Respect Interracial Couples!

[ExtremeRodent]

I've seen a lot of posts in this topic on this site, as well as across the internet. A lot of people seem to think interracial couples are wrong. The type of interracial couple which causes anger among some guys is Black Men with White Women. These are by far the most popular type of IR couple. But there's nothing really wrong with that.

Don't be jealous!

Some white guys seem to think that "all" or "most" white women only like black men. This is completely wrong. Most white women like and date white men. So saying that they all like black men is crazy. Even if that were true, it still leaves most white women available. Why? Because black men are minorities! For every black man in the US, there are four white women. Not to mention a lot (and I mean a lot) of white girls simply do not like black men. Maybe even most white girls say the phrase "I don't date black guys". I think black guys would agree with me in that a lot of white girls aren't interested in them.

As well as that, there are a lot of black men who like black women! And white guys, girls who date black men have and will also date white men! So there's no need to be jealous or angry. White women are yours! White women love you! While some may prefer black men and some may date black men, pretty much every white girl would date a white guy So calm down, and focus on getting a girlfriend, rather than blaming your failure of women on black men "taking" all your women. Because that's absolutely incorrect.

Interracial Dating Has Always Been A Thing!

Some people are hating, saying how IR dating is a new age Liberal agenda to make every human one race. Maybe that's true but it doesn't mean IR dating is a new thing. People have been IR dating for years and years and yet most couples are still the same race. Back in the 80's and stuff, racism was dead already. So if white women really did prefer black men, 97% of older white women wouldn't be married to white men now would they? Interracial marriage has been legal for decades and yet they still make up the small minority of overall marriages. So don't sweat it! No race is going anywhere! People's cultures aren't going anywhere because if that were true, we'd see much more older IR couples. In short, people tend to like their own race and the past has proved this.

Let People Date Who They Want

Love is uncontrollable. It's not fair to shame someone for falling in love with someone, just because of their skin color. Love has no limits so just don't be jealous! You can date whoever you want, so give others the same respect.

Thanks for reading. I hope to quench some people's angers by reading this. My first paragraph is related to that. But anyways, some people make IR dating a big deal when it isn't. Most people like their own race. Interracial couples are rare, but they should still be respected.

[Anonymous]

I like this post!

It’s interesting how there are so many interracial relationships yet there are so many people who don’t approve and put their negative prejudices on to others.

My parents have been in an interracial marriage for over thirty years and they got and still get so much grief.

I’m in an interracial and inter-religious marriage (he’s a Chinese American Christian and I’m a mixed race Jewish Brit).

There are a lot of people who are okay with it and are not bothered (they’re indifferent) but I become aware of it when we go somewhere like the mall and have a lot of older people stare at us with disapproving looks (some of whom have said nasty derogatory things to us). I also notice it more when we go out to a restaurant and he orders a pork meal and I order a kosher meal.

I wish many people would be more accepting and indifferent but it seems like wishful thinking. I am hoping that when we have children, they would not have to experience such negativity and hate.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

You made some good points, but not sure why you’re trying to convince white men tnat, “white women are yours”. Any woman belongs to themselves and whoever they choose to share themselves with. True, worthwhile, fun, lasting relationships are blind to race. Sorry you have to put up with such idiots.

[PurpleApple]

Yeah that is a lie. White women hate white men and almost exclusively like black men. I don't know what he is saying but it's not true. Black men own white women now. So us whites just have to die alone I guess. It's sad how everyone wants black men to be happy but no one cares about white men.

[ExtremeRodent]

Replying to your opinion: I meant that white women love white men and that most white women like white men. That is what I meant.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, you're a whiny little loser, that's your only problem. MOST white women end up with white men and are quite happy about that.

[Opinion Owner]

@PurpleApple, if you truly feel this way, you should spend some time evaluating what the hell white men have done/are doing to change the whole balance of society... and then go bitch them out.

[PurpleApple]

So you agree with me?

[ErzasCheesecake]

@PurpleApple Have you been turned down a lot by white women or something? Because if you have and that is why you feel that white men are going to die alone, I promise you, it has nothing to do with race and everything to do with your attitude about it.

[Bluedream13]

can someone explain to me why there is wave of all these interracial takes on here? I don't recall seeing a bunch of takes slamming interracial couples, why are there so many pushing it? How about fk off and let our race stay how it is? How's that for an opinion?

