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One Big Reason Why Guys Don't Want to Pay on a First Date (Page 2)
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i didn't even read this, because i disagree with it from the very get-to. I think that paying for the women on the first date is respectful, and is the right thing to do. I feel like if you don't like doing it you're just downright stubborn.
Or it's because you're a cheap bastard. LOL at beta cucks not paying on the first date you seriously can't pay $30? Remember, YOU asked her out on the date.
I fail to see how not paying makes someone a cuck.
"Showing commitment" in the sense that the man is generally supposed to be the financial provider whereas the woman generally has to provide sex and emotional support
Some of the best dates I've ever been on have been scenic walks or going to get coffee. It doesn't matter who pays or whether the date cost anything at all. The conversation and getting to know one another is the real worth..
I cna understand how this feels becuase i use to spend $60-$200 on dates i never thought too much about it at first till i seen how certain girls expected u too pay even if its a $20 date. My current girlfriend paid for what she got during our first date which was a nice date but now that we have gotta to known each other. We both trick the other 3 nights ago i tried paying the bill and she ended up tricking me out of doing so. Which i have done 3 times to her its a fun little game of ours.
If she's not working, or I know/presume that I make way more than she does, then I'll pay.
Otherwise i'll go Dutch, so nobody feels used.
i dont know whats so hard about looking at the bill, identifying what you ate, and paying for what you ate. then he looks at the bill, identify what he ate, and pay for himself. why is that so difficult?
Another reason
-you pimp it so much and so its not economical to pay for a date every night of the week. she go to da bar she gets bought ONE drink and we're OUT
It's not about the money it's about the implications
Please read the take before commenting.
I did I'm agreeing with you
*Round of applause* I don't upvote myTakes often 👍
One of the benefits of not paying on the first date is to see if she's there for you and not the free meal.
So long as we have fun, I don't care who pays
though I am flattered if the guy does
That's completely understandable. I'm not really saying one should pay over the other. It was just about some of the reasons guys are a little more reluctant nowadays.
The one who invites out should pay. I don't care if it's a guy or a girl.
It's the same type of fear women get if they have sex with a guy. They feel used.
I honestly would and have paid even when I was already told there would have not been any second date.
And I get insulted only if she offers to split or even worst to pay the check.
And I'm poor.
You place way too much of your manhood on money.
Not at all. I do that with my friends in general also. I just like being generous, it makes me feel better.
If you like doing nice things for people why do you feel insulted if someone simply tries to do the same for you?
I know it cause a controversy, but I'm quite more comfortable giving than receiving. I feel I owe something when I'm receiving.
I pretty much pay on the first date, but if the women insist I let them split it or buy me a drink.
Why should we? That's backward oppression. Old-school patriarchal feminism
One big reason guys don't get a second.
LULZ
Because women are ungrateful for what they do and only cared about their money instead of them? yeah, how dare they have self respect.
Unless you put out on a first date having diner with a women isn't something we consider "getting seconds".
Women don't deserve it anymore.
Speak for yourself I have no issues with it.
That's fine good thing at no point anywhere within any part of this did I say this was all guys *rolls eyes*
One Big Reason Why Guys Don't Want to Pay on a First Date
Lookin for the part where I said all. Mmmm nope don't see it.
You don't have to say all.
I kind of do if I'm trying to say I'm speaking for all the guys. Which I'm not. I even say I'm not and talk about guys with different opinions in the take. Which leads me to believe you never even read the take...