Look deeper. What is he doing with his life? Does he have GOALS? If he has well thought out plans, like get his education, network to place himself in the job market, make wise choices Then he's a keeper!
Sure, but he should also know how to take care of himself. If he can't cook or do laundry, how is he going to survive by himself in the real world? If he does know how to do all the things you just listed, why does he not know how to do his laundry?
It depends on what his overall GOALS are. Is he saving is money for future investments = Right Guy. Is he wasting time at home, no job, plays video games all day and night = Wrong Guy!
I still live at home , the only reason is this Damned economy , I've got a decent job and I'm 99% independent I just can't find a reasonably priced apartment or home in my area.
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My boyfriend of four years and I still live with his mom. We pay rent but its nice and I love it :)
Thanks, dude. I'm looking better and better every minute.
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I guess this shows you that women want a guy who's already made it. Apparently a woman wants to date a guy who will give her an easy life and basically act like a dad to her. Pretty gross but that's women for you.
Ironic that they want a guy who has material f wealth for them to mooch off of which is the EXACT same thing they accuse him of doing when living with his parents.
@2014raser What if the grown man works overtime hours and can't afford to live on his own because our economy is destroyed? Is he still not dating material?
@2014raser So what you're basically saying is, a majority of adult American men shouldn't be in a committed relationship. How narrow-minded of you, BUT, I think you will change your mind once you reach adulthood.
When I was 15 years old, I thought it was easy to become financially stable once you hit adulthood too. I found out after high school it was just as hard to make money.
@CincinnatiRedsFan I think the majority of guys that live with their parents are not in that situation. Most stay just because their parents do everything for them, and they don't have the drive to do better because someone's doing it for them. Just the way I see it, and I have seen many examples of guys like that. My dad will point them out to me all the time.
@2014raser I actually don't disagree with the fact most guys living with their parents in adult-hood are moochers. However, I'm not one of them. My job doesn't pay well enough for me to move out on my own AND my parents and I are very close and we agreed it was better for me to live with them. I'm going to be a teacher soon but I think I'm still going to live with my parents and help them out.
However, you do realize that if a guy moves out on his own, he more than likely won't be financially stable, right? Ever heard of bills? There are many people living on their own who can barely afford it.
@CincinnatiRedsfan I do realize that, but here's the thing that baffles me. There are people just like that in the church I go to, families even. The people who I'm talking about are not the most financially stable, but they love to waste their money anyway. New cars every year. Expensive clothes for church. They can't get financially stable and they wonder why.
I know not everyone who is poor is doing the same thing, but I think most are.
@CincinnatiRedsFan Maybe saying "Any grown man that lives with his parents shouldn't be any dating material for any girl," is really a bit much. Thanks for educating me on that! :D
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lol. the title of this is hilarious, the reasons why are twice as funny.
Yea, lol
I agree lololol
Actually, I live with my girlfriend's parents. Mom gives great head.
Ahahahahaaa shittt man that's screwed up 😂
hahahah fun list
But I'll take my walk-around-naked, carefree, independent lifestyle thank u very much
... Lol. Is this serious? Thanks, but no thanks. It's fine for some women, but not for me.
Now this is silly, the girl I like lives with his mom. Come on, she never can see things could be much better possibly more updates later..
... So just because he doesn't do his own laundry I should date him? Haha no. :)
Look deeper. What is he doing with his life? Does he have GOALS? If he has well thought out plans, like get his education, network to place himself in the job market, make wise choices Then he's a keeper!
Sure, but he should also know how to take care of himself. If he can't cook or do laundry, how is he going to survive by himself in the real world? If he does know how to do all the things you just listed, why does he not know how to do his laundry?
So cute :p
BUT just one thing to think about too :p
A guy who live with his parents is not strong like other who has their own life :)
It depends on what his overall GOALS are. Is he saving is money for future investments = Right Guy.
Is he wasting time at home, no job, plays video games all day and night = Wrong Guy!
well it's not just about money :)
i mean dealing with life :p
While a guy shouldn't be discounted for living with his parents, only #5 is anywhere near valid.
