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The crime is team work , don't blame a fuck boy only , if somebody insist and telling you to jump from the cliff you will jump if you don't want it? Human have brain maybe it's time for some people starting to use it.
never said it was all his fault. I blame myself for being an inexperienced emotional girl who gets attached easily. But imagine this: a little kid (me, experienced) being convinced jump off the cliff ( by him) , and that it's safe and you'll start to fly.
I will tell you an advice for free, don't trust no one , included your parents (not in bad way they forgot generally that's why), learn from your mistakes.
Says a 33 year old man with twice the life experience of the young lady. If you were any less desensitized in your wording I would grant you a damn trophy. How about you use your brain and consider all factors as well as a viable way of stating yiur opinion for the most ideal outcome. Otherwise, you're simply waisting your time and ensuring you look like an asshole who is a fuck boy given the way you defended it without any regards. You baffle me kiddo.
His outlook is beyond pessimistic and holds no valid point other then pushing blame. It is an interaction between two people and the fuck boy took advantage of your empathy. Of course had you experienced this before you would have the defense built uo and avoid him. Don't accept this jack asses advice. If there is anyone you should respect without any other reason or trust it should be your parents. They sacrificed a lot to bring you up in the world. This guy is simply lost within himself. The world isn't all sunshine and rainbows. If you look at it with the determination to ensure the world is sunshine and rainbows for yourself then soon enough you'll be damn close and no one can stop you.
@Nexovous don't worry about my brain if you had 1% of it you would be 99% smarter.
@Nexovous You're right! My parents mean lots to me, and I know my decisions and actions affect them too. I don't want them to have to worry about me or feel shame of my actions :)
Your response alone proves my point. I never knew someone could be arrogant and ignorant all at the same time. You're a special mixture pal. Let me key you in on something, age doesn't define your intellectual level/capacity nor does it guarantee maturity. You alone have proved that.
@Nexovous Well, I guess so. There are some things that I;m really mature about, and I don't feel the need to prove that to everyone. In terms of intereacing with others, Im a useless potato lol but one aspect of a weakness that I have doesn't define my overall maturity in other aspects of my life. I never stated that he was the only one at fault, I had a stupid mindset and acted in a way that set myself up for failure. But I am admitting to mistakes. Personally I don't try to communicate arrogance, and I don't think my peers get that impression from me. However, I admit that I am ignorant at times, and need to improve on that :)
Once again, not you poster. I was responding to the person who immediately responded to me. Though i do want to touch on something you mentioned. In every person there will be strengths and weaknesses. You can strengthen those weaknesses by exposing yourself to them. the brain works in a way to make it as simple as consistent exposure to something and the willingness to learn can make you adept at your weakness in no time. The thing is you have to go all out and be willing to fail as a result of continued success. You can do as people say and "take life slow" though you'll never really learn much if you always play it safe. Risks grant rewards and often times the greater the risk the greater the reward.
@Nexovous Very inspirational , yeah I guess taking risks is a way to learn, and plus I never sent that guy any nudes so I don't have that much to regret honestly. I need to be more willing to take a risk and not let my fear shut me down. :) Thank you for replying
That isn't to say to make stupid choices and call it a risk though. Weigh the factor in a reasonable mindset lol.
@Nexovous I know, but I do believe I took risks because I don't usually involve myself with guys at all, he's one of the first guys I've officially flirted with and I guess I gotta learn my lesson the first time
lol, i got a motorcycle and learned it gets me lust not love. I was like, "bonus of having a bike is it's an attention magnet". Nope, it's a one night stand magnet.
You just need to avoid these guys as soon as they start acting like that, rather than allowing the initial good feelings to cloud your judgement.
i felt you were narrating my story at least some parts of it and like you i can't really stop talking to him even though i feel i'm clinging on to him
lol lots of tears were shed but we haven't talked in a week and I'm low key still kinda like him, highkey think he's a jerk and getting over him asap :) only time will tell!
but what if they don't feel the way we do for them? what if they just want nudes from us after we becoming really close? i just can't stop thinking about the consequences
and you know what? I've thought about all the things you said as well. But I kept my guard up and I didn't send nudes even though I did send somewhat "hot/attractive" pictures. I knew that I would definitely regret it in the future so I did. And I learned some stuff; very important things. Sometimes you just have to experience this and learn and grow from it. You know what they always say; it's not a mistake unless you keep on doing it over and over again. Allow yourself to move on, forgive urself Never ever ever put all of your attention into one guy, because now he'll know he has you and will not try to keep you. #2 never ever ever tell him you need him (if yo are not in a relationship) because of the same thing. Don't make it easy for him (even though guys don't like girls who are hard to get) because the right guy will keep trying for you no matter what. #3 have your own life, be mysterious, unpredictable, and confident
"the bee doesn't dream of the bee, it blooms and the bee comes"
truly said thanks lol
I hope he isn't a mgtow kind of fuckboy, wait, maybe he really is one, he just did it to screw you over because he liked that. It's sad people would toy with and play with others emotions all just to get what they want and satisfy their own lust.
