When you're seeing someone it means you Frequently see them. There's a pattern. It does not require things to be serious, at all. It's just about how much of a given it'll be to see them again.
NOT seeing someone means it always has been up in the air if you're ever going to see them again.
Me Seeing Someone EXAMPLE:
Buddy: "Hey Torsh, what are you doing this weekend?"
Me: "Hmmm, no plans. Me and Traci will be hanging out Friday or Saturday, but don't know where we'll be going -- no plans on that. Why, what are you up to?"
In that example, me and Traci don't have to set "dates". That's the key. It's a given. We both know we're going to see each other in a matter of days -- it'd be weird if we didn't. Hence, we're seeING each other.
You were casually dating a guy for 3.5 months. Congrats, you have been seeing him for 3.5 months.
Most Helpful Opinions
Guy your seeing = Something there but not exclusive in my opinion
In that scenario you wouldn't call him your boyfriend and he wouldn't say you are his girlfriend.
Side note: Sounds like he is playing a bit so don't get too attached. His cheating on her with you should raise at least a caution flag with you. He will do it again. Bet money. If you are enjoying the dynamic then enjoy. I want you to not be surprised if you catch him cheating on you. You may have already.
Trust me on this.
Eagle
A guy who cheats with you will cheat on you.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
1Opinion
Simply that. A guy that you are seeing. It means he has no lasting commitment to you (at the moment) and that he doesn't view you as a girlfriend. If he just got out of one relationship he might not want to jump into another one.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions