him:
well...i..am not sure about how to feel right now. I kept wondering why it is that things don't feel the same way anymore. I wrote you a song just the other day and something didn't feel right about that.
I've been longing to talk to you and find out how you've been doing, but it was increasingly becoming clear that there was something going on with you and I was being kept out of the loop. ...i joked to my self saying that I was falling victim to the ex-boyfriend syndrome but I guess it really wasn't a joke.
I not saying you have to tell me everything, but it would be nice to know that I'm not a bunch of dust in the road either.
Me:
You're not a bunch of "dust in the road," you're my friend and I'm treating you like I treat all of my other friends. As you might be able to recall I only ever actually talked to __ and ___ once a semester while I was away, and they're more family than they are friends. The unsaid policy I have with friend is "I'll see you when I get home." Since high school I only ever see ___and ___like once a year, if I'm lucky.
I'm sorry if you feel like you're being kept out of the loop, but I have a life that's taken several major turns and I'm not sure what you're expecting of me. I'm sorry you think that there is a loop, because there isn't a loop.
and I really really really hate to be the bitch, but I don't owe you anything. You know I barely have time to breathe. The only time I call my parents is when I'm at work.
Things don't feel the same because they're not. I hate to say it because I don't feel like anyone should be confronted in this way, but I don't know how else to tell you that your "I miss you" texts at one in the morning make me really uncomfortable.
you're constantly putting me in a spot that I don't want to be in. I don't want to be this girl. I don't want to play this role. We ended on your terms, we continued talking on your terms, and I just don't see what else you want from me. The more you act like an ex the more I'll have to treat you like one because I'm with someone, and I'm just not comfortable with the level of intimacy you're looking for.
I'm not treating you like an ex, I'm treating you like I treat all of my friends, but you certainly aren't treating me like one.
He deleted me off fb almost directly after :/ I just feel bad, even though I was the one who got dumped. I've just moved on and he hasn't...
well...i..am not sure about how to feel right now. I kept wondering why it is that things don't feel the same way anymore. I wrote you a song just the other day and something didn't feel right about that.
I've been longing to talk to you and find out how you've been doing, but it was increasingly becoming clear that there was something going on with you and I was being kept out of the loop. ...i joked to my self saying that I was falling victim to the ex-boyfriend syndrome but I guess it really wasn't a joke.
I not saying you have to tell me everything, but it would be nice to know that I'm not a bunch of dust in the road either.
Me:
You're not a bunch of "dust in the road," you're my friend and I'm treating you like I treat all of my other friends. As you might be able to recall I only ever actually talked to __ and ___ once a semester while I was away, and they're more family than they are friends. The unsaid policy I have with friend is "I'll see you when I get home." Since high school I only ever see ___and ___like once a year, if I'm lucky.
I'm sorry if you feel like you're being kept out of the loop, but I have a life that's taken several major turns and I'm not sure what you're expecting of me. I'm sorry you think that there is a loop, because there isn't a loop.
and I really really really hate to be the bitch, but I don't owe you anything. You know I barely have time to breathe. The only time I call my parents is when I'm at work.
Things don't feel the same because they're not. I hate to say it because I don't feel like anyone should be confronted in this way, but I don't know how else to tell you that your "I miss you" texts at one in the morning make me really uncomfortable.
you're constantly putting me in a spot that I don't want to be in. I don't want to be this girl. I don't want to play this role. We ended on your terms, we continued talking on your terms, and I just don't see what else you want from me. The more you act like an ex the more I'll have to treat you like one because I'm with someone, and I'm just not comfortable with the level of intimacy you're looking for.
I'm not treating you like an ex, I'm treating you like I treat all of my friends, but you certainly aren't treating me like one.
He deleted me off fb almost directly after :/ I just feel bad, even though I was the one who got dumped. I've just moved on and he hasn't...
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