Can relate to you about fantasizing things , it's really weird when you start feeling things for someone you've never met. Hope you're alright
I don`t understand how you could fall for a guy like that. Strangers opening the chat with "hey babygirl" or "ur hot" are automatically a no for me.
Isn't it a tragedy they just aren't smart enough to know better. They a$$holes usually stand out as a$$holes. Easy to spot. Why girls fallfor it, I'll never understand.
Because like I've said, never encountered such thing in my life time of 16 years so far because I'm that "quiet" girl guys don't talk to even though people think I'm really nice, and smart and talented, or whatever. I've never really flirted with a guy prior to talking to that guy
If I was one of them, then you're welcome. With some girls, a little bit of fuckboy on the side brightens their day. What's so bad about feeling good?
Because I wish he was just be honest with me and not say "No! I want to see you! Not some other girl!" and lie to me. Even though we are not in a relationship if gives off the impression of lying, and potentially cheating
He got to treat you with me respect. Like holy Jesus. Nobody want to see that body.
Also don't send like nudes and stuff. Ruins your life. But hey I'm just some internet person. Your choice. Also we (guys) are like that. Its high school... puberty.
wdym he got to treat me with respect and stuff? Could you explain? :)
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
Not all guys are like that. U've learnt a lesson in life... so not all is lost. Good luck with ur next encounter with a guy.. im sure he'll come along eventually.
I think "F-boy" is the wrong term here. You are talking about a pervert
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
Wtf is going on is that you are young. You’re under 18... to him, you’re literally a sexy body with a moist canal and two boobs. For real.
This guy was obviously only about a casual relationship from the get go. It’s okak to want that, to discover sexuality and feel sexy pleasure, but this was never about interest in you as a person. This was your critical mistake.
I’m still not clear on what the difference between a relationship and casual sex is myself, but I know that guys physically can only go a limited number of days before be forced to orgasm in order to make room for new sperm. So guys have this natural rabid instinct to try and make sure those orgasms happen with a girl. Otherwise they likely happen in your sleep and it feels like a wasted opportunity. But again, this isn’t optional. Guys literally can not go more than roughly 60-90 days without being forced to orgasm to make room for new sperm that push out the old ones. This oversimplifies the biology, but this is true.
@RaijuRainBird Yeah, I I feel stupid about this whole thing, for letting something like this get to me because I often take everything in my life pretty seriously, I feel ashamed of this ngl because everyone thinks I'm smart, pure and innocent but they don't know that I mess up too andI can't do anything bout it
Well, I think it’s okay to mess up. And in the big picture this isn’t even a big deal! You’ve got your whole life to go, but to be honest, I am pretty convinced that ages 16 -22 are the best years of life, aside from ages 4-11 (I really loved the time period between preschool and 3rd/4th grade in my life; honestly it was the shit. Between like, 96’-03’ there was the invention of video games, Cartoon Network had Toonami, Nick had Rugrats. Yugioh cards literally became real (just like the tv show!) and pop-punk ruled, you get the point). But what do I know? I’m only 24 after all.
But I remember ages 16-22 as just amazing times. You feel like you will live forever and your health and skin are the best they’ll ever be. I say this because being 24 is definitely worse than 16-22 in my opinion.
Anyways, I wish I got into the dating game at your age. I waited until my 20’s and I honestly think I regret that, but avoid creepy older guys and fuckboys. I say this as a fuckboy myself.
Right, so... id have stopped talking to him at second text. i dont see the appeal. at all.
I guess you're right, but I started out not taking things so seriously, but he made things more serious to me by telling me he misses me and only wants me. I have never been in a situation like this, so obviously I get attached. I even told him that, and that's still how he treats me. If he doesn't want to me to react like this maybe he should just be like "Hey girl, Im talking to 23 other girls and getting nudes, so if you don't gonna send, it ain't gonna work out" But no, he tells me me that he respects me and what not, and says I'm his only one.
But you're an exception, most (american) girls seem to love the guys who mistreat them.
don't stop here, warn girls in real life, tell them what to look out for. Played like a fiddle
Why are women so ignorant and simple? I saw where this was going a mile away.
I'm not trying to be ignorant and simple, more than just me ranting and expressing how I feel because he's the first guy I think I've actually flirted with and fell for, but realized I wasn't the only one. I know that he probably likes me as a person, but emotions are emotions. Just want the fuckboys who are really nice people to know that girls will fall for them and get hurt
What gets to me is that you say "emotions are emotions" but you falling for someone IS just emotions. Hurting someone's feelings is almost impossible to avoid in life no matter what.
