I ruined our first date...he is still texting daily but no talk of 2nd date...is he keeping me as an option? (Page 2)

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So I had been crushing on this guy for a few months when he made a move on me on night out...for weeks after we texted daily and spoke on the phone couple of times a week.
 I wasn't sure if it was going anywhere but he eventually asked me out.. to cut a long story short it was a pretty disastrous first date..I got pretty drunk. He wasn't impressed and said he needed time to think about whether he wanted to continue things...
I gave him space and didn't contact him. After about a week he text me..nothing about us or the date just general chit chat and he has text me everyday since..
So I'm really not sure if he's just stringing me along or is actually considering meeting again...to be honest this daily texting is meaning he is constantly in my thoughts. 
If he is only keeping me as an option I need to distance myself from him...any advice on how to handle it and/or find out where I stand? I dont want to be rude and not reply to his texts as he normally asks a question. Also I do like him and dont want to ruin any chance we have of working.

Anonymous · Answer

I think he was turned off but got over it, or he wouldn't text ya. Ask him out again, he'll say yes!

Anonymous · Answer

I think he's trying to give you another chance. Let it happen naturally, no need to back off.

Anonymous · Answer

just ask him to hang out…if he gives a lame excuse then u have your answer

Anonymous · Answer

maybe he is confused and trying to get to know more about you! or he likes to take it slow..

cocorambo · Answer

He's waiting for you to ask him out

jacqueline15 · Answer

YES. why would he still be texting?

Anonymous · Answer

Why don't you suggest you guys do something?

I ruined our first date...he is still texting daily but no talk of 2nd date...is he keeping me as an option? (Page 2)

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