I have come to the conclusion that a man should never date any woman over 30 days.

[Anonymous]

I think any man shouldn't date any woman more than 30 days. By this time the new worn off and she will start shopping for a nother man. It doesn't matter how good you may be to her. Women get bored very quickly and will start shopping for a new man or she will start some drama in your life. Women get bored and need entertainment and drama going to make her life exciting. This is why women fall for the bad boys . Women love the uncertainty of not knowing if a man is going to love her or beat the crap out of her each day. I have seen this play out so many times. I know a lot of you are going to disagree on this but reality shows this to be the way women date.

[HighValue]

I disagree. Dating someone, at least for me is for the purpose of finding a lifelong partner.

[myTake Owner]

Good luck, all that's left are the second handed woman. Some have been pass around a lot.

[Subarugirl]

Well since you are second handed and over the hill yourself, what do you expect?

[myTake Owner]

@Subarugirl maybe over the hill but I get about 3 or 4 DM from women in their 20 and 30 almost every day. They say they want to be my wife or girlfriend.

[myTake Owner]

@Subarugirl we all know that the only time women lie is when they open their mouth.

[es20490446e]

Where do you get those girls from, a whorehouse?

[myTake Owner]

@Subarugirl I'm not shopping for any woman I will have to feed.

[Sasha0426]

Should women just not exist then?

[myTake Owner]

Women are fine for 30 days only.

[Sasha0426]

So I’m guessing you don’t want a relationship?

[myTake Owner]

Not a relationship, the game is to use before she uses you.

[Sasha0426]

Just wait until you mess with the wrong woman.

[myTake Owner]

She won't get to be around long enough to do anything.

[Sasha0426]

Just fair warning. She’s got her best friend and family behind her. Once they get word you hurt her, boy you better run.

[myTake Owner]

Just to make sure you understand. I don't hate women at all, I just don't have any love for them either.

[myTake Owner]

I have gators to feed.

[Sasha0426]

You do whatever. But, once that woman is in tears and telling everyone how much you hurt her, you are f*cked.

[es20490446e]

No need to fuck anyone. Just erased and something else.

[es20490446e]

This dude I mean.

[myTake Owner]

@es20490446e I so want to play this game you are talking about. Name the place and time, I can't wait to start playing.

[es20490446e]

What would be playing?

[es20490446e]

You sound like a gangsta. Probably you don't even have money to travel here :P

[myTake Owner]

How attached can she be in only 30 days?

[Sasha0426]

Well, usually people become official in that time frame. She’s going to think you want something more.

[myTake Owner]

@es20490446e I need you to come to me so I can feed the alligators.

[Sasha0426]

I think you’re being a troll at this point.

[myTake Owner]

But, the sad part about it is that I'm not worng.

[Sasha0426]

Just because you had bad experiences doesn’t mean you need project on everyone else.

[myTake Owner]

I'm still married to the second woman I ever dated. As far as women not exist, women existing if perfectly fine just as long as you don't involve men in your life. Stay in your lane.

[Sasha0426]

With your mindset, how the fuck did you get married? Are you going to divorce your wife soon?

[Sasha0426]

I have so many questions!

[myTake Owner]

No, unless she start being a bothering to me. As of now, we don't talk to each other too much.

[myTake Owner]

Ask away.

[Sasha0426]

Why are you married? Do you hate your wife? What do you mean if she becomes a bother? Why not encourage her to leave you?

[myTake Owner]

We get along fine, we are more like room mates than a couple. She does her thing and I do mine.

[Sasha0426]

So end your marriage right now.

[Sasha0426]

Honestly, I don’t think anything is stopping you from getting a divorce. At this point, there’s no need for you to stay husband and wife since you have no love for your wife.

[RandomGuy1030]

What if he's richer than her. Hed have to pay to get rid of her.

[Sasha0426]

If he hates his wife that much, I would imagine him kicking her out on the streets homeless with no money.

[RandomGuy1030]

Thats not legal

[Sasha0426]

He can easily say she’s trespassing and make up something to get her out.

[SteveSmith1985]

I am going to be one of those who disagrees. I hard-disagree.

Now, I'm not trying to call you a liar or anything like that. I don't doubt that what you just wrote here is backed up from your own experiences and observations. But, here's the problem:

You are describing a caricature of a stereotype. There ARE some women who are like this... but... only a tiny percentage. The kind of woman you're describing is not even close to representing "women" or "most women".

A girl could say the same type of shit using a caricature of a stereotype of "the worst kind of guy"... and it would be equally inaccurate and uncompelling. I'm sure you've seen girls make such posts. Ones like "Why Do All Men Cheat and Lie?".

