It can be a turn on too, it's just that I'm more often turned on by light skin. I can't help that. In the end it doesn't matter that much since the personality is more important in being attracted to someone.
I don't knowwww anon :( Maybe it's a psychological or cultural thing, who knows? Don't worry about it so much. I promise it's not as big of a deal as you think it is.
It IS a big deal. It's a huge deal. My confidence, self esteem, worth and purpose is tied into my skin tone that most men dont think is worth crap. I dont even know why I exist since most men dont even prefer my skin tone
It's not worth crap. I'm pretty sure no one said that. Your existence isn't defined by your ability to attract men you know. And you can. As long as you love yourself and you have confidence, you're still attractive. Focus on that, and not the fact that you don't have x or y quality.
Skin is not much a factor as you think it is. It's very low on my preference list.
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I myself am a light skin black boy and I personally only light black girls preferably darker or my tone, or I Like Latina girls. If I had to choose between what I just listed I'd choose dark skin black girls
Because I'm white and I've always just preferred lighter skinned women. You need to realize I'm just one guy out of billions. There are guys out there who prefer dark skinned.
But a lot of guys feel the way you do that's what im asking. and so what if you are white, you dont have to prefer lightskin over dark. A lot of dark black guys share the same preference as you too. I just want to know why my skin tone is not more celebrated
*some* do. It's still a small percentage. Majority of people stick to their own race. The ones who do mix are the minority statistically. It's not a bad thing at all its just how things are. Plus black guys usually date lighter skinned women for a trophy.
You shouldn't be worried with people who don't make you a priority and worry about the guys that will. I completely understand where you're coming from I do see black women being bashed and wrongfully so. That being said just ignore them and keep looking for the guy who finds you as his ideal.
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I feel like I gravitate towards lighter skin tones, whether the girl is black or not.
Why?
It's not that I don't like darker skin, I'm just turned on much more by lighter skin. This especially:
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Theending, so why can't darkskin be just as much of a turn on? I dont even know why I even exist since so few men find my skin tone ideal.
It can be a turn on too, it's just that I'm more often turned on by light skin. I can't help that. In the end it doesn't matter that much since the personality is more important in being attracted to someone.
But why is lighter skin more of a turn on? WHY?
I don't knowwww anon :( Maybe it's a psychological or cultural thing, who knows? Don't worry about it so much. I promise it's not as big of a deal as you think it is.
It IS a big deal. It's a huge deal. My confidence, self esteem, worth and purpose is tied into my skin tone that most men dont think is worth crap. I dont even know why I exist since most men dont even prefer my skin tone
It's not worth crap. I'm pretty sure no one said that. Your existence isn't defined by your ability to attract men you know. And you can. As long as you love yourself and you have confidence, you're still attractive. Focus on that, and not the fact that you don't have x or y quality.
Skin is not much a factor as you think it is. It's very low on my preference list.
I myself am a light skin black boy and I personally only light black girls preferably darker or my tone, or I Like Latina girls. If I had to choose between what I just listed I'd choose dark skin black girls
I love them both. Love your sexy dark skin too.
I lij. ke all blackgirls but im white and feel im not worthy of their beauty:(
I prefer dark skin black girl
Too bad she's gonna ignore your comment and continue ranting.
Another victim of white mentality.
What a shame.
lightskin black... REDBONES
Light skin. The paler the better.
Both can be attractive
I prefer light skinned usually
why do you prefer lightskin over dark?
Their features are closer to white which is my preference. I'd still go out with a darker skinned girl if she matched my criteria.
It sucks not being a guy's top preference.
Why is lightskin your preference and not dark? What's wrong with it?
Because I'm white and I've always just preferred lighter skinned women. You need to realize I'm just one guy out of billions. There are guys out there who prefer dark skinned.
But a lot of guys feel the way you do that's what im asking. and so what if you are white, you dont have to prefer lightskin over dark. A lot of dark black guys share the same preference as you too. I just want to know why my skin tone is not more celebrated
Because people tend to gravitate to people who are similar to themselves. Why is it that most black women prefer black men? Same exact reason.
Black men don't always gravitate to black women, they date out all the time and prefer light skin, so explain that?
*some* do. It's still a small percentage. Majority of people stick to their own race. The ones who do mix are the minority statistically. It's not a bad thing at all its just how things are. Plus black guys usually date lighter skinned women for a trophy.
Many black guys prefer lightskinned women when they do date inside their own race. Why is my skin tone not a trophy? What isn't it prized?
You shouldn't be worried with people who don't make you a priority and worry about the guys that will. I completely understand where you're coming from I do see black women being bashed and wrongfully so. That being said just ignore them and keep looking for the guy who finds you as his ideal.
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