If a man " chases " a woman , he WILL be perceived as weak , needy , lacking options & low value... this WILL lead to rejection !! Effort = care is correct , but ONLY in an established relationship , otherwise in the early stages , this will backfire on a man.
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''gentlemen like behavior'' WILL GET YOU CUCKED!
Follow this take if you want to be friendzoned to level 99
Or how about some men are actually getting smart and think chasing is dumb? Why can't two people who like each other just start dating instead of playing stupid games? Like act like mature people. If you're in your mid to late 20s and still do this chasing bullshit, you gotta grow up, and if you're on the receiving end, find someone else.
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News flash to QA: We aren't the hunters and gatherers from the past. If you're living in a developed country, you don't gotta hunt your food. You find them in super markets.
If a woman is putting the effort and he isn't then yes it's a good assumption he isn't interested.
If she's not and is just waiting for him to chase her then no, that's not an indication. Not many men will pursue nowadays because most women dislike it.
effort = care Why should anyone waste their effort on someone who doesn't in turn care about them?
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This entire article reeks of entitlement. The fear of rejection and humiliation is real and very valid. Why the fuck should a guy show you any affection if YOU aren't going to put in the effort.
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1. "But the truth of the matter is" You're conflating your own opinion with facts.
2. Being a hunter is about chasing and murdering animals. You're also conflating that with romance.
3. So are you saying women don't value or give a shit about men since you think women shouldn't do any of those things?
If you have scientific research to back up just about anything you've said I'd love to see it. Otherwise, you don't have much ground to stand on.
''If you care about someone would you put in the effort to make them happy? To do the small things? To make sure that the other person knows how you feel about them? I would say "yes". '' Right so men have to do everything lol? Men of value don't chase they show interest and put themselves out there. Girls have this delusional view that the man of their dreams will be the one that does everything for her and chases her...
Bullcrap. I'm an assertive outgoing woman. I go after what I want and I get it. I'm no way waiting for some guy to chase me. What a waste of time. If someone chases me, great! If not and I'm interested ill go get him myself. Never failed me yet.
Other than sarcasm. I am interested in what your response is to what he said. If women are hardwired to be hunters; are you saying women are meant to be submissive? Clarify what you mean in the article.
Dont ask guys to chase guys it just causes problems if guys think they're supposed to chase and it will likely be the guys your not interested in that take your advice.
If I don't chase her, it's because I want evidence that she'd be worth my time. I'm more concerned about getting hurt, than I am about winning her attention.
A beta male? Please. My co-workers call me boss. I'm not their boss, they just do what I say. I know how to take charge, I'm just done pandering to women's expectations. They'll meet my expectations or they'll get nowhere because I'm not willing to cave. That's pretty much the opposite of a beta male. Beta males do what they're told they should do, they don't think for themselves or if they do they spinelessly cave in anyways.
Thing is, I take a lot of us guys don't really know how to interpret the "hard to get" at times. Like, when is it supposed to be it, and when it isn't. How is one to tell? Beyond that, I can only agree.
Tip: you must never stop pursuing your spouse no matter how long you have been together.
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Sometimes guys are just nervous and they do actually like you. Girls, if you like a guy, try to flirt with him and a bit, and I promise you he'll come round if he likes you.
you'd be supprized what woman of value will do when they meet a man of value. The beauty is when women want your attention and don't get it - they like you more.
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If a man " chases " a woman , he WILL be perceived as weak , needy , lacking options & low value... this WILL lead to rejection !! Effort = care is correct , but ONLY in an established relationship , otherwise in the early stages , this will backfire on a man.
''gentlemen like behavior'' WILL GET YOU CUCKED!
Follow this take if you want to be friendzoned to level 99
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Looks like none of the guy are buying this bs... good on you all...
Scooter boi made me laugh for like 20 hours. lol!
Or how about some men are actually getting smart and think chasing is dumb? Why can't two people who like each other just start dating instead of playing stupid games? Like act like mature people. If you're in your mid to late 20s and still do this chasing bullshit, you gotta grow up, and if you're on the receiving end, find someone else.
