It can be both good and bad. When you really like someone or when you are in love, at times you become blinded by the things that are bad about the person and sometimes you need to be told that this is not healthy for you. Different perspectives is always good sometimes, but you don't have to do exactly as they tell you to.
Eh, I need my family in my life. My future kids need their grandparents on both sides to spoil the shit out of them on holidays. Sometimes your family can see problems that you can't when you're blinded by love or infatuation.
@Rainie_@WillowTree I'm not saying having an outside opinion is bad, but to me the way it's worded says that if family dislike something about her he'd dump her even if he doesn't. To me that's the same as my mom trying to get me to break up with an old girlfriend just because she was white.
@WillowTree a family or friend should have a minor say in who you date. If they have this much influence in their actions and choices you might as well be banging the person who is whispering in her ear. They should have a say, but they shouldn't be able to make crucial decisions in YOUR life.
@howzit2015 I wouldn't let them make decisions for me, but I'd consider their opinion. Don't misunderstand. If I felt their concerns were unfounded or just them being paranoid I'd ignore it.
This doesn't apply to all women. Because I have been by myself for so many years by choice. Some women are more in-tune with what energy you project as both a human being, and as an individual person we just know that your not for us. And as years go by or when we hear breakup details of your relationships, our suspicions about you are usually true. But I do agree that a lot of women meets your opinion. Just don't group every female on the planet that. Because looks is meaningless to me and on the very bottom of the list. Like I always say its very deceitful to rely on looks alone as the benefactor for you to jump a relationship with somebody.
@btbc92 criminals, assholes and misogynists as such are getting relationships and sex more than good guys. It doesn't matter as long you have good looks, money and status that's all matters to women. I wish women would just come clean about that instead of confusing us with what's attractive and wasting our times. Us men dont listen to what women advise us to do we just watch and all I see is looks money and status.
@Mrwoo99 I'm the exact same way when I just want honesty. I don't have the time to be fooling around and playing wit someone's head. But you also have to remember that this is what the media is telling women to do, act and behave.
@btbc92 don't blame or point the finger because media influences female hypergamy. The only reason the MGTOW movement exists is because of feminism and it's ideology brainwashing. Am sorry but if you women keep on going on the way you are going on, majority of men are going to be pulling out of the game if we are not reaping in benefits and you women will be without commitment, a provider and independently looking after children on your own without a man.
@Mrwoo99 I blame any and everybody young and old of any movement who's of in agreement of this nonsense. This applies to everybody. I am not like other women and others know that. I know where my place is as a young woman, but I cannot control what others do. Men are just as equally responsible as other women are as well. I will not force a man to do something that he doesn't want to do if his views differed from mine. Period. Feminist movement has always been an issue. All movements of any kind is. This is why I refuse to associate myself with anybody. I do what I have to do and I have no problem setting the record straight wither it be male or female young and old. I for one will not mistreat a man just because were different in a lot of things.
It's a woman's loss anyway because when they finish riding the cock carousel with goodlooking players and bad boys they start to look for a nice guy for relationships when they are not wanted anymore om the wrong side of 30 by alpha males. Us men age better, we increase with status, money and game. A women's prime is her 20s and once that's gone she's brown bread and has to settle for basement dwellers playing WOW or get nothing because she be nothing more but a pump and dump to men.
@Hateguysplay1 well 18 to 26, maybe up until 30 depending on her genes but it's downhill from 30 usually then crash at 35, I've seen it with my own eyes also. Am by then they finding it hard to date down since they've always been used to alpha makes who have pumped and dumped them and now want a nice guy but beta nice guys are wising up and don't want left over scraps once they realise there true potential.
Yes! Right after they say no cut them off before they say anything else, say what you said, and then casually turn your back on them, walk away with head held up high and never look back.
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Yeah number 3 is a stupid reason. You basically let your family dictate your relationship.
It can be both good and bad. When you really like someone or when you are in love, at times you become blinded by the things that are bad about the person and sometimes you need to be told that this is not healthy for you. Different perspectives is always good sometimes, but you don't have to do exactly as they tell you to.
Eh, I need my family in my life. My future kids need their grandparents on both sides to spoil the shit out of them on holidays. Sometimes your family can see problems that you can't when you're blinded by love or infatuation.
@Rainie_ @WillowTree I'm not saying having an outside opinion is bad, but to me the way it's worded says that if family dislike something about her he'd dump her even if he doesn't. To me that's the same as my mom trying to get me to break up with an old girlfriend just because she was white.
@WillowTree a family or friend should have a minor say in who you date. If they have this much influence in their actions and choices you might as well be banging the person who is whispering in her ear. They should have a say, but they shouldn't be able to make crucial decisions in YOUR life.
