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Polls: Break Up & Divorce

If you want a divorce but young kids are involved, is it better to get it over with quick, wait until they are older or just stay married forever?

Sad to say, but the question was inspired by my parents. My mom was and still is miserable being with my father and talked about leaving him a lot growing up, but never did. She has become extremely bitter, even now,...
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Sad to say, but the question was inspired by my parents. My mom was and still is miserable being with my father and talked about leaving him a lot growing up, but never did. She Show More
Get a divorce even if the kids are young and hope they end up ok.
Delay getting a divorce until the kids are grown.
Stay married, even if miserable, whether it be due to commitment to your vows or for religious reasons.
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Add Opinion 16 49

Why do you turn stone cold when breaking up?

I just lost my fiance after we spent 8 Years together and even now she's treating me like I never meant a thing to her... And I didn't even do anything unforgivable... But why do you guys have to put on your hate mask? Is...
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I just lost my fiance after we spent 8 Years together and even now she's treating me like I never meant a thing to her... And I didn't even do anything unforgivable... But why do you Show More
Because deep down your truly hateful?
Is it because your hurting as well but don't want us to know it?
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Heat of the moment breakup: is it final?

Me and my man have many arguments Even over small things We have broken up several times And im always the one packing my clothes when we fight Him saying "im done, i dont want to see u again, i will not...
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Me and my man have many arguments Even over small things We have broken up several times And im always the one packing my clothes when we fight Him saying "im done, i dont want Show More
No
Yes
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If an ex only blocks you on ONE thing?

But hasn't blocked you anywhere else. Does that mean they want to keep some lines of communication open?
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But hasn't blocked you anywhere else. Does that mean they want to keep some lines of communication open?
Yes
No
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Absolutely not
It's not a big deal
Yeah I don't care
I don't really like it but I'd rather not say anything
I don't really like it and I will say something
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Would you break-up with even your long-time sweetheart if you later discovered your soulmate?

I'm talking the girl or guy you've known for years maybe a decade, the one who you've experienced so much with, hell even lost you virginity to or even studied/worked alongside with: would you still dump even that person,...
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I'm talking the girl or guy you've known for years maybe a decade, the one who you've experienced so much with, hell even lost you virginity to or even studied/worked alongside with: Show More
Yes, even if I'm ashamed to admit in this poll that, yes, yes I would.
No, no matter how tempting.
That's really difficult to say let alone imagine
Other answer (feel free to write below)
I don't care/other smart opinion/piss-take
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Yes
No
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Add Opinion 1 6

Relationship ends: what should happen to the friendship?

I hated this about break up. I wondered how because our relationship didn't work, our friendship got destroyed. Can't the friendship be sustained? Can't us at least mean well for each other and be able to say hi and...
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I hated this about break up. I wondered how because our relationship didn't work, our friendship got destroyed. Can't the friendship be sustained? Can't us at least mean well for Show More
Delete the friendship
Sustain it
Friendship could lead to relapse
Other
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Would it be wrong for a guy to leave his girlfriend after an abortion?

Assuming there was no pressure from him before and he didn't threaten to leave, is it wrong for him to end the relationship over that?
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Assuming there was no pressure from him before and he didn't threaten to leave, is it wrong for him to end the relationship over that? Show More
Yes
No
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Add Opinion 14 35
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Yes
No
For results
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Add Opinion 22 51
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Yes
No
see poll ( sell that bitch )
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Add Opinion 25 55

If you got a second chance with an ex who was perfect would you take it?

We broke up 3 years ago (my fault, combination of immature, scared, and got jealous of little things). I've been working really hard on myself to not be like that. Last Friday I went out to celebrate, got drunk and then...
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We broke up 3 years ago (my fault, combination of immature, scared, and got jealous of little things). I've been working really hard on myself to not be like that. Last Friday I went Show More
What the hell are you doing?
See how things happen, dont rush back in
Ask her out to coffee
Confess true feelings
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Do you believe your first love remains to be the love of your life? Someone you never get over, never truly able to move on from?

Do you believe your first love remains to be the love of your life? Someone you never get over, never truly are able to move on from? Do you think they remember and still think of you as well? And do you still long to...
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Do you believe your first love remains to be the love of your life? Someone you never get over, never truly are able to move on from? Do you think they remember and still think of you as well? And do you still long to maybe see them once again?
Yes to all the above
No to all the above
Yes to some of the above
No to some of the above
Show me the answers already, I'll explain
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Does moving or traveling help you move on from an ex? Is it easy to forget about someone who has your heart if you just travel/move?

I’m in love with this guy, completely in love and I don’t know how to move on. But I need to no matter the amount of love I have for him; it’s just creating pain. If I move somewhere or travel for about half a year...
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I’m in love with this guy, completely in love and I don’t know how to move on. But I need to no matter the amount of love I have for him; it’s just creating pain. If I move Show More
Yes that helps
No, not guaranteed
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Do I owe my ex my friendship?

This is the first serious relationship I had and it ended about a month ago. She had always been very nice and generous with me from the day we met in person (we live in different states). We never intended to date but...
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This is the first serious relationship I had and it ended about a month ago. She had always been very nice and generous with me from the day we met in person (we live in different Show More
Yes
No
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What are the odds she changed her mind and reaches out?

I was seeing this girl for a year. We had some trouble spots, and we were still learning how to be in a relationship with each other. Things were really good the month leading up to our break up. We talked so much, we...
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I was seeing this girl for a year. We had some trouble spots, and we were still learning how to be in a relationship with each other. Things were really good the month leading up to Show More
She'll reach out
She's gone
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Yes I’m happy for her
No I’m not happy for her
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Add Opinion 1 17
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Of course I would
Only if we're still good friends
No, that would be a terrible idea
It depends on what kind of ex they are
More than one poll option
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Yes
No
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How would you feel if your ex emailed you?

You break up with your ex and block his/her number and all social media etc. 3 days later they message you on email loool. What would you do?
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You break up with your ex and block his/her number and all social media etc. 3 days later they message you on email loool. What would you do? Show More
Keep talking to them over email
Ignore and block email
Other
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Add Opinion 15 21
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