Men: Avoid Tinder - the odds are just that bad!

[SunnyFlorida]

This video shows a man who created two fake women profiles on Tinder, one average and the other one prettier, with professional photographs. Within a day, the average looking woman got about 400 matches and the prettier woman got about 1,000 matches. The test locale was Miami, Florida.

This video is based on Tinder data and shows women are overly picky. Some women stay on Tinder for years, having a relationship a year and casual sex about ten times a year. Not good wife/LTR material.

Unless you are in the top 5% of good looking men, try fishing elsewhere.

[MsgrDocteurTerreur]

Read the bottom section in your PlayStore/AppStore "About This App".
Below the advantages of Tinder & Tinder Gold it states something like (I translated from Dutch but it should be about the same? xD
"The people in the photos are models and the photos are used for illustrative purposes only."
You check that yourself.

And it makes me SOO angry, because almost 7years ago when I used it on a daily basis, I had descend chats and also meet real people!
-and also few dates back then- But it Worked!
it was Free, there was no T , no subscr. Nothing!
Now I have had some time in wich I was mainly too occupied for a relationship or something, and when I became realy annoyed for Still being alone, I fired up my Tinder again (that was like 2yr ago - when I was already single for 6yrs. 😅)
Only to find out it's useless for people like me who Refuse to pay for apps.
I would instead try finding a way to get Platinum,
-unsuccesfull thusfar-
And find other apps that DO work -or which can be verified to work-.
Never Say I Didn't Warn You

[CasaNorba]

I stopped using that shit +6 years ago.

that shit is a joke. I would match with 100s of women on a monthly basis yet only 10 of them use to actually talked and most of them were single mothers and incel bimbos desperately trying to get into a relationship. like I thought it was supposed to be a hookup app.

yet the ones that do use it for what is for only use it whenever they need free dinner, free favor, attention or anything that benefits them in the long run

[Truthbewithyou]

There are things about Tinder that are not being factored in:

1. Most guys swipe right on every woman to match with the women that swiped right on them.
2. Tinder is known for hookups. Most guys do not need a woman to look like a model to be down to screw her. They just need a decent willing participant.
3. Society

[Truthbewithyou]

My opinion posted before I was able to finish.
Back to Society:
Men get bragging rights for screwing women. Even if most of the women aren't that attractive.
For women this is not the case. Women do not get bragging rights for screwing a men. Women get bragging rights amongst women for screwing men most women desire or want to be with. This is why women are very picky. Most women want hot guys or guys who are hot to them.

[MCheetah]

Also 4. Men have to do all the chasing, leading most average looking women or higher to never be in short supply of suitable partners out there, especially if they live in big cities.
5. Simps exist; inflating even unattractive women's egos to astronomical levels.
6. Hypergamy: Women almost never date a man below their social class. (Looks are the only thing a man can be "worse" than, compared to a woman. In everything else, the man has to be a "better catch" or else she'll think she can do better.)

[EnglishArtsteacher]

I mostly agree, but regarding your second point, almost every woman I come across has "No Hookups" in their profile on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and any other dating app, and/or website. Either they're lying, or Tinder (or any other dating app) isn't "known for hookups" as much as people say it is.

[Truthbewithyou]

@MCheetah My reply:

#4. If we are still referring to tinder, then yes. It's a given. It is a sex based app. The men who do not have to do much chasing are those who are attractive. If you are looks challenged, you will have to put in more work because the attraction to you is at a low. Women who have a low attraction to you, do not have enough attraction to want to sleep with you. The men who are leaving average women and higher with "suitable" (to you, not to me) partners are those who cannot attract those women. A guy who can get someone else will do exactly that. He's not going to sit and wait until she's available.

#5. Yes because again, it's sex based. A woman to sleep with is better than no woman at all. The guys that do this are having a hard time at getting women and getting sex. They're trying to get whatever they can. That doesn't mean they actually want the woman. That means they want what they can get from the woman.

#6. I agree and disagree. The reason why men can be worse looking is because there are a lot of men who aren't that attractive. In some way, we need to find attraction to you. You being able to provide is an attractive trait to a woman. But this one doesn't have much to do with getting laid on Tinder.

[Truthbewithyou]

@EnglishArtsteacher Some are serious, some are lying. If an app wasn't known for sex, then why would she include "no hookups" in her bio... It's because she knows that's what most of the guys want. It also saves face to the public.

[ThrowAwayx404]

That’s because getting laid takes much more effort for men. When something take effort to accomplish, it’s treated as an “accomplishment”. Not saying that it’s right or wrong, but that’s just reality. Women don’t have to do ANYTHING to get sex. They just have to be available.

