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Thank you for this my take, it was amazing. Love the fact that people take their time to help people that they don't even know. It really does make me think of who I actually am somehow.. Anyways, I have a question! Can you give a little more details about the self-confidence?
Thanks again for this my take ;)
I know im not the person who shared this mytake but I think I'm able to help you anyways.
When a guy is really confident he knows what he can and can't do. They don't talk themselves down.
They are not arrogant, because that is not 'appealing'
See it like this: you would rather date a girl that stands up straight, has a smile on and knows where she stands, right?
Thats the same exact thing.
I hope this helped you somehow and Im really sorry if I was just talking a lot of shit :D
actually those girl's aren't actually nice... they just want adventure in life... If you know that he's a jerk and he plays women then whats to say he'll change when he's with you?
Stop trying to fix people, its not your job... There are some guys (like myself) who has learnt the hard way that being nice isn't of any use... you gotta lie to get what you want.
Yep, this is spot on.
My first BF was a fake nice guy, showed his true face when I wouldn't sext with him (I was innocent! But thank god I didn't, turns out he was cheating on me waaaaay back with a girl that did that with him ugh...)
Sociopath/Psychopath/Narcissism...
Do a little research on the human brain. Once you can understand why people do things, the chances of you being misled are sig. lowered.
Biology women are programmed to be submissive to men just like children with parents! As soon as we play the dominate role it builds attraction. We only do it for this reason otherwise you won't bother chasing us!
In other cultures (non western) we can play the nice guy card cause men are in the dominate roles in society. As soon as it's equal (western), we have to tap into your primal instincts to bed you!
"don't hate the player, hate the game"
Women are " programmed" to besubmissive-- who programs them?
Biology! That's why in other cultures women are happy to serve men! It's almost illegal to say this cause we live in a society corrupted by Feminism. There was an article on it and I did the research as well including tests and I found it to be true!
If I tell a woman to cook something for me (that I'm seeing) or do something for me, it REALLY turns her on! It's cause I'm taping into her primal instincts. Sex is primal, guys like to watch fighting cause it's primal, etc... I've even played with it more when I broke my leg and went out and the number of women that wanted to help me was alarming! It was so easy to escalate it cause I've already tapped into that part of a woman brain.
Don't hate me, I didn't program the sexes. Just take note of how you feel when you do something nice for someone next!
This also goes back to your title and why today I only date women that enjoy this role cause I HATE being a jerk to women to build attraction! I do it a little with my woman every now and then to spark some attraction tho! She loves being teased :)
@Kalinda just to expand on what @fitnesspm has said, it's all programmed due to evolution. Female creatures chose the male that could protect them the best, that could provide for them. Males chose their mates based on how well they can bear children and how well they could take care of them, themselves included. It's a no brainer that women are hard-wired to be submissive, it's in our nature. I don't care how outspoken you are with males, your brain always wants to submit to the male
Truth indeed. The worst is when you believe they're a good guy and then they show their true colors but its too late cause you are and believe they want to change. This is why its important to be picky initially
Nice girls like to be with jerks because secretly they want to be treated like shit. When you start loving yourself, you will find yourself no attracted to these kind of pricks! Better off being single.
@NeenerNeenerNeener is that now when you give nice girls the definition of innocent, naive and gullible women? Maybe you are right, they deeply long for growth, and the only way they can grow is to be treated badly...
"at least nice girls won't leave you"
Nice guys leave you?
Your argument is extremely biased. You make it sound like nice girls get hurt and it's so hard to bounce back as a girl.
It's the same on both ends honey. Stop acting the victim.
this was fucking retarded. https://i.imgur.com/xG6UulZ.jpg
they are no fooled, they are just dumb, you see the other reason why they get jerks is the fact is its not just good looking guys, they go for the muscle, girls think if they get all dolled up and look sexy they think the guy will want her and her alone and think they can change them.
fact is girls dont want a nice guy they want a robot man they can control
Yeah been out with few jerks. Never again give me a shy guy anyway. There's confidence then there's arrogance. Hate players an charmers its all an act. Its obvious to me now when someone genuine an when someone is out to deceive me.
I don't like jerks. Once i realize it.. i go after a nice guy.. the jerks may get initial attention but that only goes so far. If all i wanted to do was fuck... then i will fuck him up! Lol player meets player. game on!
Maybe those nice girls feel insecure about themselves and don't think they can do better so they settle for less.
Well, I know a guy, who isn't clingy, keeps his emotions composed and is mysterious. He doesn't care about looks and doesn't fuck it and duck it with women. He gives hugs, cuddles, and doesn't act like a d! ck. Not all guys are the same.
Jerks are NOT mysterious, are you kidding me? Jerks are usually attention whores which makes them seem self confident because they love being the center of attention.
Wow. Reading this made me feel deep about this. I mean, I already felt strongly about this but I feel like I've seen this or been through this. I have a boyfriend and people call him a player and stuff. He doesn't seem like one and I trust him completely. I am keeping an eye out on him but how do you deal with this type of thing?
the point is you shouldn't need to keep an eye out on him... it's not how others see him... it's how you see him... if everyone sees him as a player and you don't... either you see the real him and should trust him... if you need to keep an eye on him... then you may be hiddi g the truth from yourself.. he might just be what people say... if you can't trust him totally.. then it's time to take a step back and look at the whole picture
If she likes jerks then she isn't much of a nice girl.
Not so complicated. Normally they have money orower, and from that stems their confidence..
Girls are not 'fooled'. They know the guy's a jerk... but a high-status one.
girls are just stupid and shallow,
they say they want one thing but want another...
They want men to see them as more than an object yet go for the men who will treat them as such...
I really think the part of the brain that uses logic and reason is less developed in women than men
Lol someone's hurt
yes i am hurt
i am glad you think its funny, you see perfect example of bitch behavior
there have been studies that show a man's wealth boosts his attractiveness, regardless of looks, personality
women don't care about anything but themselves...
they are all insecure because they know they have little to offer but there body thats why you have 100's of girls asking about there looks on this site, because if they are ugly who would want them?
Even a man downvoted you...
that proves nothing, i dont care if people agree with me or not
all i want to say is when i become wealthier in my 30's i will just keep using young women, there will be a whole generation of nice guy (idiots) making love to polluted women, poor souls
So your solution for women treating you poorly is treating women poorly also? Isn't it possible that maybe your type is bad women? Honestly, I feel like I usually have this talk with females about males but I suppose it goes both ways. You seem to have mixed up priorities. Focus on what's inside rather than what's outside and there you'll find the person you belong with.
personally I think that girls sometimes know that the bad boys are bad but they play nice and girls love the idea of the anti-hero, the guy who is a badass but "has a good heart"