no girl will want your confidence your face is ok. dude, take this advice from a mature woman. you have WAY more things to worry about making you undateable as a male. steo up your dressing, confidence and swag game and socialize more.
@levantine99 Do you know what confidence comes from? From accomplishment and affirmation. The earlier is to know yourself what you are capable of, the later is that other know what you are capable of and reward you with social status. The question is, what is it you need to be capable of that is seen as attractive? Being good at videogames or drawing probably aren't skills worth considering when choosing a mate. So, what is? Social skills. And what are they? Mostly being able to comfortably converse with people, and flirting. How do they work? By sharing common interest and abiding concepts established by society, like acting out necessary smalltalk about the most uniteresting things possible, and gently teasing subjects of interest. Problems arise when you don't share any interest with the majority and don't want to comply with these concepts because you now they are stupid facades and obvious. The later can even cause harm if done wrong. So any advice on that?
I know confidence is what is the most attractive trait besides looks and status, but "get confident" is the most BS advice possible, since it is not a skill to learn but always the result of another skill learned and social acceptance of that. So please refrain from doing so, it is rather offensive. It's like telling ugly people to become good looking, or poor people to get rich. In case of romance, it is always confidence in your social skills that count, which you mentioned, but didn't elaborate on how to acquire.
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11. Although, I do try to get out more.
13. You don't listen to what girls want to tell.
14. You're just ugly and fat
here for six points only :)
Christ how I hate listicles
so every persone without a partner is an asshole?
All of this is very true.
Very informative take!
no, it's because im ugly lol
we are not only looks. i know 9/10 friends who are still single. at least for serious relationship. a woman must have more things going on than looks.
Interesting read.
You don't know de way my bruddah.
I can see that Ugandan Knuckles have made their way into GAG.
This is great.
2, 9, 12
@txdiie_
Wait I'm not that bitter, I think
12 I used to think that way a lot, not anymore though
9, in moderation
So I still have a chance ahaha
bitter at 14 is hard. you didn't even have the time for that. if you were like some 34 year old single friends of mine then would be understanable.. .
@levantine99 i hope that never happens tho
My worst nightmare has now been confirmed. Lol
Interesting Take
You forgot, 'Choice'
Im too ugly
not that much. i'm married by the way so no flirting accepted thanks. if you boost up your confidence and social skills you'll land a good girl.
@levantine99 look at my face no girl will want me
no girl will want your confidence your face is ok. dude, take this advice from a mature woman. you have WAY more things to worry about making you undateable as a male. steo up your dressing, confidence and swag game and socialize more.
@levantine99 Do you know what confidence comes from? From accomplishment and affirmation. The earlier is to know yourself what you are capable of, the later is that other know what you are capable of and reward you with social status. The question is, what is it you need to be capable of that is seen as attractive? Being good at videogames or drawing probably aren't skills worth considering when choosing a mate. So, what is? Social skills. And what are they? Mostly being able to comfortably converse with people, and flirting. How do they work? By sharing common interest and abiding concepts established by society, like acting out necessary smalltalk about the most uniteresting things possible, and gently teasing subjects of interest.
Problems arise when you don't share any interest with the majority and don't want to comply with these concepts because you now they are stupid facades and obvious. The later can even cause harm if done wrong. So any advice on that?
I know confidence is what is the most attractive trait besides looks and status, but "get confident" is the most BS advice possible, since it is not a skill to learn but always the result of another skill learned and social acceptance of that. So please refrain from doing so, it is rather offensive. It's like telling ugly people to become good looking, or poor people to get rich. In case of romance, it is always confidence in your social skills that count, which you mentioned, but didn't elaborate on how to acquire.
@Swiss_Tengu one doesn't need to know to flirt to be confident thats nonsense.
@levantine99 it sure does contribute when trying to attract mates. You can't just ignore that fact.
Nice take :)
True
and you are stupid
Thnx