Do High Value Women Exist? Yes! Where to Find Them

[Apope16]

There are actually high value women that exist but its often hard to find them. Here are some tips on places where you can find them.

Sports League

Most likely a girl at a local co ed volleyball team is sexy, fit, and has enough stability in her life to throw down some hard earned monthly cash to be on a league. Plus, who doesn't like a fun girl that bowl or play sports? Think about it. Are the hottest girls sitting at home and eating while watching movies...or..are they actually physically active?

Book Or Writing Club

You may find a girl who is more introverted or more of a home body here. But there is definitely something to be said about the literary bookish type of chic.

Volunteer Place

A lot of you want a girl who shows intellect and compassion. Often times sophisticated types of women are volunteering. Cancer benefit or art benefit or something is good.

The Gym

Don't find the thots. Find the professional looking girl who's actually working out. The one that works out after her job at the corporate office.

Worst Places:

Bar

Protest rally

[tartaarsaus]

Eh define “high-value”.

There’s no reasonable reason to define a sports club or gym as a place where the probability of finding a “high-value” woman is significantly higher as opposed to a rally or a bar. Surely, you realize that really a lot of intelligent, attractive people with their life together visit either of those.

This take is simply so ridiculous with no reasonable definition or considerations about what constitutes a “high-value” woman, which makes any subsequent argument on what the places are with finding “high-value” women with a particular probability redundant. And it completely lacks any sort of argument why those places would be places where you’re more likely to find “high-value” women.

Also, it forces “high-value” women, which may be a super broad concept of “has a job, life together, physically attractive” into a specific lifestyle that is likely very limited.

[Juxtapose]

I think trying to measure someone's "value" just ends up either being classist or based on a strange meritocracy.

"Social/dating market value" feels like such a sociopathic way to look at humanity too. Sometimes people you least expect pleasantly surprise you and vice versa.

[zagor]

I think you're overthinking this. I believe what he means is a girl with ethics, an education and a functional personality.

[Oram52]

That's just reality!!

[OpenNudist]

I drive a 2020 Dodge Charger. In Essence does that mean that I am a better person? No it definitely does not

[Oram52]

@OpenNudist DMV reflects desirability not if someone is better person. DMV is unique to each person as we desire different things, but we end up with someone DMV correlating to ours.

A guy who is confident and charming is more desirable to opposite sex hence has higher DMV, compared to someone who is timid and shy which makes him less popular with girls lowering his DMV. A girl who is overweight has lower DMV and less desirable for men compared to girl who is toned and fit hence having higher DMV.

It is reflective in mating game everywhere. Online dating having abundance of data has made it easier to measure and analyze DMV. It is obvious of course people end up with someone closer to their DMV.

You mentioned car for example, yes for considerable women having a nice definitely increases a guys DMV, women like looks, money and status. Now you can argue if guys should even be dating such women but many men in such situations do. They are able to date women more attractive than they would be able to get otherwise, so she has higher DMV. His car increases his DMV so they both match.

Its human nature we try to find the best mate we can get, which is dependent on DMV. If DMV didn't exist then theoretically we'd have chance with anyone, but obviously that's not the case. Men try to go for girls as higher DMV they can, girls on the other hand try to pick guys with highest DMV they can. So both end up matching someone equal to their DMV. Its just natural selection. If there was no DMV there be no leagues which are dependent on DMV, which would mean there would be a lot of mismatched couples. But that's clearly not the case.

[Anonymous]

Good advice! I don't want to toot my horn, but I'm usually at the gym, library, and I volunteer with dementia victims.

I do also go to bars though, for a little socialising. I met my boyfriend in a hotel, in the ski room, I was having a fight with my ski boot, trying to get off and he came over and yanked it off haha.

[Apope16]

If you are going to the library AND the gym? Yeah. Sounds like you are the type of girl I want to date. A bookworm Belle Disney Princess who takes care of herself. When can we get married?

[DonCachondo]

Yo no way! Tell Joe Biden I said hi

[chris0977]

@DonCachondo he might want to feel out the situation before he forgets

[DonCachondo]

@chris0977 or sniff it out! tee hee

[DellBell]

High value women? What do you even mean by that? I think every person has a different perspective when it comes to what makes a high value woman
... if you mean somebody that is kind, honest, ambitious etc... then I would recommend a dating site.

[winterfox10]

I have not had good luck on dating sites actually! I think it all comes down to luck, honestly. Right place, right time, with the right person.

