Let yourself feel the emotions. Actually allow them to be there, feel them fully, then allow them to pass through you.
The emotions that fester like this are only the emotions you FIGHT. You're fighting off feeling that emotion and by doing that you are keeping it present inside you.
If you don't fight it and just allow them to come there. To be there and to move on, likes clouds passing in the sky. Those feelings will pass.
Additionally, you should accept the fact that you don't even really want her. You want to feel a certain way and you think being with her will make you feel that way. You can feel that way on your own.
You can meet another girl and have whole new adventures you never even thought of if you allow yourself to have them. Sincerely tho.
There are billions of girls on this planet that fit the category of girl that you want. But more practically. Even in smaller states. There are millions and millions of girls that fit the category of girl you want, who are single.
You're just fixating on this one and playing with those emotions because you're addicted to the feeling. They suck but they're familiar. So you hold onto them
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Get more options. Hit the gym, work on your purpose. Classic case of oneitis
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There's a billion other women out there and you're letting 1 woman get to you. Accept what happened and move on.
That's sad man. Best thing to do - focus on new things and yourself
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