If people wanna marry someone from another race go ahead but why the fk is there this constant propaganda? It's like with the gay stuff. 'its okay to be gay, its okay to be gay, its okay to be gay' they chant into our kids ears from age 10 and up, school, sex ed, media, stupid single moms, it never fking ends.

Just search blond tits on google images, somehow you get abunch of blonds blowing black guys...

there's definitely an agenda at play here and I know I'm gunna get flack for this but I don't care. It's always black men and white women too... and how do black women feel about this?

pretty fking bad, that's how. Go ask a black women 'how do you feel that so many black men are choosing white women over blacks?'

[ExtremeRodent]

I just googled it and there was nothing of the sort. Porn is porn. Black man white women porn is made by white men and is watched by white men. White men like to feel ashamed at "bbc superiority" and stuff. That's all bullshit in real life. Most white women do not "blow black guys". A huge percentage of white women "don't date black guys". Many do but a lot of them are trashy, fat or ugly. A few high quality white women date black men - but WIll Smith type black men. And even so, pretty much every white woman who has dated black men has also dated whites. There is a push in the media for interracial couples in the past but I think that phase is coming to an end. It's less common in TV now and actually I see a lot of white men with black women in TV. Oh by the way white men with black women is very common. But in short most people date their own race.

[Afrochick]

'how do you feel that so many black men are choosing white women over blacks?'

Pretty sweet. They can go abuse and leave another race of women single mothers.

[Bluedream13]

@Afrochick and this fixes the problem how? Black women are the least desired of any race so if their own race doesn't want em they are pretty boned. Single black women is a bigger problem than single women of any other race. I don't know how to fix this but all ur men fking white women ain't the answer

[Afrochick]

Women have no power, we are in a patriarch... not sure what desirability has to do with this... but nice try at insulting.
I'm relaxing at the spa while I let men fight battles.

[Bluedream13]

@Afrochick rofl patriarchy XD

[NineBreaker]

Why is "race mixing" even a valid term? The overwhelming majority of people on the planet are the product of mixed races. People are people, and what we call "race" in the modern sense is merely a description of various populations that have shared ancestry and therefore share many basic phenotypic traits. The reality is, we're all cousins of varying distance. The person you're least related to is probably your 40th cousin.

I'm not against people preserving their own culture, or wanting to date/marry people who belong to (or don't belong to) their "race" or ethnic group. It's their choice at the end of the day. What I find problematic is when other people who deny others the freedom to choose their spouses or significant others just because they're against "race-mixing".

Let me be clear: You want to be with someone who belongs to your "race" or ethnic group? Go for it! You want to be with someone who doesn't? Have at it! It's none of my business or anyone else's.

[ExtremeRodent]

I agree but I am against the agenda to brainwash and force interracial couples.

[HereIbe]

Nobody is brainwashing anyone. However, crybabies and bitches believe such an agenda exists.

[Anonymous]

I suspect one reason why interracial dating bothers some people is that its effects are not evenly distributed, e. g., a white man who doesn't make much money and lives in an area in the southern US where he is in the minority, is going to be more affected by white women of the same social class dating interracially than one who is a high earner in a mostly white area. The first guy lkely isn't an attractive partner to white women in his area who are well-educated and make good money, so his perspective is very different and one can understand that maybe he isn't so happy about interracial dating.

[ExtremeRodent]

Yeah but those kinds of white women in trashy kinda neighborhoods still date/have dated white men. There's very very few white who ONLY date black men. The ones that have dated black men also have dated white men.

[Zefram]

I'm a white German-Canadian man dating a black Nigerian-Canadian woman and I can pretty accurately say it's tough. Tougher than a safe, normal relationship just dating in-race. There a lot of dicks out there, lotta assholes.
But then, I wouldn't be able to make fun of her for being Wakandan. And she wouldn't be able to make fun of me for being a colonizer and conqueror. So all balances out.
Plus my kids will be gods. The best of both worlds. They'll lead millions. Willingly... or as slaves (and not just 'cause German).

[Afrochick]

Hmmmm, must be your province.
Toronto, Ontario is pretty chill about interracial couples.

[Zefram]

@Afrochick I've had bad experiences in Toronto with her too.

[ImSoSquishy]

most of the people in this world is already mixed, people who are actually 100% pure breed of a specific race are minorities compared to how many people is currently in the world. as a species-- most of us aren't even 100% homosapiens, because there are more or less some neanderthal variants that can be traced in all of our dna. i'm pretty sure in a few thousand years, if the world didn't turn into shit by then with some apocalypse, then americans and maybe even other people in other first world countries will be no different than filipinos because we'll be so mixed with so many races in the country.

