Side note: last date was dinner, I drove and we split the check... which seems strange to me especially since I'm a lady, I drove, and it's just the beginning.
Problems I have with him:
-he doesn't make enough effort to see me/get to know me, yet spends time texting me everyday (only called me once after I suggested it) and lives 5 minutes away
-he doesn't have a car, which makes this more awkward bc I don't want to pick up a guy I barely know or just keep meeting up like buddies -_-
-he doesn't seem to have that much money, he doesn't work (i work and go to school)
What should I do? It has been over a week since we have seen each other, we live literally 5 minutes away from each other when I get back home from school (his school is close to my home), and I have already hinted to him that it would be easier if he had a car. The longest we have gone without seeing each other was 2 weeks (he went home over break, but could have seen me sooner since his home was only 45 min away and could have borrowed a car).
Most Helpful Guy
You said you gave him a chance ". . . because he was not forward."
And then you're expecting him to be forward? ; )
Look, if you like him, which it seems you do and you say he likes you (are you SURE he likes you?) and you know he's not forward, be--what I would call--the "passive" initiator.
Next time you guys are hanging out and you want him to kiss you, say something like, "you have really nice lips. Are you a good kisser?" Lean in a bit while you're doing it, and if he doesn't fuckin' get the hint (he may not, he seems a bit inexperienced), "dare him" to kiss you.
I wouldn't normally recommend a woman be this forward, but since he seems a bit chicken, you've got to make the bait pretty damn obvious.
Let us know how it goes.
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Most Helpful Girl
Ya know what? My guy is very much like that.
We've been together for pretty long and went out only once. (That too on my request and he was acting all weird and nervous the whole time.) The reason being that we're from conservative families but we can easily go without anyone knowing. But he never asks me to go. :(
So now I've given up I'm gonna see how far he can go without seeing me.
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