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Polls: Break Up & Divorce

"breaks" in a relationship.. stupid or not?

"breaks"... what's that all about? all this is an admission you can't commit in a relationship. Taking a vacation from a relationship isn't going to fly.
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"breaks"... what's that all about? all this is an admission you can't commit in a relationship. Taking a vacation from a relationship isn't going to fly.
stupid
not stupid
dunno.
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Are you friends with your ex?

So far with both exes I've had, we tried to be friends and it just went up in flames. Definitely didn't work at all. I always thought I could be friends with exes... but it's soooo hard. So are you friends with any of...
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So far with both exes I've had, we tried to be friends and it just went up in flames. Definitely didn't work at all. I always thought I could be friends with exes... but it's soooo Show More
My ex (or one of them) and I are BFFs
My ex (or one of them) and I are friends
We tried to be friends but it failed miserably
We never tried to be friends. I just dropped all contact with them.
I haven't broken up with anyone yet. Still with my SO. So I don't have an ex
I haven't dated anyone. So I don't have an ex.
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Would you leave your wife if she went from thin to fat?

Your girlfriend in her early 20's when you started dating her (left). Your girlfriend in her late 20's after 2 years of marriage (far right). She does not plan to lose the weight. Would you leave her?
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Your girlfriend in her early 20's when you started dating her (left). Your girlfriend in her late 20's after 2 years of marriage (far right). She does not plan to lose the weight. Show More
Yes
No
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She cheated on me, now she broke up with him and wants me back?

So few months back I had a hot af and popular girlfriend, that I caught cheating on me (kinda). She thought I wanted to break up so she did it herself: There was this guy having a crush on her for a while, and once she...
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So few months back I had a hot af and popular girlfriend, that I caught cheating on me (kinda). She thought I wanted to break up so she did it herself: There was this guy having a Show More
Break up (please, give a longer opinion)
Keep it going (give a longer opinion)
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Do you cry after a breakup?

im always crying after i get over a relationship because i fall TOO deep when i fall for someone. and it seems like the guy never ever cares or even bothers :/ they move on so fast. like right after a break up they just...
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im always crying after i get over a relationship because i fall TOO deep when i fall for someone. and it seems like the guy never ever cares or even bothers :/ they move on so fast. like right after a break up they just move on to games or another girl. am i the only person who cries after breakups?
Yes, all the time
Most of the time
Sometimes
Super rarely
Never
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Yes
No
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Yes
No
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They want you back
They are trying to get even / hurt you
They like attention and they know they can get it from you
They don't want you to move on but it's okay if they do
They are trying to keep you around in case they want you back one day
They enjoy messing with your feelings
They still love you but aren't sure what they want
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Yes
No
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True
False
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Is it true that women "plan" break ups much further in advance than guys?

I spent some time with a longtime galpal of mine last weekend. She's a wonderful woman and probably the only true "gal pal" I have. Anyway she just got in a divorce a month ago after a 6 year relationship. She told...
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I spent some time with a longtime galpal of mine last weekend. She's a wonderful woman and probably the only true "gal pal" I have. Anyway she just got in a divorce a month ago Show More
Yes
No
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Yes
No
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Dumper
Dumpee
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My ex sent me flowers on Valentine's Day. What should I do?

For reference, we were together 2 years, we broke up last August, we haven't spoken in 4 months (we agreed on no contact for a few months), and he's convinced that we're getting back together even though I told him I'm...
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For reference, we were together 2 years, we broke up last August, we haven't spoken in 4 months (we agreed on no contact for a few months), and he's convinced that we're getting back Show More
Thank him. He did spend money and it's the least you could do.
Ignore it. You don't want to open that can of worms.
Other
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Yes, it is
No, it's not
Other
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Would you have visited your ex in the hospital?

I was watching part of this video where two exes got to ask each other questions with a lie detector. It seems towards the end of their relationship the two had been going at it on social media back and forth until they...
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I was watching part of this video where two exes got to ask each other questions with a lie detector. It seems towards the end of their relationship the two had been going at it on Show More
I would have visited the ex in the hospital knowing they were asking for me
I would have hung up, and not visited the ex in the hospital
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Do I have a chance with him even though he's casually seeing someone else?

I was dating this guy, but ended things because he didn't know what he wanted. Now, I realized that I still like him very much and still want to be with him, despite his faults. Anyhow, I found out through mutual friends...
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I was dating this guy, but ended things because he didn't know what he wanted. Now, I realized that I still like him very much and still want to be with him, despite his faults. Show More
Leave him with the new girl
Give it a shot, see how things go
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How weird is it to contact your ex's ex?

I'm not going to go into too much detail! But, basically my boyfriend well ex. left me for someone else. And now they're not together anymore. Would it be weird if I contacted the girl. I mean... I'm just hoping maybe a...
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I'm not going to go into too much detail! But, basically my boyfriend well ex. left me for someone else. And now they're not together anymore. Would it be weird if I contacted the Show More
Pretty weird.
Not weird.
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Do you think admitting your true feelings to someone is like... Detrimental? Or like putting yourself in a position to be taken advantage of?

Everyone has pride, everyone has a protective wall up to Guard against their feelings and emotions. Some of us believe that when you admit your deepest feelings and emotions to your partner, you stand a great chance of...
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Everyone has pride, everyone has a protective wall up to Guard against their feelings and emotions. Some of us believe that when you admit your deepest feelings and emotions to your Show More
I think there are certain feelings we must keep to ourselves in a relationship
I'm not superstitious, I'd tell my partner the truth about how he/she makes me feel inside
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My boyfriend cheated on me, so I slept with his childhood bully. Was I right?

I'm using my cousin's account and saw my boyfriend have sex with his ex. I ran into his childhood bully in a bar and we have had sex after I broke up with him. Should I boast that I slept with him and was I right?
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I'm using my cousin's account and saw my boyfriend have sex with his ex. I ran into his childhood bully in a bar and we have had sex after I broke up with him. Should I boast that I Show More
Yes, you were right :)
NO, you were not :(
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