Nobody is ever convinced by these posts. Your bitterness shines through too much. I'm sorry you've been through whatever you've been through. But... this 'conclusion' you've come to... might be the right one for YOU. I don't know you. However, it's definitely not a good rule for 'men' (broadly).

To be honest... I wouldn't date any women who are of the type you're describing AT ALL. They are not worth 30 days. The women you're describing are really quite repugnant. I agree with you on that. But... what are we talking about here. Maybe 1-2% of women (at most!) are anything like you describe. You may have a disproportionate amount of these types of women around you. But this is just as misguided: "Why Do All Men Cheat and Lie". This isn't wisdom. This just comes off as bitter.

[myTake Owner]

Your turn is coming my friend, just give it time.

[myTake Owner]

Fact, the biggest problem is this, all of what I said is true because the government and the states and the courts will all protect her from her bad choices and help her take you to the cleaners. Men have no protection from what a woman can do to him. All she has to do if she doesn't get her way is to say you hit her or sexual assaulted her, even if you never touch her, you are done. A man and his wife got in an argument and she called the police and they took him to jail. He never touched her. He lost his job and everything he had. He killed himself. He never touched her.

[OlderAndWiser]

If that's the kind of women YOU choose to date, then that is probably a pretty good rule FOR YOU. The rest of us have had better luck than that and been in satisfying long term relationships. Don't assume that everyone has the same experiences that you have had.

[myTake Owner]

How long?

[OlderAndWiser]

17 years. My best friend has been happily married to the same woman for 37 years. My older brother was married to the same woman for 47 years (the marriage ended with her death.)

[myTake Owner]

I have 45 years with my wife and my brothers have more than I do. But our and only sister has been divorced twice and is 55 and single.

[OlderAndWiser]

Not everyone chooses wisely.

[es20490446e]

The third time shall choose the opposite.

[myTake Owner]

Date no, screw yes.

[es20490446e]

Being a hateful beach is just wasting time.

[jennifer_bloom]

Attraction can happen in minutes but compassion and mutual love requires long term commitment. I've heard of people who survive horrific events by loving each other.

[Guy13]

I like the idea of giving your 30 day notice on the first date... How is this working out for you?

[myTake Owner]

Works great, when you never plan to keep her pass 30 days. You don't be stupid and tell her, you tell her that you love her and can't live without her. She will believe anything you tell her. Women are dumb.

[Guy13]

I guess that's working for you but it will not work for me and my hopes...

[es20490446e]

Or you a beach.

[Screenwriter]

Where are you finding these women? Thirty days isn't long enough to get to know someone well. However, maybe you're meaning 30 DATES? Thirty dates could be spread over a while, but even so, 30 times to be together, for say, 3 to 4 hours?

Statistics show that it takes 60 hours of time to become friends with someone in a general sense. Thirty 4-hour dates is 120 hours: enough time to know someone moderately well and to be able to decide if you click.

If you're sincerely stating "30 days," meaning one month's time of seeing someone on and off, not specifically dating them every one of those days, having phone conversations, again, I don't know where you're finding women who are bored with a man after less than a month's exposure to him.

Maybe you're fishing in shallow ponds. Though I think a man should be fun and entertaining, so should a woman.

If 30 days is all you give someone, you'll never get to know them well enough to make a rational decision, unless the person is simply awful, rude, lazy, sloppy, and bored as well as boring.

Unless there are clear red flags, such as ignorance, intolerance, stupidity that crop up right off the bat, or anger and abuse issues, people, especially shy ones, need time to to relax and trust each other. If you have such a short, arbitrary time limit, I'm sure you'll find very few people who are worth your time.

[myTake Owner]

Your not understanding this. I am talking about stopping relationships and marriage completely. No long term relationship and no marriage. People get bored with other people after about 30 days. You F eachother for 30 days and move on to a new person. No time for boredom to set in before its time to change. 30 days only.

[myTake Owner]

Men and women can have 12 sex partner's a year. Women won't have to care about her body count anymore because no one is getting married anymore. Do you understand now?

[Screenwriter]

That sounds exhausting. Though there are those this might service, I don't think most people would want to live this way. Would you want to get 12 new friends a year? It's simply too much.

There's nothing wrong with serial monogamy. You tire of each other after four or five years maybe. But a dozen a year? Really? You're exposing yourself to probable STDs. You won't remember who the hell you're talking to or in bed with.

If you simply take your time and get to know someone for more than a minute, you can usually discover someone you have the probability of spending extended time with. Flipping through people like a pack of cards isn't a viable solution, except for sex addicts. And even they find sex addiction is an. untenable position.

