This is a myTake more with those seeking long-term relationships in mind.

Ever heard of an Instagram baddie? Well, maybe this Take will help you to be a real-life baddie. Forgot social instagram.

19:05 in the video is a testimony of what I am talking about.

Being the opposite of a catfish.

It is a tactic I find myself using, naturally. I want to make sure to show some of the pictures ''I" don't find are the best. It really helps with any insecure feelings, because you know this person already saw and accepted you when you didn't look your best.

It is better to be underestimated and it helps to find someone who isn't shallow (increases the chances at least). Then when they meet you in real life it will be like BOOM, to your face, so impressed.

So when I say ""bad photos", I don't mean "unkempt", you should be neat. Some things you would want to incorporate include good and bad lighting photos, photos with less than 5% makeup, etc. And take heart, you will still be showing your best photos, you just want to have BALANCE.

If you are like me, you ""think"" you look better in the shadows than in bright light..LMAO. I make the effort to show a balance of bright light photos.

She even said en quote "I saw his picture and he had a bit of a pot belly from beer drinking, and I prefer this type of guy to gym guys because they are less likely to be conceited and always checking the mirror. " Lo and behold she meets him and finds he is so handsome but he just takes BAD pictures.

So he is the opposite of a catfish.

The beneficial effect this will have is that your first impression can be "Better than I expected"" rather than "not as good as I thought." It will save time.

I didnt want to use any ladys photos :) — I didn't want to use any ladys' photos :)

s and shadowed photos.

Yes unfortunately this couple has split, but I won't talk about that, just looking at the positives....

Why bad photos are good for you

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