Questions: Break Up & Divorce

One Chance, Per Woman, Per Lifetime - Do you girls/women agree with this statement?

That a guy only get's once chance per woman for a lifetime? That you can never look at him again in the same way after a break-up because once your interest level for him has dropped for and a break-up has occured it can never go back as high as it was before?

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Her birthday is tomorrow, we were madly in love, should I send her a text? We haven't spoken for almost a year, it ended badly and I even blocked her on Facebook.

I’ve tried to move on, but I can’t help it that I still have feelings for her. She is also keeping a picture from our relationship as her profile pic she has had it there for the past year, either to remind me of the relationship or to mind-f*** me. I’m not sure why, but it’s really weird.

She did me wrong but I’m kind of tired of staying mad at her so should I send her text and congratulate her?

A part of me wants to show her I still care but the other part is like saying it will only boost her ego and make me feel bad about it.

So if I am going to do it, why should I be doing it?

And if not why shoulden't i?

What do you think? I might let the votes decide.