How do you Netflix and chill without being the one to ask?

Question

A girl friend wants to just netflix and chill with a guy. He wants to too. My friend doesn't want to ask the guy so he can say she initiated it first. Just keeping it safe.

Answer 1

nativepride73

Xper 5

You stop using the term "Netflix and chill". Secondly, if she is so sure that he wants to then I don't see why she can't just ask. There is nothing wrong with initiating a sexual relationship. If she really doesn't want to ask for whatever reason, then she should just drop heavy-handed hints and telling him when she would be free and stuff and leaving it open ended.

Asker

+1 y
I really like your answer.

Answer 2

Asker

I really like your answer.

Answer 3

JustinCaseUDontKnow

Guru

Yes, but teen guys have more on their mind then to watch Netflix so yes want play it safe

Answer 4

mackrose

Xper 2

Im confused, why doesn't your friend want to ask him to hangout and watch netflix?

Asker

+1 y
He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone
mackrose

+1 y
Okay your question is not referring to her asking a guy to hangout and chill, its "my friend wants to ask a guy to hangout to hookup and/or have sex with him and doesn't want people to know she's the one that asked because she doesn't want to look like a slut or whatever"
Asker

+1 y
Yesssssss thats it!
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mackrose

+1 y
your friend shouldn't be having sex if she is this much of a child still. sorry

Answer 5

Asker

He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone

Answer 6

mackrose

Okay your question is not referring to her asking a guy to hangout and chill, its "my friend wants to ask a guy to hangout to hookup and/or have sex with him and doesn't want people to know she's the one that asked because she doesn't want to look like a slut or whatever"

Answer 7

Asker

Yesssssss thats it!

Answer 8

mackrose

your friend shouldn't be having sex if she is this much of a child still. sorry

Answer 9

Grace_Rdz | 326 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Whichever "Netflix & Chill" you're talking about here, just ask him...

Asker

+1 y
I should have said sex. I just don't want to break girl code behind her back
Grace_Rdz

+1 y
Wait, girl code? I'm confused now._. Does your friend like the guy or something?
Anyways, my thoughts are these:
There's nothing wrong with initiating sex as a girl. It's ok, I promise.
You also don't have to straight up ask him for it, though, you could just start making out which will obvs eventually lead to sex. Just go for it, why wouldn't you if you say he wants it too?

Answer 10

Asker

I should have said sex. I just don't want to break girl code behind her back

Answer 11

Grace_Rdz

Wait, girl code? I'm confused now._. Does your friend like the guy or something?
Anyways, my thoughts are these:
There's nothing wrong with initiating sex as a girl. It's ok, I promise.
You also don't have to straight up ask him for it, though, you could just start making out which will obvs eventually lead to sex. Just go for it, why wouldn't you if you say he wants it too?

Answer 12

teawrecks | 772 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

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Asker

+1 y
Lol I saw that today

Answer 13

Asker

Lol I saw that today

Answer 14

Xelebrum

Yoda

Okay are you referring to Netflix and chill, or "Netflix and chill"?

Asker

+1 y
He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone. Sex

Answer 15

Asker

He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone. Sex

Answer 16

Octavius

Guru

I hate that new expression. It's ruined both netflix and the word chill. And just the way people say it sounds really really stupid.

Asker

+1 y
Lol it ruined netflix lmao

Answer 17

Asker

Lol it ruined netflix lmao

Answer 18

Anonymous

So this is the new thing. netflix and chill - really means cuddle and rub your boner on her. Ah ok i see

Asker

+1 y
Sex...
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Oh yea lol

Wow

Answer 19

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Sex...

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

Oh yea lol

Wow

Answer 21

Anonymous

your friend is retarded. "My friend doesn't want to ask the guy so he can say he initiated it first"... really?

Asker

+1 y
Reputation kills people if it's ruined. I think she's smart
Opinion Owner

+1 y
that literally might be one of the dumbest reasons i've ever heard. so the fact that you validated the fact that they both like each other and are down for it isn't enough for her to ask him... and what is he gonna tell and how is it gonna "ruin her reputation"?
Asker

+1 y
The guy wants her to ask even though they've talked bout it. She just doesn't want him to turn around and say she asked first if somehow his friends find out. But thank you Im telling her to go for it

Answer 22

Asker

Reputation kills people if it's ruined. I think she's smart

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

that literally might be one of the dumbest reasons i've ever heard. so the fact that you validated the fact that they both like each other and are down for it isn't enough for her to ask him... and what is he gonna tell and how is it gonna "ruin her reputation"?

Answer 24

Asker

The guy wants her to ask even though they've talked bout it. She just doesn't want him to turn around and say she asked first if somehow his friends find out. But thank you Im telling her to go for it

Answer 25

micheal727jovanie | 805 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

just put some breaking bad

Asker

+1 y
He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone

Answer 26

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He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone

Answer 27

SuccessfulOVO

Xper 6

Just invite them over for Netflix. Then, chill.

Answer 28

A-Y-Y-Y--L-M-A-O

Xper 6

invite to home
put Netflix then fuck

Answer 29

LordZero

Xper 5

Tell the guy to ask your friend.

Asker

+1 y
Won't he think it's really her tho? What do I say

Answer 30

Asker

Won't he think it's really her tho? What do I say

Answer 31

greycadillacs | 303 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Is this sex? I'm so behind the phrases these days

Asker

+1 y
Sex. He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone
greycadillacs

+1 y
Just ask to hang out and then start making out. Then move up to sex. Nobody really asked. It just happened
Asker

+1 y
Wow thats smart. I feel dumb
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greycadillacs

+1 y
Haha nah. Hope all goes well with your friend!

Answer 32

Asker

Sex. He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone

Answer 33

greycadillacs

Just ask to hang out and then start making out. Then move up to sex. Nobody really asked. It just happened

Answer 34

Asker

Wow thats smart. I feel dumb

Answer 35

greycadillacs

Haha nah. Hope all goes well with your friend!

Answer 36

Waffles731 | 515 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

For a second I thought you said chili.

Asker

+1 y
He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone. Sex

Answer 37

Asker

He might sayshe iniated first if it doesn't work or if he tells someone. Sex

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