[myTake Owner]

Look at it as a 30 day hook up. No relationship intended. Just sex only. You really don't even need their name.

[myTake Owner]

This way, no money needed from either one of you. You don't spend money on you and you don't spend money on him.

[Screenwriter]

Lordy, lordy. Sex only is pretty empty. I like friends, relationships, enjoying someone's company. I like knowing someone's name and being able to call them for a chat or to rant and rave about stuff. Maybe you can live like this. I think it's more akin to an early death. Whew!

[myTake Owner]

The divorce rates back up my reasoning.

[Screenwriter]

Divorce rates have been at about 50% since time immemorial and since divorce was no longer a moral scourge in the mid 20th century. They have not skyrocketed, nor dipped into oblivion. So half of the people who marry stay together for some amount of time and find out after months or years their relationship no longer works for a host of reasons.

But there is that other half that remains married. There is no longer a heavy religious or communal reason to remain married. People divorce who have young, middle and grown kids. So the kids aren't a reason anymore either. It's true some stay married for financial reasons. But the by and large is people stay married because they're comfortable with the other person or they actually LIKE and LOVE that person and want to keep deepening their relationship with them.

Do you have 30-day friendships? I'd hope not. The best friends that I have are ones I've known for many years, who I can laugh with and at and over the many vicissitudes of our mutual lives. We comfort each other and support each other and when either of us are wrong, we take each other to task.

This is best of marriage too: a longterm friendship that includes sexual intimacy, one would hope and often the raising of children and looking in the same direction together. You're still individuals, too. You do your own things, but you also do many things together and support each other in individual endeavors as well as mutual ones.

Marriage, just like longterm friendship, has the ability to be a lifelong adventure. There's no 30-day anything that substitutes for that.

[Catarine]

There are different stages in a relationship. The first and best stage is the honeymoon stage where you two are getting to know each other and you only see perfection in a partner. After awile (for you it apparently lasts only 30 days) you get to a stage where you start seeing reality, you're not blinded anymore, you see each others flaws and it's a very hard stage to get trough because you have to put in work if you wanna continue with your love journey, you have to communicate, compromise and forgive little flaws. I don't agree with your my take but it's obvious you're not looking for a real relationship but just something casual

[DCowboy4747]

Ok man I need to talk to you. First, probably like everyone else, I am wondering what you have done. Your attitude sounds like you are friend zoning yourself with a lot of females. I admit I do a lot of nice and sweet things for ladies I am interested in, ": but there is a big difference between sexy panties and flowers. You need to Man Up to a point, do it without overpowering her, but be friendly as well. My girls Love the little things I do for them more than the big things. Candy for no reason means more to her than a night at the Opera, but there are times when you need to do the big things just to throw them off. Women are just like a Waltz, you need to know when to sway and when to step.

[myTake Owner]

If you treat a woman special, she will think she is special and start expecting special treatment. Don't open a can of worms you can't get the lid back on.

[DCowboy4747]

That is right, but you need to slowly peel the lid off, not just yank it off. Females really enjoy the little things. Think of it like ripping a band aid off, hurts like hell when you do it, but then it is done. Do these things at a slower pace and they will mean more to her.

[myTake Owner]

Don't take this the wrong way but I have been married for 45 years.

[DCowboy4747]

I've been married for 20, I am a war vet, we spent a lot of time apart, so I do understand what it means to be able to do the little things.

[Anonymous]

Wow, I am sorry that out of the 3.9B women in the world, you have experienced the few bad apples.

It appears you are hurt and from reading the comments.. a tad vindictive against future dates.

Playing games is not going to help anyone but just cause more pain and loneliness for all involved.

Not all women are the same just like not all men are jerks. I wish you the best and hope you find the one for you

[myTake Owner]

No attachment, no pain.

[myTake Owner]

Women have turned sex into no more than a hand shake.

[AdithyaR]

I'd like to quote Batman here

I don't even know where to start my argument disagreeing cause there's just too much to unravel there.
And I'm pretty sure nothing I say will change your mind, so you do you I guess.🤦🤦

[Adaeva]

I change boyfriends almost that often. However, at my age, I'm experimenting and learning about boys.

[myTake Owner]

Go black, they need you more than the white one do.

[myTake Owner]

A high body count will take you out of the marriage material department. Keep going so no man will except you as a wife but only a side peice.

[Adaeva]

It is normal for very young teen girls to date a lot of boys. That is how we learn. Therefore, you have an over-active imagination to believe that having boyfriends means I'm having sex. That is a false belief because my body count is zero and most likely will remain zero for at least the next four years.

