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Polls: Break Up & Divorce

In all honesty, How many of your Breakups were Your Fault?

I'd say at least half if not 75% were my fault. I have my moments but the inner asshole/ptsd is just waiting around the corner to fuck things up. What about you?
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I'd say at least half if not 75% were my fault. I have my moments but the inner asshole/ptsd is just waiting around the corner to fuck things up. What about you? Show More
All of Them! (I'm very difficult to love)
At most 75% of them are my fault. (What can I say, I like to play)
Half at best. (I did stuff, they did stuff... hindsight and all)
No more than a quarter. (I'm fairly loveable/buyer's remorse)
None they were all epic losers responsible for everything bad thing that ever happened between us.
Negative Zero (Never been in a relationship)
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Do you see low self-esteem as a good reason to break-up with someone or is it just an excuse?

By low self-esteem, I'm referring to someone who thinks very lowly of themselves, feeling inadequate and inferior to be someone's lover. These feelings can surface from issues such as making too low of an income, to...
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By low self-esteem, I'm referring to someone who thinks very lowly of themselves, feeling inadequate and inferior to be someone's lover. These feelings can surface from issues such as Show More
It's a legitimate reason to break-up
It's just an excuse to leave the relationship
Other! (Comment below)
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No
With conditions
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Is he really going to mess around with women after our fresh breakup?

Recently had a break up with my ex boyfriend Been together for about 1 year He always had trust issues because of his previous ex cheating on him He got better Then he started acting up again So I left him...
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Recently had a break up with my ex boyfriend Been together for about 1 year He always had trust issues because of his previous ex cheating on him He got better Then he Show More
No he's bluffing/don't think so
Yes he probably will
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Would you date someone who’s separated but not yet divorced?

Yea nahh. Ima need you to get that divorce in writing. 🤣 If you’re “separated” then you’re just on a break. y'all ain't fully broken up so I’m gonna consider you to still be married. Ima need y'all to dead that shit...
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Yea nahh. Ima need you to get that divorce in writing. 🤣 If you’re “separated” then you’re just on a break. y'all ain't fully broken up so I’m gonna consider you to still be married. Show More
I would date someone who has separated but not yet divorced
I would not date that someone until they have fully divorced
I would date someone who’s still married. Idgaf
I would not date someone who was ever previously married
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Which do you think would most likely occur if divorce was no longer an option?

#FeelFreeToList Your Thoughts if it was literally marry someone and have to stay together with them forever #TilDeathDoUsPart
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#FeelFreeToList Your Thoughts if it was literally marry someone and have to stay together with them forever #TilDeathDoUsPart Show More
More people would work out their marital problems
More people would have threesomes or an “open marriage”
Less people would ever marry
More people would stay unhappily married
More spouses would die under mysterious circumstances
More people would cheat and have secret affairs while married
More men will marry because they feel more secure that they won't get easily scammed by gold diggers
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Should you block an ex after you break up with them?

I broke up with my boyfriend. He isn't taking it seriously. Because, when we argue sometimes I block him. But, I actually do want to move on with my life without him. I feel kind of guilty for blocking him because I think...
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I broke up with my boyfriend. He isn't taking it seriously. Because, when we argue sometimes I block him. But, I actually do want to move on with my life without him. I feel kind of Show More
Yes
No
Depends
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Yeah, they do
Some do, some don't
No, they only get more attractive
I don't have any exes
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Yes
No
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If you want a divorce but young kids are involved, is it better to get it over with quick, wait until they are older or just stay married forever?

Sad to say, but the question was inspired by my parents. My mom was and still is miserable being with my father and talked about leaving him a lot growing up, but never did. She has become extremely bitter, even now,...
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Sad to say, but the question was inspired by my parents. My mom was and still is miserable being with my father and talked about leaving him a lot growing up, but never did. She Show More
Get a divorce even if the kids are young and hope they end up ok.
Delay getting a divorce until the kids are grown.
Stay married, even if miserable, whether it be due to commitment to your vows or for religious reasons.
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Why do you turn stone cold when breaking up?

I just lost my fiance after we spent 8 Years together and even now she's treating me like I never meant a thing to her... And I didn't even do anything unforgivable... But why do you guys have to put on your hate mask? Is...
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I just lost my fiance after we spent 8 Years together and even now she's treating me like I never meant a thing to her... And I didn't even do anything unforgivable... But why do you Show More
Because deep down your truly hateful?
Is it because your hurting as well but don't want us to know it?
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Heat of the moment breakup: is it final?

Me and my man have many arguments Even over small things We have broken up several times And im always the one packing my clothes when we fight Him saying "im done, i dont want to see u again, i will not...
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Me and my man have many arguments Even over small things We have broken up several times And im always the one packing my clothes when we fight Him saying "im done, i dont want Show More
No
Yes
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If an ex only blocks you on ONE thing?

But hasn't blocked you anywhere else. Does that mean they want to keep some lines of communication open?
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But hasn't blocked you anywhere else. Does that mean they want to keep some lines of communication open?
Yes
No
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Absolutely not
It's not a big deal
Yeah I don't care
I don't really like it but I'd rather not say anything
I don't really like it and I will say something
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Would you break-up with even your long-time sweetheart if you later discovered your soulmate?

I'm talking the girl or guy you've known for years maybe a decade, the one who you've experienced so much with, hell even lost you virginity to or even studied/worked alongside with: would you still dump even that person,...
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I'm talking the girl or guy you've known for years maybe a decade, the one who you've experienced so much with, hell even lost you virginity to or even studied/worked alongside with: Show More
Yes, even if I'm ashamed to admit in this poll that, yes, yes I would.
No, no matter how tempting.
That's really difficult to say let alone imagine
Other answer (feel free to write below)
I don't care/other smart opinion/piss-take
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Yes
No
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Relationship ends: what should happen to the friendship?

I hated this about break up. I wondered how because our relationship didn't work, our friendship got destroyed. Can't the friendship be sustained? Can't us at least mean well for each other and be able to say hi and...
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I hated this about break up. I wondered how because our relationship didn't work, our friendship got destroyed. Can't the friendship be sustained? Can't us at least mean well for Show More
Delete the friendship
Sustain it
Friendship could lead to relapse
Other
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Would it be wrong for a guy to leave his girlfriend after an abortion?

Assuming there was no pressure from him before and he didn't threaten to leave, is it wrong for him to end the relationship over that?
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Assuming there was no pressure from him before and he didn't threaten to leave, is it wrong for him to end the relationship over that? Show More
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No
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Yes
No
For results
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Yes
No
see poll ( sell that bitch )
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