So today It is a bit personal topic, I have been asked to do this challenge #WhatIFindAttractiveChallenge by the Editor of the month, Ms. @AngelicSin. It is a tough one, much harder than the beard challenge I did a while ago! Why? Because I find it hard to be picky since I never really got to know the difference in women, because I've never actually dated!
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Now I am as you know, a man with good eyes, I see many things that would attract me in a woman, that no one can see, which is kinda of a problem to me. I have a good taste, don't get me wrong, but in looks, I can find many amazing things in someone who is normal!
So I will look deep into my soul, and try to be as selfish and as shallow as I can, because I am a man of my word and I accepted the challenge:
1. Brunettes or blondes?
Generally I like brunettes over blondes, I don't know it is just something that is automatic but mind you that I have seen some really gorgeous blondes out there!
Literally, I am writing this and my heart is like, man you love both!!!
2. What about skin tone ?
I like white, pale, normal dark brown ...etc lolz
But I think I prefer medium skin tone like this one (Olive skin tone, I don't know what that is but that is what google said lol)
3. Tall, short, or medium height?
This might be the only thing that I care about to some extent, I mean, I am not a tall guy (175 Cm) but I would go for a bit of a taller girl (180 Cm). If the girl is right, I might go after her, tall girls can be really attractive, as for shorter I don't mind anything above 140 Cm.
4. Fit or not?
To be fair, I only care if she is healthy or not, I am not going to deny that I want a fit girl as I worked so hard to be fit and look good (I am not asking for a six pack, at least just a bit of definition), mind you I would never ask a girl change or refuse a girl because she is out of shape, but I think I would love to have a girl that can keep up with me in life and health so we can do all the stuff I like, and yup, many times I find myself looking at muscular girls at the gym! Don't ask me why I like the body type, ask my eyes!
An elegant lady is what I wish for, mature and polite with all the right prestige. I find that amazing, now this is more of an age thing, I love it when a girl acts as her age. Young girls are full of life and like to have fun and I like that, but I prefer elegance.
There you go folks, I have gotten as shallow as a puddle, but here is my final word to you and it is not just words, nope, it is something based on past experience:
I would never reject a woman based on my preferences. Sure, looks matter, but in the end as I have in the past done, gone out of my way and asked a blonde, red toned girl out. She was really out of my preferences in many ways, why? I was attracted to her in every way, it is something more than just preferences, it is something the eyes, mind, and the heart can't resist. (BTW, it didn't work out!)
In the end, I thank my friend @AngelicSin I knew you were going to get editor of the month, as you were working hard and put your heart in it, congrats again!
I nominate for this challenge :
Peace upon you all