So, I have been on 3 dates/hangouts with this guy so far and we have known each other/been talking for about 2 months. He has made it clear he likes me through words but not actions. He texts me everyday, good night/morning, how are you? etc. etc... it gets really repetitive and boring. I gave this guy a chance because he is really sweet, dorky, and not forward. I have only let him kiss me on the cheek so far, as he hasn't tried doing anything else (he sort of just waits for me to make the move I guess). We are both students, about the same age, same ethnicity (not that it matters really) and have similar interests.
Side note: last date was dinner, I drove and we split the check... which seems strange to me especially since I'm a lady, I drove, and it's just the beginning.
Problems I have with him:
-he doesn't make enough effort to see me/get to know me, yet spends time texting me everyday (only called me once after I suggested it) and lives 5 minutes away
-he doesn't have a car, which makes this more awkward bc I don't want to pick up a guy I barely know or just keep meeting up like buddies -_-
-he doesn't seem to have that much money, he doesn't work (i work and go to school)
What should I do? It has been over a week since we have seen each other, we live literally 5 minutes away from each other when I get back home from school (his school is close to my home), and I have already hinted to him that it would be easier if he had a car. The longest we have gone without seeing each other was 2 weeks (he went home over break, but could have seen me sooner since his home was only 45 min away and could have borrowed a car).
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You said you gave him a chance ". . . because he was not forward."
And then you're expecting him to be forward? ; )
Look, if you like him, which it seems you do and you say he likes you (are you SURE he likes you?) and you know he's not forward, be--what I would call--the "passive" initiator.
Next time you guys are hanging out and you want him to kiss you, say something like, "you have really nice lips. Are you a good kisser?" Lean in a bit while you're doing it, and if he doesn't fuckin' get the hint (he may not, he seems a bit inexperienced), "dare him" to kiss you.
I wouldn't normally recommend a woman be this forward, but since he seems a bit chicken, you've got to make the bait pretty damn obvious.
Let us know how it goes.
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