are me, but from the opposite gender, and maybe that's why i can't be with you". For me, that just doesn't make any...
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Is telling my ex I still love her too much to see her again the wrong thing to do? Why can't I move on?

-Things went wrong due to things I dont want to revisit and at 26 my longest relationship ended. I moved 6 months after and went back to visit my parents this weekend (have not seen this particular friend group in about a...
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Do you believe your first love remains to be the love of your life? Someone you never get over, never truly able to move on from?

Do you believe your first love remains to be the love of your life? Someone you never get over, never truly are able to move on from? Do you think they remember and still think of you as well? And do you still long to...
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Do you believe your first love remains to be the love of your life? Someone you never get over, never truly are able to move on from? Do you think they remember and still think of you as well? And do you still long to maybe see them once again?
Yes to all the above
No to all the above
Yes to some of the above
No to some of the above
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For those who have ever had to end a relationship, what was "The Last Straw"?

What did he/she do that made you realize you had to end the relationship?
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What's one question you would ask your ex?

Something I saw just triggered a memory of a mean thing my ex said to me when we were young. The question I would ask her is "Why did you marry me you fuckin asshole?" Like I think she was always jealous of me and...
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Do I owe my ex my friendship?

This is the first serious relationship I had and it ended about a month ago. She had always been very nice and generous with me from the day we met in person (we live in different states). We never intended to date but...
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This is the first serious relationship I had and it ended about a month ago. She had always been very nice and generous with me from the day we met in person (we live in different Show More
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How do you move on from someone you see almost everyday?

So, she's a friend that rejected me (she said she sees us as friends) almost three years ago. After that, it was kinda painful for me because I couldn't see her anymore. We used to work together, but now we're working in...
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My girlfriend of 16 months slept with her ex 1 day after we broke up, is that normal?

So to elaborate on my question, I am assuming this was pre-meditated and this girl has a lot of issues and demons she is still sorting out. She was very young and hell shit happens. But the fact, that she went back to a...
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What advice do you have for someone going through a divorce?

Someone very close to me, who is a relative, is going through a divorce, she is having a hard time as it has been a 16 year relationship with 5 years of marriage. She is feeling upset, depressed, anxious and angry....
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I'm very lost and at my wits end?

I'm really struggling and it's getting worse by the day. It's been over a year and half since my ex cheated and dumped me for someone else. In that time she has moved in with the guy. I have been trying to date after I...
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Will I still be able to heal from an abusive ex-girlfriend?

So what happened was, I broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me for the second time. I forgave her the first time because I wanted to change for her and I even swallowed my pride, but months later, she...
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Should I buy my ex flowers? PLEASE HELP?

My ex just broke up with me last week from a 3 year relationship, she cheated on me a month ago, I gave her another chance and we were reconciling but she told me she doesn't feel the connection anymore, despite this the...
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Why would an ex create an account to stalk me?

So I’m at least 99.8% sure my ex or her friend created a fake account and stalked me on. As soon as I noticed the account with 0 posts 0 followers and following 0 I knew it was a stalker and I messaged them, never heard...
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What are the odds she changed her mind and reaches out?

I was seeing this girl for a year. We had some trouble spots, and we were still learning how to be in a relationship with each other. Things were really good the month leading up to our break up. We talked so much, we...
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I was seeing this girl for a year. We had some trouble spots, and we were still learning how to be in a relationship with each other. Things were really good the month leading up to Show More
She'll reach out
She's gone
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Trying to move on. Any help out there?

My ex broke up with me cause she's figuring her life out. It was my first relationship and it hurts letting her go. We didn't do anything wrong and everything was fine. She's just got stuff going on. I'm just stuck.
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Has no contact ever worked on any dumpers here?

I’m curious as to how no contact works. I’ve never had success with it but I’ll admit I’ve only had 2 relationships. I was broken up with about a month ago and I have given her space like she asked for but we are still...
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Blaming myself for geting left for someone else?

How do I stop blaming myself for my ex-girlfriend cheating on me and leaving me for someone else. I know there I are things I could have done better in the relationship, but until the end I was still fighting to fix and...
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