@howzit2015 I wouldn't let them make decisions for me, but I'd consider their opinion. Don't misunderstand. If I felt their concerns were unfounded or just them being paranoid I'd ignore it.
@WillowTree Cool. I agree. My friends and I usually keep our opinions about their SO to ourselves. We find it is not our place to say.
I'd reject someone who wanted to go trespassing on railway lines to take stupid shoe pictures.
BS my take, women don't care about these things when your goodlooking, have money and status. I don't understand why women lie about this stuff.
This doesn't apply to all women. Because I have been by myself for so many years by choice. Some women are more in-tune with what energy you project as both a human being, and as an individual person we just know that your not for us. And as years go by or when we hear breakup details of your relationships, our suspicions about you are usually true. But I do agree that a lot of women meets your opinion. Just don't group every female on the planet that. Because looks is meaningless to me and on the very bottom of the list. Like I always say its very deceitful to rely on looks alone as the benefactor for you to jump a relationship with somebody.
@btbc92 criminals, assholes and misogynists as such are getting relationships and sex more than good guys. It doesn't matter as long you have good looks, money and status that's all matters to women. I wish women would just come clean about that instead of confusing us with what's attractive and wasting our times. Us men dont listen to what women advise us to do we just watch and all I see is looks money and status.
@Mrwoo99 I'm the exact same way when I just want honesty. I don't have the time to be fooling around and playing wit someone's head. But you also have to remember that this is what the media is telling women to do, act and behave.
@btbc92 don't blame or point the finger because media influences female hypergamy. The only reason the MGTOW movement exists is because of feminism and it's ideology brainwashing. Am sorry but if you women keep on going on the way you are going on, majority of men are going to be pulling out of the game if we are not reaping in benefits and you women will be without commitment, a provider and independently looking after children on your own without a man.
@Mrwoo99 I blame any and everybody young and old of any movement who's of in agreement of this nonsense. This applies to everybody. I am not like other women and others know that. I know where my place is as a young woman, but I cannot control what others do. Men are just as equally responsible as other women are as well. I will not force a man to do something that he doesn't want to do if his views differed from mine. Period. Feminist movement has always been an issue. All movements of any kind is. This is why I refuse to associate myself with anybody. I do what I have to do and I have no problem setting the record straight wither it be male or female young and old. I for one will not mistreat a man just because were different in a lot of things.
Because who comes online to write one's own dark side...
Good post, impressive writing skills!
Thank you very much! :)
Meh. These reasons are kind of obvious and mundane. I liked the "5 Reasons Why I Rejected Girls in College" better.
Surprised there isn't a no job or car as reasons for rejecting a guy.
I could fill in every one of those with "he didn't have a car/job"
#1, #2, and #3. Assume that you know him previously. Are you talking about you've known the guy for a bit?
Reading the majority of the guys comments makes me loose faith in humanity
I wish EVERY girl didn't have all five of these reasons.
Cool give yourself a medal. You're a saint for all you good deeds. Be proud
Every girl making shit up in comments because they behind screen lol Explains why most of you are creepy and sad and lonely
How I deal with rejection. OK cool.
NEXT!!!
Ouch
@Hateguysplay1 she didn't want me. Why should I cry about it?
Maybe she does. Have you tried hard? Flowers, cry, sincere I'm sorry instead through messages all those work
@Hateguysplay1 i don't cry over spilled milk. I pour myself another glass
Okok
It's a woman's loss anyway because when they finish riding the cock carousel with goodlooking players and bad boys they start to look for a nice guy for relationships when they are not wanted anymore om the wrong side of 30 by alpha males. Us men age better, we increase with status, money and game. A women's prime is her 20s and once that's gone she's brown bread and has to settle for basement dwellers playing WOW or get nothing because she be nothing more but a pump and dump to men.
Men age like wine, women age like milk
@Mrwoo99 true that... We are hot 15 to 25
@Hateguysplay1 I disagree, betty white ia.media-imdb.com/.../...17_CR10,0,214,317_AL_.jpg hnngggggg
@Hateguysplay1 well 18 to 26, maybe up until 30 depending on her genes but it's downhill from 30 usually then crash at 35, I've seen it with my own eyes also. Am by then they finding it hard to date down since they've always been used to alpha makes who have pumped and dumped them and now want a nice guy but beta nice guys are wising up and don't want left over scraps once they realise there true potential.
Feels good to be a man.
Yes! Right after they say no cut them off before they say anything else, say what you said, and then casually turn your back on them, walk away with head held up high and never look back.
Makes a lot of sense
Nice take
Sure.