Yeah, starting to like him is just an emotion. That's why I can't control it, I'm inexperienced to feeling such a way. I don't think he's actively trying to hurt me more than he is just hurting me by his actions subconsciously
Your lack of emotional control over yourself is not his subconscious failure. You must be responsible for your own emotions.
It's true, but he plays his part by saying I'm the only girl he talks to, and how much he misses me, and trying to make me feel special when he knows he's not being all that genuine on his part.
So then if you know this it is your job, as you are emotionally responsible for yourself, to say, "I know you are lying to me. I do not want to talk to you anymore."
which is the problem because I've already built a connection with him. I'm trying to let go but it's hard
This is good practice: Emotional control means that your emotions do not rule you, you rule them, and that difficulties like this aren't real. You are making it more difficult than it has to be. You tell him you know he's lying and say I would prefer not to speak to you then keep in mind that he is lying and that's about it. The whole forgiveness spiel will fall on your deaf ears and your life will go on.
I'm a fkboy and GLAD I didn't run into you fr! You obviously got a cute face and probably would just keep a totally straight face looking right into my face. It's probably be a brick wall, unflinching. I'd end up😲😲with my jaw dropped hard probably ugh.😒
- Decides to start talking to a guy to "brush her her flirting skills"
- Continues leading him on with no intention of giving him what he wants
- Gets mad when she finds out he gets what he wants from other girls
Lmao you girls are so funny 😂
SHUT UP BITCH, YOU BELONG TO ME NOW, SIT YOUR ASS DOWN, NO MORE PHONE BULLSHIT. IM COMING OVER, YOU THINK YOUR DIRTY? I"LL SHOW YOU FECES DIRTY. I GIVE YOU 3 RULES, YOU OBEY OR I PUNISH YOU.
1. DON'T EVER SAY NO TO ME
2. YOU WILL SUBMIT NOW, IF I TALK TO YOU WILL ONLY SAY "YES DADDY" when i talk to you.
3. YOU WILL LISTEN TO EVERY MY EVERY DEMAND, I WILL BRING OTHER BITCHES HERE TO TEACH YOU HOW TO FUCK, THEY ARE IN YOU CALL THEM MISTRESS.
Is this a better pick up line?
minus the bad grammar lol sorry typed too fast
Women love getting screwed over and used by the fuckboys in the night club and the buff guys in the gym. Chad is irresistible to them. They'll move any boundaries for him. But for normal guys they won't.
Hahaha I'm going to be honest a Fuck boy is laughing his ass off to this sorry your feelings were hurt but love and war and all that
He should be laughing because now I don't care when he ignores me and calls me up to be all cutesy
The roster is ever-changing for fuck boy but appreciate your contribution
Soooooo eloquent.
Ok, everyone needs to use wisdom in dealing with others.
which is why I utterly failed because 16 year old girls who don;t really flirt with boys ain;t got no experience! lol
Experience and common sense are unfortunately two different things. It is something you were bound to go through at some point though, I would say you're lucky he was a long distance texted and you found out so young. It would be worse to get talked into sex then have him ghost you after you have fallen head over heals. Non the less, simply be aware and always think that if he treats you this way he may very well treat any woman the same way. If he comes across overly sexualized and not maintaining a healthy balance of the two or narcissistic then simply avoid him. Those are two things that should be a red flag for you when talking to men.
They are simply insecure and confused, fearing rejection.
They need you to be clear yourself, have open communication, and state what you want yourself.
He 100% knows I like him and he still does that. he sent this to my friend
I've been sent the hottest video a girl ever made for me and it was so amazing
Sat, Mar 17 12:52 AM
im hard rn just thinking about it lmao
Sat, Mar 17 10:38 AM
not every girl sends me shit lol
Sat, Mar 17 10:38 AM
and she was really special because every girl always does the same boring angles
Sat, Mar 17 02:55 PM
thats not at all the reason lol, Kings actually used to live a polygamy lifestyle
He's scared of feelings.
he told my friend he likes me and told her all this nice stuff about me lol but he hasn't texted me in days, he sexts other girls, and sometimes he doesn't seem interested in the things I do but still calls me cute names and acts all cutesy with me and we talk about life. I don't know what to do about it
If I had peny for every female and simp on GAG that calls guys insecure. The guy clearly isn't insecure😪
@TheUglyMan the guy's over confident because he thinks just because he's big then he can do what ever he wants. there! lol
The over confidence is fake. A person who is over confident is also over coherent.
A person who is incoherent, thought, is because they don't trust making the right call. So instead the continuously navigate the options.
I don't think it's over confidence. I think he's full of $hit.
@villageidiot Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?