Some good points. But the problem is, is that guys/girls should really make them wait before they get physical. Itβs so obvious. They stick around because they think your special. Especially with sex.
I was kissed on the first date french style so does that count? haha
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I usually kiss them when I feel something for them not just do it , I like to kiss someone I feel good about. Although itβs been months since I have kiss a woman unfortunately
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It's just a kiss. You're encouraging people to feel anxious
@VaIiant Guys who have self-esteem have had the privilege of growing up with a strong source of repeated positive reinforcement. Not the case of everyone. Do 6'2" tall, muscular Chads lack self-esteem? No. They have the world on a silverspoon.
Not true. Most confident guy I know, who has the best luck with girls, Is a solid 2 on a 1-10. No joke, heβs not attractive whatsoever, but is very well dressed and extremely confident.
your self esteem shouldn't depend on "repeated positive reinforcement". I was extremely insecure all throughout high school even when i got constant reassurance that i wasn't "ugly", it didn't make me any more confident. I gained my confidence from altering my perspective, you're not actually ugly unless you tell urself you are. If you focus on your goals and learn to appreciate life in general, other people will see that, hence making you appear more attractive and self assured.
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Some good points. But the problem is, is that guys/girls should really make them wait before they get physical. Itβs so obvious. They stick around because they think your special.
Especially with sex.
That's too much thinking on the fly. I'm not going to recite a romance novel in my head in the moment to work up courage. If it feels right, I do.
A kiss is literally two pairs of lips pit together. Don't make it harder than it should
You want peeps to think you're Tom Brady LOL π I don't think he's the GOAT LOL Just one football fan messing with another π
@Moonchild714 What if I was Tom Brady? π
Then I would be asking you why you wouldn't be more creative with your username LOL
@Moonchild714 honestly I don't see him having another username lmao
Hahahaha, you're probably right his ego is so huge that would be his username. I like your sense of humor π
@Moonchild714 thanks haha
Why should I care? Do you know how difficult it is to impress women nowadays?
It's mission impossible.
not that hard if you got a personality
I was kissed on the first date french style so does that count? haha
I usually kiss them when I feel something for them not just do it , I like to kiss someone I feel good about. Although itβs been months since I have kiss a woman unfortunately
It's just a kiss. You're encouraging people to feel anxious
So don't kiss a girl unless you intend to marry her?
I always think of whether or not she is going to falsely accuse me of sexual assault first.
I've never even kissed, lol. I guess I'm just too ugly for it.
Might be lack of self confidence.
Girls enjoy a guy with a bit of self esteem.
@VaIiant Guys who have self-esteem have had the privilege of growing up with a strong source of repeated positive reinforcement. Not the case of everyone. Do 6'2" tall, muscular Chads lack self-esteem? No. They have the world on a silverspoon.
Not true.
Most confident guy I know, who has the best luck with girls, Is a solid 2 on a 1-10. No joke, heβs not attractive whatsoever, but is very well dressed and extremely confident.
@VaIiant Exceptions don't make the rule. He must've had sources of strong positive reinforcements. People don't choose their temperament.
dont blame self-esteem. women wouldn't wanna kiss ugly guys anyway
@Subflics Trust me, Iβm not sure how, but the guy Iβm referencing, I went to high school with him. Not only was he ugly, he scored plenty.
@VaIiant it's something else then. probably friends with the cool ones
@Subflics Nope. He had solid Fβs and flunked out, and hung out with stoners.
your self esteem shouldn't depend on "repeated positive reinforcement". I was extremely insecure all throughout high school even when i got constant reassurance that i wasn't "ugly", it didn't make me any more confident. I gained my confidence from altering my perspective, you're not actually ugly unless you tell urself you are. If you focus on your goals and learn to appreciate life in general, other people will see that, hence making you appear more attractive and self assured.
@birdsandflies But you weren't constantly told you are ugly. The world doesn't work like that I'm affraid.
Sadly even if you tell yourself youβre not ugly, you still are. (For specific unattractive people, not you in particular).
then the girls aren't in their right mind
I had my first kiss guess what I was left heart-broken lol 😂😂
I agree with you in this, but I rather refer to sexual abuse, vice versa.
I didn't ever messed up with women and would never do. That's best thing can do
Don't set rules on kissing. All rivers have their tributaries... so there's many differences in style, skill and intentions
This is absolutely fabulous. So accurate.
Really good points here!
Sounds like good advice :)
For the girls I have kissed the moment just felt right and it has always gone well.
You're rant won't stop breaking hearts.
I know it won't.. But that doesn't mean you stop trying
Agreed! (On every point.)