News flash to QA: We aren't the hunters and gatherers from the past. If you're living in a developed country, you don't gotta hunt your food. You find them in super markets.
If a woman is putting the effort and he isn't then yes it's a good assumption he isn't interested.
If she's not and is just waiting for him to chase her then no, that's not an indication. Not many men will pursue nowadays because most women dislike it.
effort = care
Why should anyone waste their effort on someone who doesn't in turn care about them?
This entire article reeks of entitlement. The fear of rejection and humiliation is real and very valid. Why the fuck should a guy show you any affection if YOU aren't going to put in the effort.
1. "But the truth of the matter is" You're conflating your own opinion with facts.
2. Being a hunter is about chasing and murdering animals. You're also conflating that with romance.
3. So are you saying women don't value or give a shit about men since you think women shouldn't do any of those things?
If you have scientific research to back up just about anything you've said I'd love to see it. Otherwise, you don't have much ground to stand on.
She has no scientific research to back up the blatant misconceptions. It is all a crock of shit.
If she isn't in the kitchen, making you a sandwich after having spontaneously sucked your dick then she doesn't love you.
Because biology n shit.
It's science!
Can't believe this sexist bullshit is being pushed as fact 🙄
''If you care about someone would you put in the effort to make them happy? To do the small things? To make sure that the other person knows how you feel about them? I would say "yes". ''
Right so men have to do everything lol? Men of value don't chase they show interest and put themselves out there. Girls have this delusional view that the man of their dreams will be the one that does everything for her and chases her...
Bullcrap. I'm an assertive outgoing woman. I go after what I want and I get it. I'm no way waiting for some guy to chase me. What a waste of time. If someone chases me, great! If not and I'm interested ill go get him myself. Never failed me yet.
I'm not chasing Scarlett Johansson, but that doesn't mean I don't want her.
"Men are hardwired to be the hunters."
And women are hardwired to be submissive.
PS - I can see why you got dumped.
So you disagree with your own post orrrr...
@demonics It was sarcasm, dumbass.
Other than sarcasm. I am interested in what your response is to what he said. If women are hardwired to be hunters; are you saying women are meant to be submissive? Clarify what you mean in the article.
Women can't meme, sarcasm or comedy.
Dont ask guys to chase guys it just causes problems if guys think they're supposed to chase and it will likely be the guys your not interested in that take your advice.
If I don't chase her, it's because I want evidence that she'd be worth my time. I'm more concerned about getting hurt, than I am about winning her attention.
If he's not chasing you, he doesn't want you. If he's chasing you, he's stalking you. Looks like guys are pretty much screwed, these days. :P
Don't you mean NOT screwed !! True , very true , hence most men do NOT chase , there are huge potential risks !!
If he's chasing you, you should run because strange men running after you on the street usually isn't a good sign
@tyber1 ot really. Not if he's a beta male like you seem to be.
A beta male? Please. My co-workers call me boss. I'm not their boss, they just do what I say. I know how to take charge, I'm just done pandering to women's expectations. They'll meet my expectations or they'll get nowhere because I'm not willing to cave. That's pretty much the opposite of a beta male. Beta males do what they're told they should do, they don't think for themselves or if they do they spinelessly cave in anyways.
Thing is, I take a lot of us guys don't really know how to interpret the "hard to get" at times. Like, when is it supposed to be it, and when it isn't. How is one to tell? Beyond that, I can only agree.
Tip: you must never stop pursuing your spouse no matter how long you have been together.
Sometimes guys are just nervous and they do actually like you. Girls, if you like a guy, try to flirt with him and a bit, and I promise you he'll come round if he likes you.
Men of value don't chase women.
Bingo!
women of value dont chase men either
you'd be supprized what woman of value will do when they meet a man of value.
The beauty is when women want your attention and don't get it - they like you more.
@MiraPeace women of value are usually the ones with the guts to tell you they're into you.
@tyber1 yep :)