Most Helpful Girl
How attractive are you? Throughout all of this I haven't seen a single thing talking about how attractive you are.
If a girl says that, she means that you're a good guy, but not attractive enough/her type or vice versa.
Sure, they want a guy with your personality. Who wouldn't? But the looks is probably the clincher.1
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Most Helpful Guy
It seems to me that you are either boring, awkward or 'not hot'. Basically, you're a decent guy but you completely lack sex appeal. Maybe girls hit on you and it goes over your head. Maybe the conversations aren't as interesting as you think they are. Maybe you never let on that you're interested until you ask them out so it throws them off. Maybe you have unrealistic standards for the women you ask them out so you're asking 'above your league'. Or maybe those girls are being nice and you just aren't that good looking. I'd guess it's probably not that one because ugly guys can usually get women if they're very socially competent.0