Looks matter but even tho that I get called out as good looking or people say I could be a model, if I were few cms taller, there are still people who say I am the worst looking person they've seen or any other insulting stuff. There will be someone who likes your appearance and then you just have to be the best of yourself
Totally agree brother. In high school I was all shy and skinny and awkward and did a complete transformation and NIGHT and DAY difference in dating. We're all reliant on physical attraction and that is ok--just the way it is.
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I have been both ugly and good looking in high school. Due to allergies I was having, I'd turn into a completely mess out of nowhere. When I wasn't getting allergies, I looked normal and healthy. Girls would come up to me, talk to me, laugh, flirt, etc, even like the popular cheerleaders and shit. When I got ugly all of those same girls stopped talking to me LOL. its how the world works unfortunately
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They definitely matter, but they aren't everything.
The problem with that statement is that some people think they can discount looks completely because of that.
You have to have sexual attraction for any romantic relationship to work.
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I see you made no effort to do research on highly attractive people, "most eligible bachelors" whose images are far from perfect. Finding out why they are sought after w/o "looks" might be enlightening.
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Looks matter but even tho that I get called out as good looking or people say I could be a model, if I were few cms taller, there are still people who say I am the worst looking person they've seen or any other insulting stuff. There will be someone who likes your appearance and then you just have to be the best of yourself
Of course looks matter, they matter for first impressions. But if you're utter shit in every other department, nobody will stick with you.
Totally agree brother. In high school I was all shy and skinny and awkward and did a complete transformation and NIGHT and DAY difference in dating. We're all reliant on physical attraction and that is ok--just the way it is.
I have been both ugly and good looking in high school. Due to allergies I was having, I'd turn into a completely mess out of nowhere. When I wasn't getting allergies, I looked normal and healthy. Girls would come up to me, talk to me, laugh, flirt, etc, even like the popular cheerleaders and shit. When I got ugly all of those same girls stopped talking to me LOL. its how the world works unfortunately
They definitely matter, but they aren't everything.
The problem with that statement is that some people think they can discount looks completely because of that.
You have to have sexual attraction for any romantic relationship to work.
I see you made no effort to do research on highly attractive people, "most eligible bachelors" whose images are far from perfect. Finding out why they are sought after w/o "looks" might be enlightening.
Looks do matter. I want to take whatever the people who said looks don't matter take, it must be some powerful stuff.
According to society, looks matter. A lot. Kind of hard to deny this.
But - it makes good evolutionary sense that looks matter to us ans they do to almost all other sexual species.
Looks will always matter, but personality matters more.
Looks do matter, obviously. They create attraction.
Unfortunately, not everyone is blessed with eye candy :/
Looks matter, but they aren't everything. I like to consider looks as the worm on the hook.
Looks let the game begin. Personality is how you play the game.
Obviously looks matter. Sexual chemistry must be there.
Of course they matter that's the reason why I'm still single. I'm just too ugly
You are lying to yourself if you answered looks do not matter. It is unfortunate part of human nature.
Yup they definitely matter.
That's why I only hang out with blind people.
of course they matter!
About yay much