I don’t get what women don’t understand about that.

[illallowit]

@MCheetah Not in my world! I date younger men often. To be fair.. I am much younger looking than my age, financially independent, also... not an idiot. I don't prefer younger per say. I've dated 20+ years both ways. My only requirement? They can hold their end of a conversation.

[MCheetah]

@illallowit
Really? The only requirement? Care to test me out on that?

[Truthbewithyou]

@ThrowAwayx404 Women don't have to do anything to get sex because our species doesn't want it as bad as yours does. If a man sees that as his accomplishment. Then that's fine. But I hate to burst your bubble... so many of you have the exact same goal. You're not special as a woman because a guy wants to sleep with you. Receiving sex from a man is no prize to a woman, when so many women are getting and so many men are giving the same prize. So, Why should women put in work to get something they can receive so freely?

I don't get what men don't understand about that.

[ThrowAwayx404]

Our species? lmao! Are you retarded? We are literally the same species. lmao! wtf?

[ThrowAwayx404]

You clearly know very little about men.

[ThrowAwayx404]

It's not like women in 2021 are huge narcissist who need constant attention and validation. That's what Tinder is for. There is literally studies on this. It's ok if you can't accept that. Doesn't mean it's not true. Being able to get sex easily has never stopped women from still wanting to continuously feed their narcissistic egos with attention and validation via dating apps, because as well all know, no matter how much attention and validation they already receive, it's never enough. Again, not saying its right or wrong, just saying that that's how it is.

[Truthbewithyou]

@ThrowAwayx404 Lol correction the females of the human species. The point still stands. No I am not retarded.

Well... You went from talking about how women don't have to do anything to get sex to now accusing women of having narcissistic egos. Sure, there are some women who have narcissistic egos but If men believe this and it is true as you say. And there are studies to prove it... then why sign up to an app and feed into a woman's ego?

So now I have two questions.
1. Why do men sign up to an app to feed into the egos of women if that is what tinder is for?

And the one you didn't answer.
2. Why should women put in work to get something they can receive so freely?

[anylolone]

Exactly, which is why men should lose bragging rights for fucking any and every women.
That's women lying to men that they will get a pat in the back for fucking them, it's fake currency and it's only pain and blood, frequently literally.

I've slutted around, being "the carrousel" (as in, the cock carousel) is not fun. Which is why even most PUAs are walking away from the life-style, going either tradcon or MGTOW.
And it's spreading fast to most slutty men.

At least I was fortunate enough to know that female validation doesn't make you a better person, and to understand female mentality from a very young age to know it.

[illallowit]

@MCheetah Wellll.. In the beginning yes. I will fold quickly if they have no ability to communicate. Give one word answers to my questions.. stare at their phone.. Don't ask me any questions. Test you out how?

[MCheetah]

@illallowit
PM me and let's see. (Not saying I want to date you or anything, but I enjoy banter and most people can't keep up and are usually boring.)
"This user allows private messages from followings only!"
You'd have to PM me first, though. I can't write to you.

[ThrowAwayx404]

1) Because men are pathetic. Men are so absolutely void of the levels of attention and positive feedback that women get that they convince themselves that if they simp enough, and provide these narcissistic women with the attention and validation they want, they might be given a chance.

2) I never said women “should” put in more work to get sex. I wasn’t comparing the effort men and women put in to getting sex as a means of arguing that women should put in more effort. I was simply pointing out they don’t need to put in as much effort. That’s not the same as saying the should have to put in more effort. It was more an observation than anything else.

[purplepoppy]

It shows how dumb men are. A photo that looks professional of a model is always going to be a fake pro. Do guys really think women like that need tinder?

[Subarugirl]

That's not true, lol, sure some of them are fake but not all of them. I would know.

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Probably the same men who pay for Onlyfans. com, yet, get mad when women make money on Onlyfans. They don't realize they are the demand, and reason why OnlyFans exists lol.

[SunnyFlorida]

@EnglishArtsteacher My aunt had professional photographs done for her dating profile to increase the chance of finding Mr. Right.

[Subarugirl]

I take photos as a hobby, I have found when I used a good high quality photo I get called a catfish

[ThrowAwayx404]

They don’t need it, and yet there they are.

[ImmortalHanma]

@Subarugirl shut up you don’t know🙄

[Subarugirl]

@ImmortalHanma what are you talking about?