[DellBell]

That's true :) I met my boyfriend on a dating site... the best advice I can give you is to be blunt for what your looking for also some women tend to put what they are looking for in a guy... I hope that helps, I recommend badoo, you never know ;)

[Apope16]

Thats very good advice. But some women get offended or scared of blunt guys.

[DellBell]

True :) if they do then they aren't the one :) a decent woman would respect a guy that is blunt :) the only thing I will say is not come across as to strong to women... like expressing how you feel about them... it will turn them off... just be straight forward with what kind of chick you are looking for and take it from there...

[Guy13]

If you mean high-value women who are traditionalists, prefer Family but work part-time, and/or Stay-Home Mom and homeschooling possibilities then there are quite a few that I know. And many of them are virgins just starting university or graduating. They will be off teh market soon and "all the PhD ladies, 'good guys are married' " soundings will start soon thereafter.

[Cherokeehp]

I don’t like to use the term “high value” because people aren’t objects and all life is priceless, but there are people in this world that are more desired than others. Obviously an attractive, physically healthy, and mentally healthy person with a pleasant personality, and good job is more likely to be desired than a unattractive person, unhealthy, unpleasant, person with no job. Typically desirable people are the type of people that actively work on self improvement and you can typically find them in places that allow them to better themselves physically, mentally, or spiritually. Gyms, book clubs, and volunteer places are really good examples.

[purplepoppy]

Young farmers club (yfc) good place to find landowners. Any girl with a collection of horses is worth a punt. Polo clubs good too.
Marinas, what guy doesn't want a girl with a boat.

[Red_Dragon]

I have heard chicks that have horses are great.

[Apope16]

That sounds hot.

[TheAfrikan]

Well so on point. any other place they love being at.

[TheFlak38]

None of these places are made for high value women. Besides the writing club everything else is for women to virtue signal and try to draw the attention of thousands of men. It's all about "heeeey look at meeeee! I'm shaking my ass when I play volleyball! I volunteer for far Left NGO's and take care of little pets from Africa and the Mideast! Can't you see how good I am? Yeeeaaah I'm special!"
This is not a high value woman. She's a piece of shit and she will treat you exactly like the skank I can find in every night club. In fact sometimes these women are worse.

[chris0977]

My favorite Is the insinuation a woman at the gym, because she has a high income career is "high value".

[OpenNudist]

Just Absolutely No Comment, Laughing Uncontrollably

[chris0977]

@OpenNudist this poster has little conception of reality - seems like all he did is read a bunch of for-profit advice columns in magazines:

"Most likely a girl at a local co ed volleyball team is sexy, fit, and has enough stability in her life to throw down some hard earned monthly cash to be on a league."

How being on a volleyball team equals stability... what he fails to mention, knowing many women on leagues, is many mom & dad pay for volleyball, phone, car, go out drinking/partying constantly... I want to watch a reality show based on the OP's dating life that must be hilarious... "she drinks wine, that means she's sophisticated, and can afford it, which means she's stable & well put together... then reality sets in lol...

Particularly surprised he's in his 30s and still can maintain these fantasies... would think he must've only spent his life with his head in books & barely had any real experience/interaction with women (or potentially reality) of any kind.

[OpenNudist]

You're an Idiot who has no concept of Reality

[chris0977]

@OpenNudist I'd like a little more context that shows some evidence of thought, analysis, judgment before that critique, but I'll agree for the sake of it.

[Apope16]

Good point! But i personally would rather have a career woman who is independent, wants to build a life with me, and is less likely to gold dig... rather than... hot chic who works at the mall and is looking to use her looks to gold dig a hot lawyer. see what I mean now?

[Apope16]

I would like to know what your advice is to find a quality woman. In my analysis, it is a numbers game. Im not promsiing anything here. But I can tell you right now. In an American 66% of women are obese or overweight. 66 percent! Would you rather find your next girl at a Dunkin Donuts or McDonalds or would you rather go to a beach and find a bunch of social girls in bakinis who like to exercise and like to play games outdoors?

[Adam1978]

You need to enjoy the activity yourself for said place to be a good candidate. So most of these goes out the window for that reason only. If you put yourself in a spot you don't belong just to hit on women, you should really question your own worth. Because you are wasting it in hope of finding a woman there.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Exactly! For example, if a guy is at my gym trying to talk to me, he better be a gymrat AND be able to keep up with me.

