I Just Want To Make Her Happy.
Guys, listen up! If you are interested and like a woman, know that you don't nor should you buy her gifts. Don't spend a dime inviting that woman to a fine restaurant to eat dinner, shopping buying her clothes, shoes and jewelry etc. I don't care how gorgeous that woman is, she doesn't deserve anything from you until she is officially your woman and off the market.
Girl, He Is Such A Sweet Sucka!
Many guys buy women items, give them money, pay their phone bill in hopes to fall under good graces to get access to the vagina. I'm here to tell you, you won't be getting no where near that woman's vagina for sex. That woman will give you hugs and maybe a kiss, but no kitty. You see that woman doesn't respect you; She knows what you are truly after; and she just goes along for the ride, milking you in the process for gifts, trips and money; While she laughs behind your back talking to her friend how desperate of a clown you are.
What's Wrong? It's Been A Hour, And No Reply.
Hardly anyone has their phone out of reach, if not, it's always in their hand or pocket. Believe me bro, She received your text right when you sended and heard the notification beep or vibration. The reason She didn't text you back within a reasonable time period was because She was busy sexting Josh, trying to get him off. Giving Josh a prelude on what He is about to get a taste of really soon.
You see, the dress and shoes you brought her, so that she can look good for you when you plan to take her out, but She instead canceled, claiming She had a "Headache" or was too tired from work was B.S. Josh was on her mind the whole time. And right after a nice night out of enjoyment, Josh will be the one to take off that dress you spend your money on. So remember, when you ask her why the long wait for a text reply, and She says, She was "Busy" know that she is telling the truth. She was just busy with another man, and not that B.S. lie that she will throw at you that, She was feeding the cat.
Silly Rabbit. He Really Thought He Had A Chance.
Ok, so now months and months have gone by and hundreds of Dollars spent on a woman that is still on the market. And you finally mustard the courage to tell her you like her, and desire to take things further;
But She drops a bombshell that you are nothing more than a sweet beloved friend that any woman will be so lucky to have you except her.
Hence, that woman will only see you as a stress reliever to vent all her problems and drama that's going on in her life. Because She knows you are a great simp, that's willing to lend a ear to her B.S. at a drop of dime.
When you meet a woman that you are interested in, that woman only deserves your honestly, what are your beliefs and values and vice versa to see if you both are compatiable. A nice walk around the park talking to each other should be enough. No need to spent money on gifts and expensive dates on a woman that isn't officially yours.
Once She become your woman than you can spend money on gifts, trips and vacations etc.