Agreed.
It makes me think theydon't have the balls to leave the nest and live on their own.
I still live at home , the only reason is this Damned economy , I've got a decent job and I'm 99% independent
I just can't find a reasonably priced apartment or home in my area.
My boyfriend of four years and I still live with his mom. We pay rent but its nice and I love it :)
Thanks, dude. I'm looking better and better every minute.
I guess this shows you that women want a guy who's already made it. Apparently a woman wants to date a guy who will give her an easy life and basically act like a dad to her. Pretty gross but that's women for you.
So wanting a guy who is financially stable & can support himself is a bad thing? If I can support MYSELF, he should be able to support himself.
Ironic that they want a guy who has material f wealth for them to mooch off of which is the EXACT same thing they accuse him of doing when living with his parents.
Going from a hot guy who lived on his own to what I have now was the biggest buzz kill -.-
then why you are with him? why make both yuor lives miserable?
Until something better comes along
Nahh it's more like using him til my ex gets jealous and comes back
I wouldn't date a guy who mooches off his parents, like he'd do the same for a girl
^with a girl
I paid my parents when I lived with them.
ITT: OP lives at home with his parents and can't get a girlfriend.
If girls use this as the only criteria in his profile, then living at home is an easy way to filter out the materialistic oriented girls.
@FatherKnowsBest Obviously.
+1 for FatherKnowsBest
You're both correct @KeeperofMee and @FatherKnowsBest :D
I love my parents and there are so many benefits about living at my parents, and ofc saving all dat moneyyy.
Living at home is a great way of filtering out the shallow women who aren't marriage material.
How has that been working out for you?
@Lioness I'm getting married to lovely lady who also lives at home. I personally moved back home while finishing college in my early thirties.
That is great to hear, I am glad working out for you :D
Retarded take. Any grown man that lives with his parents shouldn't be any dating material for any girl.
Oh shush. You still live at home.
@kxera
I'm not a grown man. :P
@2014raser What if the grown man works overtime hours and can't afford to live on his own because our economy is destroyed? Is he still not dating material?
@CincinnatiRedsfan
If he can't afford to support a family then I believe he has no business getting committed to a relationship.
@2014raser So what you're basically saying is, a majority of adult American men shouldn't be in a committed relationship. How narrow-minded of you, BUT, I think you will change your mind once you reach adulthood.
When I was 15 years old, I thought it was easy to become financially stable once you hit adulthood too. I found out after high school it was just as hard to make money.
@CincinnatiRedsFan
I think the majority of guys that live with their parents are not in that situation. Most stay just because their parents do everything for them, and they don't have the drive to do better because someone's doing it for them. Just the way I see it, and I have seen many examples of guys like that. My dad will point them out to me all the time.
@2014raser I actually don't disagree with the fact most guys living with their parents in adult-hood are moochers. However, I'm not one of them. My job doesn't pay well enough for me to move out on my own AND my parents and I are very close and we agreed it was better for me to live with them. I'm going to be a teacher soon but I think I'm still going to live with my parents and help them out.
However, you do realize that if a guy moves out on his own, he more than likely won't be financially stable, right? Ever heard of bills? There are many people living on their own who can barely afford it.
@CincinnatiRedsfan
I do realize that, but here's the thing that baffles me. There are people just like that in the church I go to, families even. The people who I'm talking about are not the most financially stable, but they love to waste their money anyway. New cars every year. Expensive clothes for church. They can't get financially stable and they wonder why.
I know not everyone who is poor is doing the same thing, but I think most are.
@2014raser Now THAT I am in full agreement with! I live a very cheap life. I rarely by anything used (let alone new.)
@CincinnatiRedsFan
Maybe saying "Any grown man that lives with his parents shouldn't be any dating material for any girl," is really a bit much. Thanks for educating me on that! :D
@2014raser No problem! Again, you're still a teenager and aren't as aware of our atrocious economy.
These are all true except for the first one. I'm pretty hot. I got a lot of marriage proposals.