Don't just go to these spots and assume it's okay to just talk to a woman because you think you can.
Share a common connection with us!

[Porcelaine]

All of these places can have very good women but also very bad. This is the worst giude ever

[Pighttussy]

Thot alert

[Porcelaine]

@Pighttussy ur username tells me all you have on your mind is thots

[gaygod_19]

@Porcelaine Agree lol especially the gym

[Apope16]

@gaygod_19 the gym has bad women too. But i clarified not to go for a thot. Someone working out alone who is focused. Not with a friend for attention.

[MzAsh]

Nice points. I don’t necessarily think meeting a woman at protest rally is a bad thing. At least she stands up for what she believes in.

[Apope16]

Chances are she is protesting because she doesn't have a job during the day. You are more likely to meet a woman who has less income or stability.

[MzAsh]

That’s true

[thegirlfromthething]

As a non-thot gym-goer, I would warn guys not to approach me at the gym. I’m “actually working out”, not trying to socialize romantically or platonically. I don’t even want other women to start friendly conversations with me there.

[Torari]

You wouldn't complain if you met your "soul mate" at the gym. You only mind being approached if the guy approaching isn't attractive to you.

[thegirlfromthething]

@Torari I would only say yes to a guy who approached me at the gym if I already knew and liked him. One of my biggest pet peeves is people talking to me for a non-urgent reason when I’m clearly in a rush or doing something that requires concentration. So if I don’t know him and the first thing he does is annoy me, even a physically attractive guy will turn me off.

[zagor]

That is how I've always felt about the gym. I've seen girls I would have liked to talk to but don't want to invade their space. I know when I'm working out I don't feel particularly social.

[OpenNudist]

Lmfao, Just no Comment as I'm sure you're familiar with OMG Just Way Too Funny, Can't stop laughing uncontrollably

[Apope16]

Understandable. I typically dont approach at the gym because I get annoyed while interrupted as well. I say for guys.. dont approach her during her workout. Approach her at the front desk at the water fountain. At the message sign up sheet. something like that. My hot best friend met her boyfriend at the gym tho. If you have big muscles you can get away with it.

[DianaWest]

so a woman that is not that hot or does not work at the office is dirt under your boots? don't say shit like "high value." the only thing that makes someone lose their value is their behaviour, not their income or their looks.

[OpenNudist]

I love strong independent Girls personally and Professionally. I love Girls who are Smart, Individually Independent, Have a great sense of humor and are sure of themselves. Anything else added I can honestly assure you that I can work with Lol 😁😍😉

[silvermoon84]

Great post! I’m normally the bookish type and I’m always at the library, bookstore or book club 😊

[Anonymous]

Ummm no to all those.

Sporty girls are usually sluts... which is why the olympic village is known as a fuck fest.

Book clubs and volunteer chicks are more likely feminist/social justice nut bags.

Gym girls are often narcissistic attention whores.

[OpenNudist]

I COULDN'T AGREE MORE LMAO

[OpenNudist]

Especially the pornstars that cost 140,000 thousand dollars per appearance to blow every single Congressman in the Republican Party Lmfao

[Anonymous]

@apope16

“Think about it. Are the hottest girls sitting at home and eating while watching movies... or.. are they actually physically active?
Why is that? Is that because girls “sitting at home and eating while watching movies” tend to gain weight more than the girls who are “physically active”?

[Anonymous]

I get the impression you don't really know what a high value woman is.

[Apope16]

What do you think is a high value woman?

[Red_Dragon]

I don't know bro. I like girls who like girls who like girls. I wouldn't go to a protest but I'll gladly take a girl who does go to them or would.

[blank_expression]

I guess a woman with a signed-off organ donor card that rides a motorcycle really fast might become high value for lack of any provided definition.

[Avicenna]

I met an ex girlfriend (Swiss banker) at a jazz festival. Met a medical student at Carnival (Fasching).

[Torari]

I've found high quality women everywhere. Including bars and night clubs.
Though admittedly i've never been to a protest so i haven't tested that.

But the most high quality women percentually, i've met at the gym, and on the hiking trail.

[OpenNudist]

This is Rapidly Decomposing Into A Dating Forum, LMFAO

[TheAfrikan]

Nice information for sure. Those places do match up that n nd of class. It seems you hv one already.

[I-C3_ME]

Can we make a movie about this? Newt Scamander: high value women and where to find them