I use a few of dating websites and apps and what I got is no result. From those no results, it's because of multiple problems. I used Tinder and dating websites such as POF and I decided to stop using them. Here are my reasons.
1) It's based on luck.
I swear I have to look up on youtube if I am using Tinder wrong. I've been swiping left and right 1000 times and I got no match. According to the tinder master, "Both you and the partner must swipe right." Oh man, winning a lottery seems to have a better chance. The chance of a girl you have swipe right also have to swipe right on you, thats 1 out of 1000000000000000 chance.
2) You have to pay money to get a better result.
I see it as a lose-lose situation on this one. Let's say you find someone all because you have paid $10 per month. If it didn't work out and guess what, you lost $10 and time. I am not investing money on dating sites to get close to no changes of the result.
3) Girls are taken for some reason.
I manage to talk to some of the girls but what sucks is that the girls are taken already. I am confused, very confused. Is there no mechanic or a tool that the girls are already taken from the dating site? It's almost as bad as cat-fishing, this gets you nowhere. Even if they are taken beforehand, why the heck did you sign up on a dating site?
4) Many girls are not attractive most of the time.
I have preferences and they are picky(?). One of my top priories is a girl must be healthy. I don't care if you are really fit or have muscle, I care that you take care of your body and your BMI should be healthy. No offense but obesity isn't healthy. Thus, I don't find them attractive. I have been seeing those kind of girls on dating websites A LOT. Being friends is fine but I would not go further into dating them.
5) Girls don't take dating sites seriously.
I did three types of messages. A comical greeting, a normal greeting, and a borderline creepy message. From all those messages, I get no response. There are times they haven't used the site for months. I can't tell if they are not interested or don't care using the dating site or app. But in the end, they didn't bother using the site all.