[ThrowAwayx404]

@EnglishArtsteacher that's true, but it's not the only reason why Only Fans exist. OnlyFans exist because of those pathetic, beta simps, but also because females these days are LAZY and don't want to get real, respectable jobs. No, they want easy money that requires ZERO talent, intelligence, effort, because we all know it doesn't take shit to take your clothes off.

[ThrowAwayx404]

@Subarugirl he's not talking about anything. That's why he posted that stupid, intellectually empty reply. He doesn't have anything intelligent to say.

[ImmortalHanma]

@ThrowAwayx404 don’t you know when your being ignored

[illallowit]

@ThrowAwayx404 That's harsh! But.. Where is the lie? I might have to.. against all my feminist better judgement.. agree with that to some degree.

[saltysalad1997]

Go to Europe, they actually put in effort, unlike American women that dont have to try.

[Ryfyle]

@purplepoppy Models are fucking weird. Like a Victorian mansion, great in appearance, filled with fucking ghosts. And those ghosts are fucking crazy about polished rocks and the occult.

[Guy13]

Never been on dating app. It's mostly been bad news since I was 18. Life is messed up enough without those money and time wasters.

[Nomina]

I'm in the middle if watching this podcast. It is interesting so far. It looks at relationships, dating, tinder, sex and a bunch of other stuff.

Fair warning, it's almost two hours long.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-6ZyQKiwMQw

[lilyanony1]

This is nonsense of course the prettier girl will get more hits. She's an unattainable match in real life, virtually it's less embarrassing then walking up to someone you feel is out of your league and getting rejected.
That's not a reason to quit, maybe just make choices according to what is more realistic...

[Deserter]

Nah, he's got a point. Irl you can advertise your personality to attract someone, not online

[lilyanony1]

How often does that work out?

[Deserter]

Pretty good, I've had girlfriends I met at school, through friends, etc. On Tinder you swipe through thousands of girls and you MIGHT get a right swipe back

[lilyanony1]

Then pay and see who your matches are, simple way to cut through the crap. Or is that part of the thrill deluding yourselves into believing you stand the chance of dating the supermodels of tinder?

[Deserter]

Lol that's the point, irl I've had attractive girlfriends. On Tinder I get liked by ugly girls and an average girl every once in awhile. It's bs. You need to be super good looking as a guy to be successful on Tinder. Girls can be ugly and still get success

[lilyanony1]

It's seems the same shallow shit your complaining women are about is the same shallow shit you're guilty of.
I wish you well!

[Deserter]

I'm not shallow. I care about attractiveness to an extent but you don't have to be a supermodel. I'm more than happy with an average girl with a nice personality

[anylolone]

Tinder sucks even if all you want is to find friendships.
No woman ever in tinder who says they only want friends is telling the truth, at least gay guys are honest. But what women want from tinder is the same as gay men, all of them, no exception, which would be ok if they were honest.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Tinder is a hookup app. I don't understand your complaint considering that you are claiming it's bad for anyone looking for LTR. Well.. yeah. That's exactly it's purpose.

[genericname85]

everyone knows, tinder is just n app that is all about making you clinically addicted to using it, like pretty much every software on your mobile phone... it won't help you find a partner. it might help you find a hookup, if you're lucky.

[Wester1967]

Oi vay

[CallmeTheKnight]

Tinder is nothing more than a cesspit. Let's not forget that it's possible that they use bots to match with men to give them hope. It's better to meet someone on Facebook or at least in person

[boobliker]

None of us tell the whole truth all the time and all the white lies are told on here to get lay-ed (YES) so if you want a good partner then put the truth on a page then ask you mum to vet it.

[jshm2]

Tinder isn't for dating, it's for practicing openers - overheard at a lads night out.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I avoid tinder because it's a hook-up app, and I want a wife, not a one night stand. the odds are irrelevant, that app is not meant for actual dating.

[Mossberg500]

I'd like to say "Duh." But even though I pretty much knew what was going to happen, I spent a money on a month subscription to try it out. May as well have burned the money I paid.

[BazookaTrouper]

People actually use dating apps for real? I thought they were little more than havens for predators, blackmailers, and con artists.

[ThrowAwayx404]

That’s correct; we just call the “women”.

[zagor]

In the first video I thought the first girl was more attractive. I question his choices on that regard.

[Evil_Chuck]

I don't even use a smartphone, so no problem there.

[Better_off_here]

be aware of all dating sites to be honest with you. you just have no idea who you are talking to.

[robocop666]

I find women are nicer to me in person that on tinder

[emilley_]

Tinder is a dump truck

[WowwGirl]

Or income bracket top 5%