[myTake Owner]

You can date all you want but your body count will effect your life and the kind of man you get. It's okay to date but remember men look at how long you keep a relationship to judge how you handle a relationship. If you are all over the place, it look like you can't make up your mind. Research has shown if a woman has over 5 sex partners, her chance of getting a divorce goes up to 80 percent. You should listen to JUSTPEARLYTHINGS. She give good advice most of the time. The women don't like her but she knows how it works.

[Adaeva]

There you go off the deep end again, talking about sex partners when that doesn't apply to me.

[myTake Owner]

It will in time dear, and don't say no body warned you what would happen if you slept around a lot.

[myTake Owner]

Just remember. Your value goes down with each guy you sleep with. Feminism will tell you different, if you believe them then you should marry one of them.

[SteveSmith1985]

@Adaeva This made me laugh really hard. Like actually laugh... really really hard. Thank you for this.

[nawtee_me]

You are wrong in so many ways... Women of any legal age are worth dating at anytime. Age has nothing to do with their ability to love and care for another. Women don't get older, they get better...

[myTake Owner]

No they are not unless you are looking for a who re.

[Subarugirl]

Of maybe you should just not date at all if that is how you feel.

[myTake Owner]

I don't date because I'm married for 45 years. Women were a lot better back then. Not the garbage we see now.

[Subarugirl]

Then why do you even care. Focus on your own woman not others

[myTake Owner]

Trying to educate younger men to avoid you women at all cost. Rent only.

[Subarugirl]

So you just view women as an object to rent but are married….. oh the hypocrisy

[myTake Owner]

Women these days are not wife or mother material anymore. You women are too self-centered and entitled. You women are no longer capable of loving anyone but themselves, not even her own children. If you can't use them, you abort them.

[myTake Owner]

On a side note, just look at your profile picture, you are a beautiful young woman.

[Subarugirl]

Dude, pay attention to your wife. I don’t know what kind of women you are surrounding yourself with, but you’re wrong

[myTake Owner]

I don't let women get around me. It doesn't take me long to make them leave me quickly. When women act like trash, I treat them like garbage.

[Subarugirl]

Then maybe just avoid women all together. If you can’t handle them, then just avoid them until you learn how

[myTake Owner]

Handle them? Why waste time on a lost cause? Men don't put time into thing that not worth his time in the first place.

[myTake Owner]

Give her 25 dollars a load and send her on her way.

[Subarugirl]

You sure do spend a lot of time thinking about things that you yourself claim not to be worth your time in the first place...

[myTake Owner]

Someone has to educate the next generation of men. You never ask a fish how to catch a fish. You never ask a woman how to catch a woman.. women are very mutilating to mem, we have to teach boys how to never let a woman mutilate you. It's an education thing.

[Subarugirl]

So in the analogy you are using, you view men as predators? Well then explain the mindset.

[Subarugirl]

Good fishermen actually learn how to catch fish by studying the fish... by paying attention and learning. You wouldn't ask a broke man how to become a billionaire, you would ask a billionaire. Just like no inelegant person would take relationship advice from someone who has never had a successful relationship...

[myTake Owner]

I have 45 years, one marriage. Very few can say this. Your problem is feminism. The women back in those days were smart enough not to believe the BS the feminist were telling them. The women of today are believing everything the feminists are lying to them about. Feminists are destroying families and marriage. So who do you think will loose in the end? It's not the men. Sex without any responsibility is a man's dream. Feminist has convinced women its their ideal. Body count equal low value to men. You live any way you want, men like hoe's also, we just don't make wife's out of them. We use those women for entertainment only.

[Subarugirl]

Lying about what? I am married too. Just in case you were wondering... and unlike you my husband doesn't whine about other women.

[myTake Owner]

How often do you let him carry his balls with him?

[Subarugirl]

I don’t LET him do anything. He’s his own man and a much better one than you

[myTake Owner]

Time will tell how good a man he is, it will also tell what kind of woman you are.

[Subarugirl]

Better than you so far

[myTake Owner]

You know nothing about me other that you don't like what I have to say.

[Subarugirl]

And based on what you have said thus far... unequivocally

[Cuminginside]

What if you have no questions asked refund return policy

[es20490446e]

I do a variation of that: don't have unreasonable expectations till after three dates.

[Redstang88]

I usually get 2-3 months before they get bored with me

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Are those ALL THE WOMEN IN THE WORLD or just SOME women?

[myTake Owner]

95 percent of the women are only out to use men. Love never comes in to play.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

19 out of 20? I assure Y’all, I’ve met more than 20 women.

[Cheerfull009]

But I have experience of sex with a woman early thirtees, is very fantastic and pleasant

[strateguy632]

not based on days but based on arguments

[LiamJHayden]

Have fun with that.