[NatashaJ]

If you trying to stop someone who doesn't want to date you then just means your nuts and you think they are a object that belongs to you. Usually telling them to shut the fuck up and calling them idiots usually clears up these idiots because they realize they being dumb. Ex had the nerve try to tell me I am cheating on him when I start dating another guy even thou we broke up he broke up with me! yet I can't date someone months after the relationship. I call him a idiot right there then and his excuse was "I let my feelings get the best of me sorry" yeah right lol you try to act I am your property when I am not I am my own person I can date whoever I want.

[JDavid25]

Well, you always have to factor in the "Black" men who are teens, and "Black" boys, "Black" gay men, the "Black" men who are incarcerated, and the "Black" who don't like "White" women, or only want "Black" women, and the pool of available "Black" men is not that big for "White" women.. Most "White" women couldn't date "Black" men.. Also I don't really care for the term "interracial"... As I don't see "race" as a biological component to really label us Humans.. "Interracial" bondin has been goin on since humans existed.. It's just 2 humans likin each other, who happen to be of a different physical variation..

[Anonymous]

Most IR couples including the IR relationships I've seen/been in in real life weren't done out of some agenda. IR couples I've seen and been in came from two people having a lot in common and falling in love with each other.

I just find it weird why other people will care about who others decide to date especially while it's not hurting them. If a white women that some white man was interested in wasn't dating a black man then it doesn't mean she'd be dating him.

If some people are so concerned about racial purity they could go and date and have children within their own race. I mean in some cases odd cases I could see why a person might want to support racial purity, though even then they shouldn't care if other people don't.

[PurpleApple]

White women naturally want black men. The Liberal agenda has encouraged white women to hate black men and now they do. White women like black men.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, no, they don't, you whiny little crybaby. White women want MEN, not whiny little crybabies like you. They want MEN, not losers like you.

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe they only like black men. I accept I will never be happy. There's only one thing to do.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, YOU will never be happy because YOU are a loser! White women do not only like black men. SHOW THE DATA. Go ahead, show that HARD DATA that backs up your whiny stupid claims.

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe just look around you. Look everywhere. White women love black men.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, I do look around me, and the vast majority of couples are white men with white women.

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe not for me. I should kill myself right?

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, you should GROW A PAIR OF BALLS AND STOP BEING SUCH A WHINY BOY!

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe it doesn't matter. I'll never be able to compete with black men.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, I never had any problem, so the issue must be you.

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe you don't live in the US then. Almost every girl here wants black men. They avoid black men in favor of black men.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, I was born in, grew up in, and live in the USA. You are just a whiny little bitch. That is the difference. Most white women in the USA want white men. The thing is that they don't want WHINY LITTLE BITCHES, which is what you are, so they make up any old excuse to get your whiny bitch ass out of their faces.

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe what state? And you can't deny that millions of white women only want black men.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, Indiana, New York, Tennessee, Texas, and California. You're just a pathetic little loser. Reality is that the VAST MAJORITY of white women in the USA want white men. They just DO NOT WANT YOU.

[PurpleApple]

@HereIbe New York? I doubt that. I bet you most white girls have gone black at least once.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, show the evidence. Show the hard evidence. You're just a loser and you blame the whole world for your inadequacy.

[RationalMale]

I say, diversity is worth defending. Whether you're an evolutionist and you recognize that there are no real morals, only that which helps your genes, and by extension those genes similar to yours to survive, or whether you're a Christian and you recognize that God himself created diversity by scattering all the peoples and separating them--indeed, the Bible tells is that at the end times, it will be the Anti-Christ who brings all peoples together on earth.

#ProtectDiversity
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[vishna]

Lmao, some people are going in on the comments and I'm living for it XD

Uhm, yea, let adults date who they want to. I'm the product of an interracial relationship, and since I've never dated a fellow biracial person, I've always been in interracial relationships : p

[AriesMan]

Thomas Jefferson had a black mistress! Cleopatra was the lover of Julius Caesar and Mark Antony. Yes, interracial couples are nothing new! In fifth grade in public school in the city, I realized I was attracted to some black girls and I won't try to hide it in public when I can't help to start gawking at their bodies! I love their curly hair and I love how in appearance they are exotic and desirable to me, I won't fight it!

