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You spared him the pain, good. I hate the way you phrased your title though, almost like you relished it. Anyways good on you for doing something stupid and actually feeling something for another dude while acknowledging it and still fucking him... yeah i don't think you give a flying fuck about others. Perhaps its best to not date for awhile so you don't screw anyone else over and re-evaluate your life choices.
-OG out
Cheating on someone means that you don't really love them because if you did, the mere thought of someone else touching you would disgust you. So, claim otherwise all you like, but you didn't love him. At least, not enough to be faithful.
I woulda just broke up with the guy and said that I wanna enjoy the college life single.
Who knows maybe he cheated on you too
Interesting. We always learn best from the mistakes we make first hand. I'm glad you were cheated on several times because it shows you what it's like to be on the other side.
"The worst pain of all, however, was the pain of the heartbreak of never seeing Oliver again."
Seriously? That was the worst part? What ALL is wrong with that?
lol i hadn't noticed that, wtf... .
why'd you leave matt? Damn i need you to finish this book!!!
yeah, karma is a bitch... I hope it stills hurts you for being a cheater.
So... basically you're a terrible human being.
Good for you.
You could've caught an STD and gave it to him or he could've been stuck raising a child that wasn't his. You should've told him.
Hey stuff happens. You learned. Cheating isn't great, but it happens. You were young.
Everyone on here is pretty harsh. I don't agree with them, but it seems to be the majority have a very negative reaction to your story. I think that goes along with your point that cheating feels harmless in the act of it, but it truly affects others in a much more multiplied way and the guilt from the cheater oftentimes overweighs the positive encounter.
Well, this was a wasted Take
No temptation is beyond our control or we would not call it a temptation but I thoroughly enjoyed reading that. I used to be a every day cheater when I was younger. Some of the girls knew some did not. I did feel guilt so I just did more drugs. I also felt guilt from other things as well. Sex was my outlet.
I have a colleague. She learns what cheating is with every dick that she meets in her path. I am sure she feels the same and has the same guilt going on in her head afterwards, just like you did,... that until the next erect penis is in her face.
nobody forces you to do anything. what is that take supposed to be? you trying to rationalise and justify your mistakes?
It's crazy how common it is for people to cheat on vacation away from their partner. I've heard of this happening more than I'd like to admit..
Thats soooo true cause it is an ideal cheat and move on situation. Also it reinvigorates some people's relationships which is ironic and crazy at the same time. LOL
@nymous1234 yeah it is pretty sad and crazy..
Jeez the guilt must be eating you up inside for you to post this boring drawn out expose of your adultery. It's bad enough you cheated but you can't just keep it to yourself like a good girl either.
I really hate these anonymous users.
Sometimes i question myself whether the anonymous function on GaG is actually helpfull or just some tool for jerks/bitches to use at will.
how do you feel looking into your boyfriend eyes knowing you betrayed his trust?
I'd like to read the response to this question too...
I agree with @Prof_Don no sympathy, no excuses what you did was wrong and I hope you learn from it and never do it again.
i've cheated on my boyfriend too, and I don't regret it. He was a douche and i dumped him eventually anyways
Why didn't you dump him in the first place instead of cheating on him? Honestly, that makes YOU the douche. Cheating is never justified and definitely nothing to be proud of.
You're no better than your boyfriend.
@aWes0MeNeSs Because she wanted revenge for some reason and obviously had a low interest level in him. It's still F'd up though.
@Knuckles77 meh, i don't care. I was sleeping with two other men behind his back. Wanna know why? I suspected he was sleeping with another woman. I dont regret my choice
That's not unfair. I would say just end it instead.
@Knuckles77 I agree, it is fucked up.