Like I'm a walking chatterbox. I don't mean to be I just can't help it.
2. I'm shy as hell and don't trust anyone for a long long time.
If you say "oh can you tell me where this is?" or "have you seen my dog?" I'll say what I know but if you just start talking to me for no reason, I'm on edge watching thinking WTF DO YOU WANT? WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO ME? WHAT'S YOUR MOTIVE?
3. I don't like to be touched, it freaks me out.
My mother was very clingy wanting to hold and cling to me all the time so I grew to hate being touched.
4. If I'm crying or in actual pain, I don't want you to help me.
If I'm crying I want to be alone to cry I don't want people looking at me. If I fall and it hurts bad I don't want people holding onto me going "are you ok? here let me see" No. I want you to get away from me so I can walk it off.
5. The lifestyle I plan to have.
The life I want is not for most especially of my generation. I want to live as self-sufficient as possible or homesteading. So city or town life doesn't appeal to me. I hate the city. It's loud, smells bad, the air is like breathing smog, I don't like it. When I say self-sufficient I don't mean I'll do some paperwork at some job then walk a block to an ice cream shop, NO. I mean getting up and growing your own food, making your own soap, leather, and collecting your own honey. So if you don't even know that there are different breeds of cattle than that's just not going to work.
6. TOP SECRET.
I'm very secretive. everything I do is a secret. I could be doing something as simple as making a PBJ or watching a movie and I act like its top secret.
7. Still childish.
I still watch the little kid shows and movies like My Little Pony and SWAT CATS.
8. My personality shifts constantly.
No, I don't mean I have a multiple personality disorder. I mean I could want to dress like punk then want to look like a tomboy, pretty clothes with heels, victorian era to until 2017. This includes my music taste and overall demeanor. It also affects my style of guy. Sometimes I like boys who are shy and blush. Other times I like guys who are funny and joke a lot or guys who are your normal "I hunt and fish" kinda guy. Basically I'm BATSHIT FUCKING CRAZY.
9. I'm competitive and I'm a rough-houser.
If you make a wise crack at me I'll punch you in the arm or leg or something and I want to win. I don't need to but I want to.
Who DOESN'T want to be self-sufficent instead of relying on somebody else? i like the idea of having some means to generate an endless amount of electricity so I don't have to pay the fucking bills over and over again. Same for pretty much any other necessary resource like food, water, etc.
6. TOP SECRET.
I like this one. With the way the world has become, who doesn't feel paranoid about their privacy, etc. And if you had a significant other chances are they want to know this and know that about you. Trust issues. you have 'em I have 'em LOL
7. Still childish.
LOL this one gave me a good laugh. Why not? It's boring af always watching adult movies and tv shows all the time anyway.
9. I'm competitive and I'm a rough-houser.
You saved the best for the last. Take NO SHIT FROM ANYBODY ELSE! That's all I can say. Doesn't matter whether they you're boyfriend, spouse or partner because they better not expect you to be easy to control and be fucking pushed around and tease you all the time or any time.
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when i said top secret i mean everything i was eating a bag of chips i got at the why not and someone came up to me it scared me and i whipped my hand behind my back hiding my chips and kept them thare even when i saw it was my mom like i was trying to hid something bad
Of course you feel this way, you're only 16. When I was younger I thought I would never find a husband, but I have faith that I will. Unless I die before then.
Don't forget that you are prone to accidents lol... I still think you are a moron hon lol... you are damn near what every guy would want, you are just sifting through a lot of personalities right now... but eventually (like in early 20's) all that shit will calm down and i know you will blossom.. into some guy's dream girl. Now, to piss you off 😀😋 how on earth do you talk a lot but when someone talks to you, you ask for the motive? how does that work? lol you dont like being touched... "yet" is all i can say to that. The way i see it darling... you just need a Man... and its not gonna come until you become a woman apparently... cuz i can see the way a man can negate ALL of the shit you just said Including trying to run off into the woods lol.
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Because I talk a lot to people i have been around a lot but new people I don't like don't trust and Don't​want near me. I'm doubting that I'll ever like someone touching me sence my mother and every time I go somewhere people try touching me or my hair. Run off into the woods do you mean home steading? I don't see how anyone could deal with me. The shifting personality is something I have done sence I was little
trust me, you'll figure it out later. and i can understand having an aversion to people in your personal space or trying to touch you... but there will be someone you will want to do just that. It all happens in time...