[HereIbe]

Cleopatra was Greek in ancestry.

[CharlieUnicorn]

I got no problems with the reasoning, but then I want it to ultimatelly apply in ALL constellations, no exceptions.

Some "progressives" are complete hypocrites. They'd applaud this even though it's just a couple, like any other couple.
But they'd side eye and be ultra sceptical about a white man with a thai or ukrainian wife.

[PurpleApple]

It is a problem when every white girl loves black men.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, you are nothing but a loser. The reason that white women don't like you is because NO WOMEN AT ALL like you. Why? Because you are a LOSER!

[sleepycabin]

@HereIbe can you guys stop fighting in comments

[ScaryCool]

I didn't know black men and white women were the only interracial couples lol

Is this really "Respect interracial couples" or just "respect black men dating white women"?

I respect all couples the exact same. None more. None less.

[ExtremeRodent]

Black men and white women are BY FAR the most popular type of IR couple. Black men love white women and white women love black men.

[Anonymous]

Yeah whatever. I'm just a white guy and I know that no woman wants me. Why would a white woman want me? They all like black men anyways. I mean everyone else is allowed to be loved but I amen't because I am white. Blacks can love but I can't. No woman wants me because I am white. How do you think that makes me feel? But no lets just make sure everyone else can be happy and white guys like me can go kill ourselves right? Isn't that what we deserve? I don't care. Black men can have every white woman. Let them. Let everyone be happy but me.

[DinaM]

Self-pity isn't a particularly attractive trait.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM why does it matter? Almost all white girls prefer black men over white no matter what. But my happiness doesn't matter right? Black men can be happy I'll just die alone.

[DinaM]

Okay, if that's what you want.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM that's what YOU want. All of you want black men to happy and not us. It's sad and it's evil. I hope you know that.

[DinaM]

Oh, we like white men just fine. We just don't like whiners who try to guilt us into "giving them a chance" or whatever.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM no you don't. White women prefer black men to white men. If two equally attractive men, one black and one white, approached a white woman, she would pick the black man. It's simple facts. White women hate their own men and now we have to die alone.

[DinaM]

Yeah. Telling us that we hate you is sure to earn you a lot of points.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM why does the "points" matter when we are never gonna compete with black men? White women naturally like black men. So we lost. Now we have to die alone.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not a laughing matter by the way. I am extremely depressed because of this because I feel I will never be happy as I will never be good enough. If my skin was black I would automatically be good enough. My skin color is ruining my life. So don't mock me, please.

[DinaM]

Well, you'll stay alone forever then.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM yeah I know. It's because I am white. I hope you know you're a sick person who is encouraging suicide. I hope you are happy.

[DinaM]

I hope you know you're an evil person trying to guilt women into dating you.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM I'm not. I just accept I will never be happy.

[DinaM]

Yes, you are. Pointing the accusing finger: "Can't you see what you did to me? You horrible person! I'm suffering here, I'm unhappy and it's YOUR fault!" That's pure manipulation and an evil act.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM you are purposefully insulting me and making me feel worse than I already do. I am not blaming all white women. They like black men and that's just the way it is. But white women's happiness and black men's happiness results in my misery. I've come to accept this. There is only one way of solving this problem really. But I am not blaming you for anything but insulting and degrading a person who is already on the last stand. That's all i said.

[DinaM]

You started it by calling me a sick person and saying I was encouraging suicide. You insult me, I insult you back.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM you aren't the one on your last stand are you? Just go I amen't talking to any of you anymore

[DinaM]

You're not on your last stand either. Get real.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM oh yes I am. I have accepted that I will never be happy.

[DinaM]

I thought you weren't talking to me anymore? Promises, promises.

[Opinion Owner]

@DinaM whatever

[ThisDudeHere]

What is it with this modern trend of people demanding respect for these awfully trivial things.

Respect interracial couples. Respect women. Respect trans people.

No.

Respect is earned, not given or demanded.

[DinaM]

So what do you to to earn respect?

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM what do you mean? Each person has a different treshold to which they give out respect.

[DinaM]

Yeah, so what do you do to earn respect from them?

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM it then depends on the person. I don't get the point of your question.

[DinaM]

The point is that if you refuse to respect people, insisting that they have to "earn" it, then don't be surprised if you don't get any respect yourself.

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM you completely misunderstood. I refuse to respect people for no reason. But if they prove themselves worthy of respect, then that's a different case. The same applies to me.

