Who should really be paying on dates? (Page 4)

[Popy393]

I guess it’s a mutual decision whoever decides to pay

[dtweed96]

Well typically the man does but that’s just a man being a gentlemen or kind to his lady, it there are times a lady will pay either because she is asking for more than what her man can afford or her man is cheap like that

[qwertyone123]

To be quite honest if a guy asks you out on a date then he should pay that's my honest feelings

[CubsterShura]

If it's his treat then of course.

[TwilightSparkle3]

It is more polite I suppose for the man to be paying. I honestly don’t see how any of this is a big deal. I feel like this website does the complete opposite of what it’s supposed to do

[CubsterShura]

What opposite? I am doing what I am allowed to do here. Sharing my own take on this matter. I gain nothing by faking my opinion, instead I might write a poor myTake and get my editor status removed.

[bklynbadboy1]

If it's mutual or no I'm paying!!! I'm a man and men should pay broke- ass dudes... If you can't pay or don't want to pay there is a simple solution DONT DATE!!!

[CubsterShura]

Well ok whatever you prefer.

A man could be warning and still have financial crisis. And one can easily be temporarily broke.

[AlbanianWoman]

This response is really pathetic

[Blackbrowny]

I just wrote a take on this... in short:
Split the bill and write a book about fairytales.

[WhoDatGuy]

You fought for equality. Now your getting it. Pay for your own half

[CubsterShura]

I swear I will when biological men can get pregnant.

[CubsterShura]

Oh and when they get their periods too.

[CubsterShura]

Otherwise we're not equal yet.

[WhoDatGuy]

You assume I want kids. I don't

[CubsterShura]

But men still can't bear the pain of periods and risk of accidental pregnancies T___T and that's not fair.

[WhoDatGuy]

Life isn't fair. We have a whole heap of our own problems

[Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy]

Problems for men: “Bills, beer, sports, bitches, family, my boys”

Other problems men face
“Damn how am I going to ghost this bitch, damn this hoe is crazy, damn how am I going to lie today, damn which girl should I hit up today, which girl should I hit up tomorrow, let me leave her on read, ahahah”

[CubsterShura]

Ahhhh now we're talking. And what about the extra expenses that girls have to spend on for a date? Forget periods and childbirth, at least when men will spend as much money, time and effort to get ready for a date as women do that's when I'm gonna pay exactly half including irrational numbers.

[WhoDatGuy]

Definitely not paying for you two 😂😂😂

[TacosRAwesome]

Whoever feels like. If your partner never feels like paying off they're a cheap ass so let them go.

[CubsterShura]

I find it really rude to not be willing to pay and expecting your partner to pay all the time no matter what. I remember my bestie and I once went to hang out and she didn't even bring a single penny cause she just expected that I'd pay. Thank God that day I brought extra money with me or else we would be in trouble. I know ours isn't a 'date' but she does the same with her boyfriend as well and it kinda gets on my nerves. But her boyfriend is also the kind of dude from whom you can milk out money whenever you want, typical rich kid. I'm just like, blah let them do whatever they want 🤷

[TacosRAwesome]

Exactly no one should be expected to pay.

[Lloyd1985]

Unless you've both agreed to split the bill the bill should be paid by the person who did the asking to lunch, but then it's still nice to offer to pay your half.

[ClearCyan]

Whoever asked for the date should pay. Works pretty well for me.

[DDpsy]

The woman, of course, after I accept to spend my precious time with her boring ass , the least she can do is buy me a damn sandwich.

[Lance1965]

First date - whoever did the asking out.
Future dates - split the bill or take it in turns who pays.

[SpunkNugget]

The woman should pay for dates because the man will end up paying for the woman to sit around for years after she moves in.

[Mikatheseeker]

But a date with someone doesn’t mean that you will get married or that the female becomes a house wife either

[SpunkNugget]

It doesn't matter she should try to make it even. I mean she's probably just using dad's money before she's married anyway.

[CubsterShura]

It depends on the culture. But if the woman doesn't work then it's not fair to expect her to pay from her dad's pocket. A man should not even expect any kind of money or gifts from the her woman's family. It's called dowry.

[SpunkNugget]

It's called lazy women.

[CubsterShura]

Do ALL of the household work for an entire family for a week and tell me how 'lazy' it is to not work.

[INDIANGIRL20]

Why is this even a question? You already the answer.

[CubsterShura]

Because this myTake is the answer to the question, in case you didn't read. 😊

[INDIANGIRL20]

Oh I didn't read lol.

[emmily2396]

how about everyone pays what they order?

[CubsterShura]

It's not bad, but like I said, almost every method of splitting doesn't work all the time.

[Minahh]

I think man should pay on first date, then who wants to or split it

[Nathansixfootthree]

Men all the time, you're our responsibility you and the kid's.

[CubsterShura]

Normally it's men who ask out for date but if it's decided mutually then one could decide to split.

[Cask23]

The man pays for the date and the women pays the man back with a post date blow job.

[CubsterShura]

... No.

[Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy]

Or y’all could give us head. Little perverts.

[Juxtapose]

Whatever happened to people paying for their own shit?

[Liam_Hayden]

If I ask, I always pay for the first date. After that we figure out what works.

[Browneye57]

Blah blah blah... tldr. Whomever is RICH pays. If he's not then why are you even wasting your time?