😒 we all do at some point :(... there was a time i doubted i'd even get a girlfriend. but over time.. i became a hell of a player to the point where i made a conscious decision to stop dating and turning girls down. Time is a hell of a thing. i just hate that sometimes it takes too fricking long... jot down the time now... you are 16... at 20-22.. i want you to remember these words when you are frolicking around with that one guy you feel you can be without...
I honestly don't​think it will happen the most that's going to happen in my 20s is go to a few Cubs and a concert to see if I even like that kind of thing
hahaha... you'll see. dunno if we will be in contact then (and if we are... ima be old as fuck!! holy shit!! thats scary)... but if we are, i'll be happy to remind you of this conversation.
SHHHH... dont say that... i feel old enough as is... ima wake up one morning and find that im 30.. ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ ima just hang myself lol... i make fun of 30 year olds...
hahaha. when i was 16-17 , i have met girls like you who are so confused and accept that. but after their description, they are all boring. they just want atttention in the first impression and can't live up to what they say ( oh i forgot you change from time to time, which girl doesn't change their personality?) . everything said, it's still lot easier for girls as you just have to open your legs to the right person to keep him. not like guys who have to cast a spell on a every girl they find attractive in. otherwise you might be seeing virgin dudes on gag all the time whining about women.
anyways , good luck on your search.
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It's not an attention thing. And I'm not going to go looking for a guy
i agree that it's difficult to meet people when you're home schooled. i am just saying that don't let these things affect your future where your situation will be different.
It's alright I suppose I guess I have enough boys in my life after all I live with 3 boys and soon to be 4 so I guess I don't need one in my life I got the 4boys to bug me to death and my dog that sleeps on the bed with me so yay
OK, that explains things. Are you going to get used to the singlehood? Because I am in the middle of it. Gotta enjoy the solitude wherever I am and wherever I go. You can do the same, I would suggest that. The earlier you integrate into it the better.
I honestly think me watching My Little Pony might be a slight issue with the ladies (whereas the other way I don't suppose it would be just as weird?) but I don't care. I'd like a girlfriend, who accepts me for who I am with my love for the ponies.
Well its still possible just remember to communicate well and it all should go fine. Sometimes it just takes a person to start the relationship and then direct it to be successful. I'd say just take what comes to you and take calculated risks carefully. As some can come with benifits as well negatives.
Well your S. O will probably just make it clear that he won't touch you unless you make it specifically clear you want to be. If anything your likely to end up attracting someone equally as unique who is more than happy to love you for who you are.
People are malleable with relationships guys are still interested in girls even if it takes a journey to just get to know them.
Wait until your mid-late 20's before losing hope. If you do come across someone really interesting, you will be able to adjust some of these things to be more compatible. Not completely, but definitely to some extent. You will be willing to compromise so you can be together. And he will do the same. If absolutely nothing works then there is nothing wrong with being single and having everything you put on your list.
Yeah I certainly couldn't date a girl like you. However there probably some guys out there that would be cool with all of these traits. That being said, if you think your chances of finding someone are low these are all things that are in your control to change. Then again, you really shouldn't change who you are to find someone. I guess it just depends what you want to do, change to increase your chances of finding someone or try to find someone who accepts these quirks that you have.
Dude I'm not even going to have short turm but I fully planned to live alone other than dragging my cousin out with me to help with what I can't do by myself
There is. Be positive :). And like I said, you can still live a happy life if you're single. I'm not a very social person and I'm currently single too. It's no a big deal.
Well its pretty simple. Your not finding a boyfriend, nevermind husband because your not looking. Your body, mind and personality is still developing. Your young and you dont know what the fuck you want and why you exist. Whatever comes your way, better or worse it will help understanding yourself abit more. You just don't know who you are. Most people dont.
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No the constant shift has always been that way because I'm crazy as hell
A girl's body on average stops growing at 16 a boy stops at like 20 I'm not getting any taller my hips or boobs aren't going to get any bigger my body is pretty much done and has been sence 15
I meant mentally. NOONE in the world stops developing mentally. Also physically that's an average. Your not going to stay a 16 year old girl forever. Lmao do your saying your going to look the same in 30 years time?
