I know I'm gonna get blasted by guys on this, but I was wondering if the 2nd & 3rd date is too early to split the bill? He paid for me the 1st date, and I was really surprised when he accepted my offer to split on the 2nd, and then actually asked me to split on the 3rd. Also he works full-time & knows I'm not in a great financial situation right now. I'm all for equal rights but I can't feeling a bit disappointed, like if he was really serious he'd be willing to invest a bit more. I've had bfs in the past & they've always had no problem paying for at least the 1st month or so. He wants to go out again, but I'm not sure I'm feeling it (he seems like a nice guy otherwise).. am I being totally unreasonable about this?
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Hmm that's a tricky one. My ex didn't let me pay for a date.. not once. But all guys are different it really just depends since a lot of people are not traditional. You should probably observe how he treats you in other ways.0