Girls are always saying how nice I am and that I'm the kind they all want. I'm fairly confident, 6ft 3, well spoken, dress nicely, polite, friendly. I'd never cheat on a girl, I know what the feeling is like to be cheated on so thats why I can never do this. Girls always show interest then when I ask them to hang out and tell them what we're doing they always reject my in a "nice" way (we're just friends/we will see/maybe....) I'm not a push over like most people think, I can be a nasty little bastard if I wanted to be but I'm not changing for anyone. The girls I ask always end up dating someone else then talking to me like I could be a potential, maybe in the future or something like that. Basically a plan B, then 2 years later down the line tell me that they really liked me. If that was the case why didn't they date me back then? It's too late for them to come back the boat has departed. When ever I go out with my friends one is gay and he has so many girls trying to get with him and he rejects them all (why they try him I don't know) and my other friend is similar to me but more confident than I am, shorter and fatter than me and can't seem to get a girl either. I've had 2 female friends try to set me up and everytime has failed. I go for girls around 2 years younger than me. I tried clubs, pubs, malls,online dating, pool halls, no results. I try many different approaches, player approach, friendly approach, friendly but making my intentions clear, I have tried many types of girls, shy, goth, hipster, even the slutty gurls and still they're not interested. The guys at my work can't seem to work out why no girls want to date me. I don't know what else I can do any tips?
Most Helpful Girl
How attractive are you? Throughout all of this I haven't seen a single thing talking about how attractive you are.
If a girl says that, she means that you're a good guy, but not attractive enough/her type or vice versa.
Sure, they want a guy with your personality. Who wouldn't? But the looks is probably the clincher.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Guy
It seems to me that you are either boring, awkward or 'not hot'. Basically, you're a decent guy but you completely lack sex appeal. Maybe girls hit on you and it goes over your head. Maybe the conversations aren't as interesting as you think they are. Maybe you never let on that you're interested until you ask them out so it throws them off. Maybe you have unrealistic standards for the women you ask them out so you're asking 'above your league'. Or maybe those girls are being nice and you just aren't that good looking. I'd guess it's probably not that one because ugly guys can usually get women if they're very socially competent.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE