To Approach or Not to Approach (Women)? (Page 2)

[mostwomenshouldstfu]

Hahaha, that article. Is all about work. Men are lazier, so are women. Technology and too many people. Once the world depopulates, s*** will balance out, we're off kilter and women are more miserable than ever. Guys need to pay more positive attention to women and women need to desire better attention. Stop treating yourselves like s*** out of spite. And... the dating scene will get better.

[zagor]

Good points. In addition to places where women can't physically leave (elevators, etc.) I also try to avoid approaching women that I know I will regularly run into (co-workers, neighbors) as a failed approach may make future interactions awkward.

[Kelfuma]

I never really cared. I might see a cute girl here and there but women tend to be very low on my priority list. I mean, it would be nice to find a pretty girl who loved me but then I look at life and see the important things that need to be done and I go do them.

[RandomBritishGuy94]

There are places you shouldn't approach women for this kind of thing (A hospital wouldn't be a good place for an extreme example) but overall you have nothing to lose. Generally it's just using common sense to know when it is and isn't ok.

[Kkaos]

Oh you never know, I once shared a moment with a nurse when I was in hospital once. But it depends on the situation, lol.

[Izzex3]

Nice take.
I agree with most except for #2.
I guess it depends on where you are, but girls approach and hit on guys all the time.

[HarrisonWells]

They do?

[RainbowFanGirl]

@HarrisonWells yes, they do. I do. 😛

[Izzex3]

@HarrisonWells Yes, we do.

[JohnDoe3000]

@HarrisonWells

They do, but unless you look like a male model it's going to be the ugliest/craziest/fattest ones 99% of the time, and they won't even be real cold approaches.

[Anonymous]

I've been approaching women for a few years now and while I agree that it's better to do it than not do it, there are a lot of girls who are really shy and/or insist that any guy they date MUST be a guy they already know that they met through friends, classes etc. It's bullshit, but that's how it is.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess what I'm saying is that just because you approach girls, doesn't mean your dating life is gonna be smooth sailing from now until the end of time. Women make up one half of the equation, and when they reject us for irrational reasons, there's nothing we can really do about it.

[Liisjak]

So you're saying men should approach women, wow... discovery of the century.

[Kaylaharp46]

If you're a nice guy with good intentions please appoach. Usually the men that do approach are wolves in sheeps clothing, player types. Nice guys need to take over.

[HarrisonWells]

I have approached and have been rejected by so many women I question what point i have in bothering to do so.

[Kkaos]

You obviously thought there was a point in it when you did it? What's changed? You approached because you were going after what you want. So what if it didn't work out. You're always going to be worse off if you just give up.

[HarrisonWells]

@Kkaos
really? even after getting rejected over 13 years? feels like i am some kind of freak

[wolfie12]

Getting said "no" is the least of the problems. The worst thing in my opinion is when you get played with , because they either loke the attention or are for some reason affraid to say no.

[ChromAzonyx108]

Leave all your fucks behind in 2016 and just do it.

[Anonymous]

If women did not flake so much then maybe it would be easier for me to accept this gender role or social Norm

[Kkaos]

They only flake because they're not really all that attracted to you in the first place. Focus more on yourself and things like that won't matter to you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Kkaos how to focus on yourself?

[John_Doesnt]

It's so awful how we live in a rape culture where men are taught how to "approach" women.

[Anonymous]

Approach if: You're good looking, and she makes eye contact with you several times

Don't approach: If you can't make both things above happen...

[Anonymous]

girls shouldn't initiate. our ego is just too precious to get hurt... .

[Kirah]

But it's totally fine if a man's ego gets hurt?

[Opinion Owner]

@Kirah screw men. they are our playthings to fuck, gold dig snd procreate with.

[Luci92]

I agree wholeheartedly

[Anonymous]

Stopped reading as soon as I read your snarky little anti-trump comment that's supported with false media narratives and debunked allegations. 👎🏼

[IHateBeingaMan]

thats why i picked this username

[Nahidpie]

Ok cool

[NightOwl8801]

Nicely stated