I'm not arguing I'm just tired and hurting I have a springed ankle again and to big bruise under my shoulder blades and a cut down the senter of my back.
You're probably a nice girl under that prickly demeanour, but yeah unless you change a few things you're going to just push anyone who might like you well away.
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Nope I'm a bitter which who will cast a spell on you
doubting is the best thing ever because thats when you meet someone , i know plenty of married people who say they found someone when they were not looking or they doubted they would find anyone.
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I didn't say anything about not looking in this did I?
Sounds like you would be fun to date and a challenge. Don't worry most men know women are crazy. You just need to explain some things to your date to help him understand you enough to get along with.
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I don't see ware the fun is? And what do you mean challenge?
The fun is getting to know someone who is complicated and somewhat erratic. The challenge is that your more harder to get to know than the other girls. Some guys really like that.
To each their speed. Also, keep in mind. You think you have everything figured out, but life is going to throw you some curves you are not expecting. If there is one thing you can be sure of, it's that :-) What if you fall deeply in love with a guy who doesn't share your all your dreams? You might have to make some compromises. :-)
The one thing I can be sure off is life is a bitch. And I won't have to compromise because I'm not going to find anyone that's literally the whole point of this my take
I would if I didn't feel like shit right now. Today in class a boy said he let his brain to a friend for a test so he calms. I made a wise crack saying but he hasn't given it back for week's
#10 You're full of shit. Nobody knows how their life is going to end up when they are still only 16 and if you really think you do, then you are full of shit.
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Your right I wasn't 16 I figured out what I wanted​from life when I was 10 and I turn 17 at the end of the month
Have you gone out into the world and traveled yet? Gone to different cities, met different people and different cultures? You know, even in America, we have very diverse American cultures. Look at it this way. When you were 10, you tried vanilla and chocolate ice cream and loved the chocolate. But, you already want to decided that you only want to have chocolate ice cream for the rest of your life without even trying all the flavors out there that exist?
I understand what you're saying but you know what's beautiful? Time. You don't have to do anything and time will move on. The boys your age will become men your age and some of them may grow into liking the same things that you like.
Although, personally, I think relationships are less boring if you have some differences.
I have been drug all over the us from Las Vegas and California to new York to Arkansas and Montana I hate moving I have moved every 6ta8 fucking months my whole life I can't take it anymore. Don't get me wrong I'm not going to jump straight to that when I'm 20 I'll go to club and concert go see some other countries I really want to see the great barrier reef. Do some surfing hang gliding and snow boarding and stuff before I do that but I still want that
I'm sick of walking down the street with people grabbing my ass and cat calling me from a bunch of drunk 30 year olds hay you fucking idiot I'm 16 get your fucking hands off me before I cut them off. I do want to have some fun before that but that's what I'm going to do
If you think you'll be at risk for sexually assault, turn on your phone camera and record those pervs touching you and then call 911 on them right there and then.
Everyone thinks they are so special 🙄 If you have a vagina you will find a boyfriend The key is that you might not find one who isn't fuckin nuts Maybe try to self improve
The whole of the take was simply you spouting characteristics about yourself that obviously you find so atypical and "special". Your argument centers around the assertion that you are too odd to find a partner so by definition you must find yourself so special.
You really are not done maturing until you hit 25 honestly. A lot of your peers will change a lot. The cutest boy in your school will be bald and have a beer gut, the hottest girl will look like honey boo boo's mom. The weird kids peak later on and get carded for booze well into their 30's It happens trust me
I will tell you this, as a girl once you go to college you won't be screwed like guys are. I was home schooled in middle school and the boys who stuck with it through high school are chronically single or they married weird guys, the girls have had several boyfriends. Trust me, you are not screwed
In the dating world, men are like fishers, they have to buy the bait and learn all the techniques to get a fish, a girl is the fish, she just needs to see what hook she wants to bite. And these poor homeschooled boys never learned how to fish
When I go to diner with mom they say I can sit at the bar and have litterly handed me alcohol so I guss and I get a bunch of 30 year olds trying to flirt with me
Talking a lot - like a ridiculous amount, not liking to be touched, wanting to do (and has done) the homestead thing, not wanting to ask for help, not wanting to open up to people, liking a lot of random and odd things, rough/rowdy/competitive.
She's an amazing, hard working person though, and cares deeply about those she cares about. Also a lot older than you, so maybe some things take time.
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