You basically prove my original point - people nowadays just expect to be respected when that should not be the case. What everyone deserves perhaps is basic civility, but not respect.

Interracial couples are just a thing. I do not see how they are respect-worthy. I mean, what have they done? Have they solved world hunger? Saved a cat from a tree? Now, it's just people with different melanin counts fucking. What's there to respect?

[ThisDudeHere]

*no, it's just...

[DinaM]

What's there to respect? Well, the fact that they don't let prejudices stop them from loving who they love seems to be something worthy of at least a little respect. These people chose to listen to love instead of hate.

However, the word "respect" has a number of definitions... look them up if you like. And in this case, "respect" should not be understood as the "feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements" definition, which is what you seem to use as your sole definition.

In this case, "respect" should be understood by its other definition, namely "due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others." To acknowledge them as fellow human beings, to have consideration for their wishes and rights.

Long as those wishes and rights don't involve hurting other people? I don't think that's too much to ask.

[Chief16]

@ThisDudeHere Amen man.

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM then you should specify what I have to "respect" in particular. If you want me to respect their freedom then sure but if you want me to just respect them no questions asked then no.

[DinaM]

So what you're saying is that you refuse to treat people with consideration unless they somehow prove to you that they've "earned" it?

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM I've already explained before how that's called civility, not respect. Civility should be granted but respect is earned.

[DinaM]

And I have already explained that it IS respect. "Respect" has several meanings. Look it up instead of being so pedantic.

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM I prefer being pedantic.

[DinaM]

Well, that's no way to get respect.

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM we have a completely different approach to respect evidently

[DinaM]

Seems so. In your case, respect is something you have to prove that you deserve, or you don't get it. In MY case, respect is something you get unless you prove that you don't deserve it.

And in my opinion, people who refuse to give respect don't deserve any.

[PurpleApple]

Respect doesn't matter. White men are now forced to be single because white women only like black men. It's quite sad.

[ThisDudeHere]

@DinaM and in my opinion people who expect respect, deserve none.

[ThisDudeHere]

@PurpleApple take your pity party elsewhere, no one cares.

[PurpleApple]

Yeah no one cares. Suicicde is the only way at this stage.

[DinaM]

@PurpleApple For crying out loud, will you quit whining? This blatant attempt at manipulation and trying to get people to feel sorry for you is so TRANSPARENT.

[PurpleApple]

@DinaM you can think that all you want.

[ThisDudeHere]

@PurpleApple she's right. You're not fooling anyone and you're not going to make anyone care.

[PurpleApple]

I am not trying to fool anyone? How have you came to that conclusion? I just accept my reality.

[ThisDudeHere]

@PurpleApple by all means accept it but stop pestering everyone else about it.

[Eternallylucky]

no big deal until people gawk and start to notice the typical stereotypical couple of a young pubescent Asian girl and a toadskin white man aged over 80 years of age.

[vishna]

This will be my ex in 55 years. bet

[sleepycabin]

It's actually better for genetics in general to be mixed

[Madkeyra00]

I think love is blind. It doesn’t matter the nationality of the person only the person itself. We need to move past color and realize we’re all people.

[SpiderManFan2002]

Great take.
People are people they can date who they want #FREEDOM

[Juxtapose]

People who are against racial couples are just primitive tribals. Do yourself a favor and ignore them, you'll thank me later.

[ExtremeRodent]

Some people have excuses though. I know a lot of white guys who are depressed and thinking of suicide because they can't date white women - because white women like black men. So I wouldn't insult them like that as one of them is even considering suicide. It's not funny.

[zagor]

I saw a black man with a white woman when I was at lunch today. When I left, I immediately saw a white guy holding hands with a black woman. People like who they like, and other people should quit whining about it.

[PurpleApple]

Every black man is dating a white woman. White women hate white men and only like black.

[HereIbe]

@PurpleApple, did your mama reproduce with her brother? Is that your problem?

[Dumbbrunette]

@PurpleApple are u sain?

[Anonymous]

You’ve made some good points. I don't know why some people don’t like interracial relationships but that’s just offensive. This world is diverted so we can date anyone we want. I’m a Filipina and the last person I liked is half Turkish-half Polish but my friends who are also Filipinos said that I should only date people in my race becuz it’s weird and the culture. Well fuck culture. Idc about it cuz it shouldn’t affect the relationship between a couple who r in different race from each other.