If you were a very busy man with a lot of responsibilities and a high pressure job, but you were in love with someone. How often would you call/email/text her? I mean, would it be every day. Every couple of days, several times a day? If you went a couple days without contacting her would that mean you didn't like her that much or you were just really busy?
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I do have the same problem, me for example if I really love her so much I would think of her all day. it always happens this way, at the beginning it would be something like texting her on the morning, at my lunch break and after I get home, and of course calling her late at night and we talk for like 2 or 3 hours in spite of the fact that I have to get early next morning.
after couple of months this become hectic and I start seeing my self loosing my job, you can say it is something in me! I know I wouldn't loose it but I just get that terrible feelings that I'm giving my girl a lot of time so I start texting her once a day and some times I call her late at night but for like 10 mins.
I thought about it deeply and found that I used to show a lot of care at the beginning cause I wanted her to get involved with me in a relationship, it doesn't mean that I'm playing!! but come on I'm human and under pressure all time. after a while things become like a very lousy routine so I have to keep it up and running. as I told ya at the end I do show her some care but not as much as I should give but I make it all up to her at the weekend when we go dating and spending the night of Fri and Sat at my place. so believe me if he really loves you he will be thinking of you as much as you do, but being under pressure may result to not to ask as much as before. the most important thing is does he make it up to you at the weekend! if not than there you go, may be he is not in love with you any more!!! :-)1